I've only given head to one guy and the first time he asked if it was okay for him to finish in my mouth. I thought it was really sweet, it made me feel respected in a situation that can sometimes feel a little dirty/degrading. My personal philosophy is that if I'm going to put a penis in my mouth I'm pretty much prepared to swallow... but if I'm not in the mood I can usually tell when he's getting close and then make other arrangements, like on my boobs or something. I don't really see it as the guy's responsibility to ask permission or restrain himself if I've been with him for a while... I just decide how I feel like finishing him and do it. In your case that might not work out for you if you are interested in cuming in her mouth every time... but really it's up to her and you can't make her enjoy it. But yea if I were you I'd just go for it, it's her job to decide what to do from there.
I like for him to give me some kind of warning. Usually he'll say something or start squeezing my arm or something, and I pick up on other bodily cues. I always like him to finish in my mouth and I always swallow. But I like to know just so I can prepare and not choke, or swallow excess saliva to make room right before so it doesn't end up messy. It's best to give her a heads up so she can decide if she wants it in her mouth or not, and if she does she can decide whether she wants to swallow or not. Or another option is to discuss it with her and agree that SHE can tell you each time what she wants you to do.
But yeah, asking or giving a warning is generally the polite and considerate thing to do, lol.
Well...the first time I ever gave my boyfriend a blowjob we talked about it and I said I wanted to swallow it so after that it was assumed that I'd just swallow every time. I mean he warns me before he's about to bust, but yeah. I'm not sure why your girl would want you to come in her mouth sometimes and be grossed out other times so I guess you should ask every time or ask why she changes her mind every time
I grab her arm and squeeze it, and after a while your girlfriend begins to figure out the noises/movements/faces you make when you are about to blow it. my girlfriend knows exactly when I'm about too and to make it better she deepthroats, in otherwords when I'm on that cumming stage she shoves it all the way in so it goes down her throat. She is so good to me :)
I always give the girl advance notice just before I am about to cum. This gives we the option of what she wants to do with it before I finish. I respect a girl no matter what she chooses, but I definitely love it when she will let me finish in her mouth.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!when you're about to come just tell her, then it will be less of a surprise lol
no he doesn't need permission maybe a warning right before he's gonna cum
I concur with this...i always signal when the magic stick is about to pop. If I was a girl, I wouldn't want a gooey blast in my mouth w/o any warning lol.
Personally, no he doesn't need permission to "finish" in my mouth. If I keep going and don't say anything I just pretty much like, expect that he'll see that I'm trying really hard and then cum, lol. I don't know that sounds dumb. BUT, I do always want him to tell me b4 he cums, so that I'm ready for it when it happens! So, I'd say ask her to see what she prefers, but if she doesn't say anything then you could prob just go for it but def tell her b4 you "blow your load" lol :o)
I assume he wants me to unless he tels me otherwise. He will usually tell me a few seconds before he busts so I kinda have a heads up. Having him come in my mouth doesn't bug me so that's mainly why I assume he always will
I thought cumming in a girl's mouth was the whole idea behind getting a bj.
Marry me?
Ha! Sure!
Every girl has her preferences...and they can change at ANY moment based on her mood.
I'd be safe and give her indication of what you want to do sexually
nope, I love cum
I prefer to be warned cause I don't swallow that. I think it's sweet though when my boyfriend ask me, "Can I come in your mouth?" when he's about to come. Lol
You don't swallow? hmmm :/
Nope ;)
He will pull my hair pretty tight when he is about to bust so I take that as a heads up...It's just a courtesy really, I would like to know so I can have to choice of whether I want it in my mouth or not at that time.
well duh. how would you like a surprise gooblast in your mouth?
lol I don't mean not tell her at the moment. I'm saying like, should I inform her before I'm tryin to shoot it there, or do I say nothing, wait for that moment, obviously tell her its happening because that's proper ettiquitte, and hope for the best?
wow, what a poetic use of words...ewww! However, I do agree with you, LOL.
with a new girlfriend I usually tell her a min or two before I come so she knows I'm getting close and can tell me if she cares if I do it tonight or not. I think that's the safe bet if you have a girl who is wishy washy on tasting it lol. with my ex she would always swallow so it was just assumed going into it that's what I'm prob going to do
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