Girls, do you ever let your boyfriend’s head rest between your thighs?

[Anonymous]

Like when you’re sitting up on the sofa or any other place and he’s laying down resting his head? I’ve seen this twice in real life and in public view. Once I was walking past my college apartments and one unit had its door completely open. The girl was sitting lengthwise on the sofa with her knees up but apart, and the guy was resting his head on her v**** as they were watching TV. They were both fully clothed but in plain view as I was walking by. The other instance was actually on campus on a lawn. This girl’s boyfriend was taking a nap but on her… It’s similar to a guy resting his head on his girl’s lap, only with her thighs deliberately apart and the guy is laying parallel to the girl instead of perpendicular. Do you ever do this? Does it turn you on? What prompts it? Is it the girl’s idea? Or does the guy originally lay on her lap but later changes her into this position?

[blondgirl03]

16 yr old girl here- In fact, I did this last night (we've been dating for a few months but haven't kissed yet). We were watching a movie, and I laid my head down on his lap while we were holding hands when I felt a heartbeat/pulse in his lap! It would stop every now and then and start again. Not sure if he was getting a boner or about to get one, but I definitely could tell SOMETHING was up. I never mentioned it and he seemed normal and tried to ignore whatever had happened- not sure if he even realized what was going on. I don't regret it though and would recommend it if you two are considered dating. by the way my head was directly on his crotch and it was slightly erotic even for me. I would love it if he did it to me.

[snowangle]

Yep! One time, my boyfriend had a super busy week at school and ended up getting like 9 hours of sleep over 3 days. After it was over, he came over my house and he was so exhausted, he planted his head in my lap and took a nap. XD

It wasn't in the position you describe, though; he was perpendicular to me.

[Asker]

Sounds nice. Would you ever let him into the position I described as he is resting? Either if it's his idea or your idea?

[snowangle]

Yeah sure haha. I don't see why not. :)

[Asker]

Yeah, if I had a girl I'd want to lay down on her like that while resting or watching TV. ;) Seems to be a real intimate position, more than the traditional head on lap. I can see how it can be done in a nonsexual manner, but wouldn't the girl at least get some arousal? Do you think this would be the case if you were to assume this position?

[snowangle]

I don't think I'd get turned on or anything like that, but I'm sure I would become SUPER aware of his position haha. Like there's a very small chance I could focus on the TV after that.

[Asker]

I see, that makes sense :) But what would you do if he wiggled his head around, either incidentally or intentionally?

[Asker]

...continued from last comment: I mean I even wiggle my head around while laying on a pillow to adjust and get more comfortable. How would you react if he did something like that? Just wondering.

[CrazyCherryBlossom]

Sure, as long as it wasn't going to be sexual. If a guy is comfortable doing that and so am I, it sounds sweet. Plus, I love to cuddle, I'm an affectionate girl.

[Asker]

Thank you for your thoughts. I understand.

[Asker]

That's great that you're affectionate and like to cuddle. :) I just have another question if you don't mind. Would you move into the position yourself, or just wait if he does it, that is you wait until he comes up with the idea? Thanks.

[CrazyCherryBlossom]

I'd move into that position, if he's uncomfortbale, I'll find another cozy position. I'm outgoing, confident and a very loud, if I wanted to do that, I would, no shyness whatsoever. And if a guy asked, or did that himself, I'd let him. As long as he knows that it's not going to go anyway sexual. I wouldn't think it's a weird question/request, I'd be like, "Why didn't I think of that!"

[Asker]

Cool, I get you, thx. imo it's a flexible position, one that can be sweet and cute, and one that can be easily change into a sexual manner. And I understand that you don't want it to be sexual, but what if he tried to make it that? It'd be easy for him to do that. What would you do or say to him? Just wondering. Thx

[CrazyCherryBlossom]

Yeah, get that. Well, I'm a religous girl, and I'm 16 so I'm not about to get sexual. I have to say I wouldn't allow it, I'd slap his hand or whatever and say that I don't want that and all I want is cuddles. Besides, if he's dateing me he should know I'm not about to have sex this young.

[Asker]

Cool, I appreciate your response. Makes sense, and thanks again. :)

[Anonymous]

I've done this before. It wasn't anything sexual I was just mimicking what she normally did with me when we were chilling on the couch sometimes. It's comfortable. She's not going to mind if you're a couple.

[Asker]

So did your girl lay like that on you first? I can only imagine a girl laying like that on me and it would make me hard. How did your girl react when you laid down on her in this manner?

[Opinion Owner]

She did. I'd sit down to watch TV and she'd plop down next to me and lays out across my lap sometimes. I'd hold her and we watched TV together and that's about it. When I did it to her she thought it was cute and rubbed my cheek and held me kind of like I do with her lol. I have made it sexual before but most of the time I'm just being playful and snuggling.

[Asker]

Sounds really intimate. "I've made it sexual before..." Do you mean like rotating your head side-to-side? How did she react to whatever you did? Did she, you or both think of it as some type of foreplay?

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah I enjoy the feeling. The times when I wanted to be a horndog I'd be laying on my back looking up at her from her lap and quickly turn over so my face would be at her crotch. Sometimes she playfully smacked me like "bad boy!" and tugged me up to kiss. Or if she was in one of those moods she'd let me have my fun and kiss the area over her clothes and go from there. I like that the position can be either cute or sexy, whichever you're in the mood for.

[Asker]

Right on. Yeah your right, I see how it's a versatile position. Thx

[Anonymous]

Do that a lot. It is comfortable and she likes it too when I do it. Even asks for it. That's what couples do, find cozy spots on one another on the couch.

[Asker]

Well I think you're a fortunate couple :) May I ask who started this position, you or her?

[Opinion Owner]

Not sure to be honest. I think it just happens when you try things out. E.g. Starting from head on lap.

[Asker]

No problem. May I ask what does she say when you go into this position? Also how does she go about asking for it? Just curious.

[Opinion Owner]

I think she usually says "I like it when you put your head there". Or "why don't you put your head right here" and moves around accordingly.

[Asker]

Yep you're fortunate. Hope to have a girl like that someday myself. Thx

[Jasmine1244]

Yes. And then I squeeze and trap him in my headscissor 😈

[ninjafemme]

yes...

[GirlGuyGuru]

couples have their positions. mind you it is a comfortable position. I have had my boyfriend do that non sexually

[Asker]

yes that's true. If you don't mind saying, who initiated the position, you or your boyfriend?

[spartanmanny218]

Me and a couple of friends went out just walkkg around in the city I was raised in. And went behind a Toys R' Us store area. We went down an area we're it was all dirted up were homeless would end up being at. It was about 10 of us guys and only 1 girl was with us. The girl is a lesbian. So when we were kicking back being the store I can't exactly remember but I might have felt tired that the lesby girl end up taking the jacket I was wearing and placed it on the ground between her legs like literately opened. So invited me to sleep between her legs literaty lose to her V private part. Out of all the guys that were there I was the only one who laid between her legs. I don't k ow if she was just being nice or she found something in me that interested her. She's a lesbian so I doubt anything romantic would have happened.