I slept with a girl who I thought was a girl (full breasts, vagina, etc)...but I'm worried she might of been

[Anonymous]

a tranny. Her shoulders and feet with a little bigger than normal. Her voice was kind of weird (not low...but weird...but she's filipino...). Her face is also kind of weird. I had a few drinks with her. When I got her in bed her vagina was extremely moist and she orgasmed when I fingered her. I wore a condom (and made sure I put it on right). She wanted me to go down on her, but I didn't. For safe sex reasons I don't believe in doing that on a first date. She went down on me. I met this girl of POF. There is nothing in her profile about being her being a tranny. However she asked me to come straight to her apartment (we originally agreed to go out in public). She was very aggressive. The next day I asked her to send me a pic of her when she was a kid (I sent her one of mine). She sent me one of when she was 8...she (or it) had very long hair but a boyish face. I realize young girls and boys (especially Asian ones) can look the same. Anyway I was supposed to go out with her again tonight and I noticed her friend in the parking lot (another older Asian woman...who was tall and had manly features). I excused myself and went home. I didn't get a full look at her friend because it was dark...but she might be a tranny friend. My girl was dressed very real slutty too. I'm debating whether or not I should ask this girl (or whatever it is) for the truth. If she has been a girl all her life than that will be extremely insulting to her, but a huge relief to me. If she has deceived me...than the joke is on me. I'm extremely appalled and disgusted about what I done if this is the case (I've been hetereo all my life, I"m only attracted to girls). This would violate my spiritual beliefs and ethics. What should I do? I'm willing to completely walk away from her. Maybe I shouldn't ask and chalk it up as a hook up with a slutty girl? Mature answers only. Thanks.

[Anonymous]

Funny you were talking about spiritual beliefs and ethics when you just had a one night stand with someone you don't even know. Not making fun of you its just ironic that you talked about spiritual beliefs. I don't know them so I won't comment on that any further,

If she was a man before she was a woman, its hard to tell now days but one thing that hasn't changed is Identification/licenses and that she would have an adamsapple on her neck. All men have them, some are just bigger or smaller than others. She doesn't look like a boy in the pic so hopefully she isn't. You can ask, and its not against the law to. Its just how you ask. And say you asked because of how her friend looked which was mannish and that made you wonder about her and her whereabouts. She should understand your reasoning for asking if you say that. If she was a man go pray and repent.

I feel sorry for you if she is a man though. If was with a woman who switched her self into a man I would jump off a cliff because I couldn't handle it mentally. The next best thing I could think of is to wash yourself in bleach. I say that because bleach kills are germs and cleans everything.

Geez I hope she is a woman though for your sake. I'm disgusted for you.

[Asker]

I wasn't proud of the one night stand. But if I was deceived this complicates everything on a whole new level. I'm going to walk around from her and chalk her up as a funny looking girl

[Asker]

I did look at the throat. No adams Apple btw

[Opinion Owner]

Ok then if there was no adams apple then you should feel at ease some what but nowdays the transvestites look like women and its beyond me how they do it but Looking at the picture she's not a boy. She's a girl but she could be prostituting herself around with some trannys why she had the Shim as a friend and along with her. I can show you pics of men that are Trannys and still have the package sad enough and you would never know and they sleep with stars.

[Opinion Owner]

link he had his removed more recently

link this is a man not sure if his is still there but he changed his name to Nadia.

Bottom line you just have to be careful. You can ask and you really should. You have the right to know. They won't hide it most times because they feel comfortable knowing that not much will happen to them

[Opinion Owner]

Physically or verbally. At least that way you know what your dealing with and you can walk away from even a false relationship

[Tweetumzz143]

dang I hate to say this but I think the woman you slept with is transexual and the picture of her when she was young was edited. look at her bangs its straight but notice the rest of her hair its curly. I don't know but my initial reaction upon looking at her pic is that she is a "male".. and you said she is SLUTTY? though some filipinas are aggressive but in general filipina women are the conservative type and in contrast the very common trait of filipino gays are that they are extremely "slutty". I agree with the guy anon below that regardless whether she is a transexual or not it doesn't affect you being straight because you still like women and not men but I do understand if you are disgusted by it. I'm a filipina btw.. my opinion is just a hunch I might be wrong

[Asker]

hmmm...you would know about the culture better than anyone. I am going to friend you and send you some more pics. Sorry about the line "filipinos talk weird"...I guess I'm just rationalizing.

[Tweetumzz143]

its okay..

[raccotaco38]

The picture looks like a girl to me, don't ask her, ask her friend.

[Asker]

I'm not even acquainted with her friend. I'm just going to pray she is a woman.

[Anonymous]

Did she leave you alone for a few minutes before you fingered her?

A tranny can't come from fingering. So if you're sure she came, she's a girl.

If she left you for a few minutes though, that's usually when tranny's insert the lube into their vaginas for sex, because they don't lube naturally.

And lastly, even if it was a tranny - that doesn't affect whether or not you're straight. You're still attracted to women, right? And not men? That's pretty much the definition of straight, regardless of whatever experiences you might have had.

[Asker]

I was in her first with my penis (condom on). yes I've always been attracted to woman. And I slept with what I thought was a woman.

[Gawesome]

I don't see the big deal...$%* happens when you're drunk. Just move on and consider this a drunk escapade. I don't think you should find out if it really bothers you and if you have a moral/ethical/religious view about transsexuals.

I don't wanna get into specifics but technically if you wanna feel better about the situation, transsexuals want to be referred as women anyways. I don't think they would go through the whole hormone therapy and surgeries for nothing if they feel strongly that they are women.

[Asker]

Yeah I know trannys go through a ton to get what they want. But they should be honest about what they are before they get in bed with someone. That's just plain deceit

[JanuaryX]

Hey! Any update on this? I'm Filipina and I'd be glad to help.

[upsyndrome]

"Her voice was kind of weird (not low...but weird...but she's filipino...). "

made me laugh.

f*** it. you already f***ed her. Don't think about it. if you thought she was a woman the whole time it isn't gay.

[Asker]

yeah. I dunno. It's hard not to overthink this. I think the best thing to do is cut it off with her and not ask. Even if she is a woman, she is really slutty. You should have seen how she was dressed this evening.

[ayagi]

Her voice is weird.. Ohh I’m a Filipino.

[Anonymous]

So what, are the other pics of her now? If so she's hot what the hell is the problem here.

[Anonymous]

I like b cup breasts and "innie" vaginas with some pubes.

[Opinion Owner]

i get voted down for preference? sorry I'm not into 8 year old girls qa.

[Asker]

I thought you were making fun of me This girl is in her late 20s. That's a pic of her when she was 8

[Opinion Owner]

No. I was stating my personal preference in females

[Asker]

yeah I like innocuous looking girls too (18 and over). She wasn't innocuous for sure. I'm nnot that picky...but I do sleep only with women (real women)

[Opinion Owner]

I never doubted you didn't.

[Anonymous]

did you look at her vagina at all? tranny vagina is usually looks different than a real woman's. besides that.. the likelihood that she was a post op tranny is pretty low as well. I think you just hooked up with a manly looking chick haha

[Asker]

it was dark in the room. I'm praying it was manly looking chic.

[Opinion Owner]

chances are that's what it was. I wouldn't be too worried about it lol

[Asker]

yeah, and her vagina got REALLY moist...gushing. I read that post op vaginas can get slightly moist...but this was wet kingdom.