...showing cleavage for the first time... how hard was it?

[cloud_sync]

Question, how hard was it for you to show cleavage for the first time? Any problems with family or friends?

[Prettygurl12]

***DISCLAIMER*** This is coming from the point of view of a very modest, very reserved, very shy girl...

I remember the day my mom came home with a shirt for me other than a t-shirt. It was a lower cut (but no where near too low) v neck shirt. I remember looking at the gap for your head to go through and thinking, "I will never be able to pull that off! I have nothing to fill it out with. Low and behold, I put it on and suddenly I had boobs! I felt very awkward walking around with that much of my chest exposed as I had always worn t-shirts before. I kept wanting to put something on over it and the attention I was getting from my male friends was slightly less friendly and it had more of an edge to it. I didn't like it so much. But now I'm used to it, and since my mother has pretty much banned t-shirts altogether, it's not too bad.

[cloud_sync]

Wow, it just goes to show you there is a story in why and how something is done at times. Thks for the insight.

[nwgrl]

It wasn't hard for me but I worked hard not to show much cleavage. Men seem to really like my bum and all the attention has been embarassing so I figured, why ad fuel to the fire. I've got an hourglass figure so I've never needed to flaunt much. My mom was definitely concerned because I had men approaching me or staring at me when I was young as 14. I do show cleavage now but it is usually because of the cut of my blouse or dress and I have limits on how much. The older I've gotten the more comfortable I've gotten with my body and accepting of the attention. This summer my I'm going to be fearless and go braless much much more and not care if my nipples show through my tee-shirt and I might even wear some nipple jewelry to keep my nipples erect.

[HungryDemon]

Well, you don't want to reveal past your crack, that's just like shouting to everyone, LOOK AT MY BREASTS!

You just take it slow, Little by little, don't overdo it. I did it in this way while growing up, naturally. No one notices unless you make a show...or boys look LOL

[cloud_sync]

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[Bombshell13]

I honestly can't even remember the first time so I'm thinking it must not have been a problem. I mean, even now if it's a super low cut top I'll get comments and razzing and depending on the day it might make me self conscious but, again, no real problems. No, I take that back. My freshmen year of college I did get in a bit of a habit of wearing tight camisoles that were pretty low and it made a looot of people make a looot of assumptions - that was a problem. Eventually.

[cloud_sync]

Hmm, sounds like you had trouble in reverse. Did you dress the same way in your earlier years?

[Bombshell13]

Yes and no, I guess. I was always one for short skirts and heels and flashy attention getting clothes so I was and am used to the attention. Just my boobs for some reason got me labeled a 'ho.

[eithyy]

I don't have any sooooo...it wasn't hard I guess. And since there's nothing there to show I generally just don't wear low cut stuff. I think it tends to look strange on me.

[whattothink]

Hmmm I do not remember. However I went from a B to a DD in less than 18 months in hs (8 blame my gma and her genes) so when you are that size you show em off whether you mean to or not unless you are wearing a turtleneck. Plus I have always prefered v neck shirts I hate things close to my throat.

[cloud_sync]

What if you wore just a regular tee? How often do people judge u?

[whattothink]

People don't judge me as far as I can tell.

[Screamo-Lu]

When I first started showing cleavage there wasn't any to show, so nobody noticed, haha.

[Robotic]

I did ;D

[jennhottie17]

i started when I was 14. I always loved showing off, so it wasn't a big deal. dad didn't like it, but he's used to it now.

[Anonymous]

Umm I don't usually show cleavage. If I do it's because the shirt is more lower cut than I anticipated and I don't remember when that happened. But I do remember one of my first low cut tops (it was hand-me-down top). I was either in the 6 or 7th grade and I wore it all day at school with no problem, and this 8th grade boy and I started having a conversation about anime (I think it was Dragon Ball Z or Sailor Moon or something), he sat beside me and for the whole conversation he was staring at my A cup boobs. I don't even remember him ever pulling his eyes away until the bus reached my stop. Never before had anything like that happened to me, and it made me feel violated and disgusted, which is why 10 years later I don't wear them. I've never liked that kind of attention.