There is no one place to look. Sometimes you will watch his face to see his reactions. Sometimes you will just look at any part of him that makes you feel good to look at.Sometimes you will look at his penis to be sure you are stroking him well and not holding your hand at a strange angle or that he needs more lube. Also, during the times you are going slowly and caressingly, you will want to watch his penis to help you be more familiar with what you are feeling, like going over the rim, and running your thumb or finger around on the head. You will want to see the little twitches it sometimes does, and see how he reacts to different touches.
You can look anywhere you want. Look at a part of him that increases the pleasure you are receiving. Look into his eyes. But probably best is to lean back, close your eyes, and just enjoy the feeling, perhaps imagining what his touching you down below looks like to him.. You don't have to look anywhere particular, or even look anywhere at all. Enjoy!
Look at his eyes, if he can't keep eye contact look at what you're doing to make sure it's still lubricated. When you're getting fingered, look at the person, they might be looking to see your reaction. It's also pretty hot. I'll ask a girl to show me what she likes if I get tired. If the guy is too focused on the task, look wherever you want. Show some kind of reaction though so he knows he's doing a good or bad job.
I always just look at him, run the fingers from my free hand through his hair. Not necessarily staring at him, but looking at his face. Smiling. Enjoy what you do, whatever you do to please him. When you are being fingered, do similar, don't fake anything or do anything unnatural, just smile and look at him, and if you orgasm, orgasm naturally of course. You don't need to "do" anything if you are just receiving unless you want to give him a handjob at the same time. Just have fun and enjoy :) It'll come naturally during the moment I'm sure.
I guess it really depends on what he likes or what he finds attractive. I guess it depends on how you are doing it and where you're at when you give him one. More than likely you'll look at him.
2) Enjoy yourself? If he is good at it that is...but I'm sure it will be fine...You can also play with your breasts/nipples. Moaning helps. Or playing with your clit. yup.
Have fun and be safe =)
when I'm being fingered I usually am looking at the ceiling, that was for the first few times then when I became more comfortable I looked at him
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When you're doing it to him, look at him and smile, but don't stare.
And just enjoy it when he's doing stuff to you.
I would be focusing on his eyes.. Eye contact can be very intimate. Plus, you can tell a lot about his pleasure that way.
It's all up to you, but here is what your look may mean:
If you look at penis, you probably care what you are doing, focused, perhaps fascinated - it's all good, but if it's the only place you look you may miss crucial feedback on whether he is enjoying.
If you look at his chest, legs etc, perhaps caress with other hand - it also feels nice, but remember to look for feedback. If he is shaking with anticipation you are doing great.
If you look at his face, especially eyes it means that you really care about him and his pleasure - this is your feedback. If you see pleasure you are doing it right, thus your continued stare shows your confidence, if you overdo it, it may seem as a witchcraft. If you don't see pleasure, perhaps you are too rough, too little lubrication etc.
If you look away or shut your eyes closed all the time - it means that you don't care, it is a chore to you, the guy may think he is raping you. That's a massive turn off, just don't do it at all, he will run away without looking back.
Most importantly, don't be shy: at this point you are at the most intimate level and there is nothing to hide. If unsure read about erogenous zones: anatomically/fundamentally we are all the same, the differences are in psychology, upbringing etc - these are the nuances to ask, discuss and/or explore or even discover for both of you.
Eye contact is pretty big for me.
Don't look down the barrel!
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