Is it wrong that I like seeing my girlfriend in pain during anal sex?

My girlfriend likes Anal. But sometimes if we go for too long. She says it hurts to poop or sit Down afterward. We love each other. And she gets pleasure from it. But is it wrong I'm turned on by how Sore I make her sometimes?
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Most Helpful Guy

  • I don't think its _wrong_.

    Its wrong if you don't respect her wishes.

    I don't know why you like it. In my case, my partner won't do anal, but I'd be the same ... and sometimes she's sore from vaginal. It both makes me feel bad ... and turns me on a bit.

    What turns you on, turns you on. Given she does this willingly, I'd just accept it as the gift it is, and enjoy it.

    I think on some level, most of us during sex want to feel like we've impacted our partner. The worst partner is one who seems disengaged. We want to make them -feel-. Good, bad ... maybe both.

    There's maybe also a certain element of it hurting her FOR your benefit, and that's flattering to you, making you feel important and that your needs are valued so much.

Most Helpful Girl

  • No its not. It turns you on because you think you have done such a great job or whatever. But if fuccin her in the ass for too long gives her a lot of pain that is hard to deal with afterward or is just uncomfertable on a high level than yes it is wrong to intentionally hurt your girlfriend. If that "pain" she has afterward is not somehow tolerable/acceptable for her then yes it is wrong for you to get turned on by it in my opinion.

    • No I don't intentionally hurt her. It just kinda comes with lots of thrusting in a sensetive area like that.

    • Well then in that case. I could understand why it turns you on. ;)

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  • It's not wrong, it's her job to satisfy you even if it hurts.

  • yes it is!

  • No, I don't think it is wrong as long as you are not deliberately trying to hurt her.

    • No. It just makes me hard and turned on seeing how uncomfortable it is for her to sit down afterward (bad I know)