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My boyfriend wants to have sex with me three times a day?

Do you think that's too much? We just started dating and I'm not sexually experienced at all and he is. I'm afraid he might lose interest if I don't satisfy his sexual needs but I'm pretty intimidated by this.

Updates:
I mean don't you think that's excessive...cause like, what about getting stuff done throughout the day...wouldn't have time enough

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Most Helpful Opinion

  • Everyone's sex drive is different and I think being that you aren't experienced you might not really know your preferences yet. I would be honest with him and ask him to slow it down to something you're more comfortable with and if it happens more than that's fine. I also agree with the answer that said if really lost interest in you over that he wasn't worth having to begin with. If he truly cares he'll be considerate about your feelings.

    • Thank you for BA.

What Guys Said 10

  • I'm guessing he lives a sedentary lifestyle and doesn't need the energy.

  • True, there iis the issue of getting other things done. There is also much more to a relationship than sex. Where to find the balance is an ongoing question. On the other hand sex three times a day sounds quite fun. As they say in Polynesia "twice a day, mo betta." discuss it with him and find a middle way.

  • Then be honest with him. If that's all he cares about is sex, or if you not wanting to have sex 3 times a day turns him off, then he's not the guy for you and he doesn't care about you.

  • If you are not ready then you have full right to put a no passing zone upon younether regions. And if he dumps you because you don't want to do it 3 times a day than he was in the relationship for all the wrong reasons. And for a brand new relationship, sex 3 times a day is a little odd.

  • do what you feel is good for you DON'T do it because you think that will keep him around longer

  • Before breakfast, lunch and dinner. Exercise improves appetite. Nothing wrong with it.

  • seems like much.

  • Honestly when I first am in love that is how much sex I want. Let him get it out of his system and over time his drive should go down and you'll have more time to do other stuff.

  • Wake up sex, after work sex and before you go to bed sex. Seems legit.

  • could be like one good round and 2 quickies :P

What Girls Said 3

  • Personally that sounds awesome. lol. If you don't feel comfortable with it just tell him how you feel and that he should pressure you into anything you are not ready for or do things that make you feel uncomfortable. =)

  • Just do it whenever you can. Sex is healthy.

    • have you ever had sex?

    • No

  • yeah that's too much he should want to do other things with you not just sexual things.

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