How to forget my semi one night stand...and I'll be in the same place with them for 3 days?

[Anonymous]

I have O.C.D. (the worrying type) so I'm bound to think about these things. I had a semi one-nigh stand with a guy (no intercourse since no condom) but we made the most of it. I told him I wanna do it again and take it to the next level next time (with protection). Basically, I screwed up by texting him too much and appearing clingy. I didn't mean to, it's a really bad habit I have. He never told me I was clingy or anything, but I know myself. I was clingy for sure. The next time I saw him, he didn't seem that interested in my presence. I don't blame him. He's not even my type and was just a hot guy to fool around with, so I shouldn't be stressing over this, but I just really enjoyed the fling we had and I wanted another :P Both of us, along with other friends and thousands of people are going to a 3 day music festival. I just want to have a good time while I am there and not think about him or how lame I acted. **With my condition, it's not that simple to NOT think about it** I haven't been messaging him at all since the last time I saw him. If he wants to talk he knows where to find me. Now if I only I did that before this happened. I was told to wish him well and not think negative things on him. I was gonna try to stay as far away from him as possible, talk to everyone else and meet new people (especially guys) and just keep dancing...And there will be enough "recreational" things to do that may distract me from him. Anymore tips?

[badAngel]

Turn your lady charm on, and get another and hotter fling. If you don't meet that special someone who is lucky enough to catch your interest, then maybe in the next party? Take it as it comes ;)

A woman man once said. "to get over someone, get ON someone else." and I can promise you missy. That it is true ;) just don't rush it, because you have to not give a rats tutu about this one right here. Only reason your thinking of him is not because he's all that. Being honest with yourself, you don't really think he is all that either. He just happens to be the last guy you had a thing with. When you broke it off with your first boyfriend you never thought you would get him off your mind as long as you live, right? Well look now. He's history isn't he? Same thing here. He will be history in a few days maybe weeks but it will happen. No need to bother that pretty little head of urs for nothing. He isn't worth two seconds of your time.

Btw. You look SO freakin hot. Truly beautiful! And I love that skintone of urs. Lucky bastard.

[badAngel]

Whats your nationality? You look like a mix between asian/middle eastern, and african ;)

[Asker]

Lol I'm middle eastern, native American (seminole tribe), and jamaican.

[badAngel]

Omg my guess was so close. Haha. Niceee. No wonder why your such a beauty ;)

[AmberChick]

Is it outside lands btw? I was in this situation before and to this day I kind of regret it but the guy JUST broke up with his girlfriend and I came along, wanted to date and fool around but he rejected me because he just wanted sex. So, I felt really bad about it, but I am over it now and have a bf.

[Asker]

Yea it's outside. I know better not to fool around with some who just got out of a relationship that never turns out well. This guy didn't have a recent break up though, he just likes to fool around and take drugs all the time.

[jayzee]

paarty, watch a lot of movies and hang out with friends a lot

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[Asker]

Lol I can't watch movies there will be live music though. That festival is $175 worth of fun.

[Anonymous]

No need to worry. You probably don't stand a chance with them anyway.