Cant feel his penis?

Different girls I know have vented some guys they sleep with they basically don't feel anything. How small does it have to be for this to happen? Is it more about your general preference (ie-if you are used to a big guy, do even average guys create this problem). How small does it need to be for you to not feel it? By that token, do you not feel a tampon or your fingers?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Ive always been pretty tight but when I was on top a few times I couldn't feel it...I feel the pressure/slight pain of it going in but after a while I couldn't feel the penis inside me, I don't know if its the angle or what, and that was right after I lost my virginity and the guy was 6 1/2-7 in, never been with anyone smaller than that. I just started wearing tampons in my 20s because I could never put them in, but now when their in I don't feel it. Fingering still hurts to me so I don't bother. I don't think if I was with a smaller guy I wouldn't feel it but maybe if I was on top id experience that again

    • I feel less when I am doing the work (missionary/doggy) than when I am laying back and enjoying the ride. Maybe the same for you. Can't feel a seven incher? Wow, no hope for 80+ percent of the population!

    • yea and it happened right after I lost my virginity, I was in missionary, it hurt like all hell for the first 5 minutes or so then later we ended up with me on top and I thought it was so weird I could barely feel it in there. I don't know why, I wasn't really doing all the work, I was slow and couldn't get a rhythm going and didn't know what I was doing, when I leaned forward and he thrusted I felt it a lot so I don't know why that happened. I'm probably in the minority here.

  • The average diameter of an erect penis is 1.5 inches and the average diameter of a vagina is one inch. Therefore, a man would generally have to have a diameter smaller than an inch for a woman to be unable to feel him.

    As far as my fingers, I can sorta feel one finger but it isn't enough to get me off. A tampon depends on what size I am using.

  • There is no way a girl is not going to feel any penis of any size going inside her short of being drunk on her ass or her vulva has no feeling at all. Something as small as a pencil you will feel and know it is in you.

    As with the tampon you do feel it when you insert it, but inserted correctly many of us don't feel it after it is in place.

    • Exactly, right? Totally get the drinking thing...

Most Helpful Guys

  • It's all us guys with the golf pencil cocks. Haha, I donno. I just love how it's always a problem with the guy. You always hear how it's the guy who's sh*tty in bed, or the guy has a tiny cock, never how it was like throwing a hotdog down a hallway for the guy. Women actually have some degree of control over how tight they are, whereas we simply have what we've got.

  • I think any girl who says this is lying for sake of belittling the guy, or simply was to used to the sensation. Maybe if she was in a position for too long or had been having lots of sex/masturbating, her vaginal walls became a bit stretched and numb so she couldn't feel it. Just speculating because obviously I'm not a girl.

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  • Maybe my vagina is just especially tight, but I tend to feel when anything is inside of me.