Is it weird I like to watch guys wank?

[Anonymous]

Its so hot to watch their face ad the whole idea of it, they look so hot a vulnerable. the idea of them doing that and then surprising them and them freaking out then over powering them just is hoooooooot. also I know its weird but I like to give my make friends boners. I don't really do anything but then I'll realize they're hard and trying to hide it. it makes me want to just straddle them on the couch suddenly and taunt them for getting hard when I come around. I think it's because we're just friends and its the surprise and shock then pleasure face

[kholland65]

I'm actually surprised more girls aren't turned on by the sight and thought of a guy masturbating. I know guys love watching girls masturbate, but girls only seem to like watching guys if its a boyfriend and he's doing it with her.

As far as your friends and their boners. I would refrain from doing this. Causing sexual frustration in men, even close friends, is not a good idea and will give you a bad reputation. Guys dislike girls who tease them and blue ball them. Word also gets around about such girls. Not to mention the guys will start to see you as a slut who is desperate for attention, even if that attention comes in the form of boners at your expense.

To be perfectly honest though. I doubt these guys are getting boners like you think. Especially in your age range. Unless you are standing there naked or giving them a lap dance, most of what you do, especially considering you are a friend isn't going to phase them. For example, I have a few female friends that when they get drunk, they like to grind on each other and spank each other, and other goofy lesbian type things. It really doesn't phase or turn us guys on at all.

[Asker]

lol thanks I'm not a whore I said the thoughts. I've never made a mood nor would i. also I don't DO anything with meaning. like I was getting something in the fridge when he went around the corner and I guess he got hard from that lol cause he went and sat down awkwardly and then I sat down and ate the thing I got and I could notice him watching me probably thinking...i wasn't DOING anything. I don't do it on purpose. but I kind of like it

[Asker]

oooh also I know a lot of my friends liked my at first but it didt turn out that way. so do you think maybe that might be why they DO get turned on at smaller things when you say guys normally ouldnt?

[kholland65]

Possibly. That means they obviously find you attractive. But still guys don't just get boners as easily as women think they do. I really find it hard to believe that guy had a boner just watching you eat. Trust me if a guy had a boner it would be extremely obvious. A sight lump in his pants is likely just the way his pants folded.

[Asker]

lol I KNOW what it looks like and I know when there is one...i can SEE it...lol and it wasn't me eating...thats when I ignored them...it was when I was leaning in the fridge. I can't say what turns them on I have no clue lol I'm not TRYING its just been happening. Besides I grew up with all guys...i know the tricks and stuff. He gets all tense too and sits there with a pillow and stares at me sometimes...i look at him with my eyebrow raised and he looks away quickly but his gears are turning

[kholland65]

You might be right, just saying that the guys you hang with then must either be really sexually frustrated or are easily turned on. Usually the only way a girl is going to give me a boner is by literally touching me. Just acting sexual, even standing in front of me naked isn't going to do it, even if I find her super attractive. Now if I sat there for 10min thinking sexual thoughts about her, then yes maybe. That is likely what this guy was doing. I try and not do that when around friends.

[Asker]

wow. hmm well that's odd I guess they tell me they like my company but I guess that means they find me attractive and theyre just sitting there thinking...im not sure if that freaky or not...or if I can relax all the way haha

[kholland65]

I mean everyone is different I guess but I'm just saying for the most part, there is a misconception that any hot girl just walking past a guy will give him a boner but for 99% of guys that's generally not the case, even if we find her attractive. To a certain extent, is sounds shallow, but yes, many guys prefer to keep attractive women in their company and vise verse avoid having to many ugly friends. Part of that is because I think men feel its alters their perceived value. Plus we generally

[kholland65]

as guys don't get as much from friendships with girls as girls do from guys. So aside from things naturally coming together a guy is only going to go out of his way to befriend a girl if he finds her attractive. Either because he wants to f*** her, date her, or just thinks it would be nice to have an attractive female around. Let me just say this. It's not uncommon for guys (prob even girls) to on occasion have sexual thoughts about friends, even if there is no intention on doing anything.

[kholland65]

We're just human we all think about sex. Many times I personally play out what if scenarios. I may have no real intention on sleeping with a particular girl, but I might just for the fun of it, start running some scenarios through my head about different things occurring.

[Asker]

true. well he admits he likes that I'm pretty and I take care of myself. it makes him look good too. lol but he also said he thinks sexy is to do with the mind and how a girl holds herself and stuff. attractive is physical to him. but he likes my mind. I'm not naive enough tot think a hot girl can get a guy going I think that's a shallow ignorant girls view that probably doesn't know anything about guys in depth

[kholland65]

Yes all true. I'm just saying the reality is, guys aren't going to go out of their way to become friends with some 500lb fat girl. It sounds shallow but its how we're wired. I think women have been put in a place for ages where their value is based on their appearance and sexuality. The reason being is that in a way, that's kind of all women were biologically meant for, to make babies. So subconsciously if she isn't attractive, then she is of no use to the men in the tribe.

[kholland65]

I'm sure there are similar traits that girls subconsciously look for even in friends because they are wired to find guys with those traits valuable. Like maybe a guy who is strong and protective.

[Asker]

its true I know. I won't lie all my guy friends are really attractive. I'm not shallow I'm open minded to all but it happens that way

[sovetskii13]

You are a girl, so it's totally normal. I am a guy, and like watching girls masturbate. Totally normal. The 2nd part is pretty creative. I think it's fine too.

[Asker]

creative?

[sovetskii13]

Yea. When you see them hiding their boners, you get the sensation of wanting to straddle them on the couch. Interesting thoughts. That's good.

[Asker]

ha I guess...i never do but it makes me want to just I don't know do something lol

[Katie1964]

Not weird at all. I like to watch men masturbate also. A few months ago I found Omegle and I go their just to watch them jerk off. It is so hot watching their balls bounce up and down as they massage their penis's. What I find so hot is that at most all I need to show is that I'm a woman and they will let me watch them until they cum. After they finish, I will chat with them a while then next them if they don't next me first.

[sexyalphamale]

You should message me.

[Anonymous]

Hell no. My boyfriend sends me vids of him doing that all the time when we can't be together I love it. It makes me so wet to watch.

I don't like to turn my friends on though.

[cheergurl18]

Yes I like to secretly watch em , see how they do it what pleases em and have done it with my boyfriend , love to see that orgasm face LOL :)

[Blue_eyed_beauty]

Nope. Not weird. I love watching it too!

[feda12345]

you're being kissed by a black guy. ew.

[Blue_eyed_beauty]

yep that's my boyfriend. Oh, don't like it? f*** off. I'm sorry you can't get a guy:)

[Betwyn]

wow.. what a racist hating bitch...

[Blue_eyed_beauty]

my thoughts exactly

[Betwyn]

I agree completely lol

[CuriousEddie]

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[Billlewis]

I love women who like watching guys play with themselves! Especially if you know I'm not getting any pussy, and you have a boyfriend whom you're having sex with regularly!

[thatkidfromcanadia]

Thats not weird at all.. why the heck aren't we friends?!

[Asker]

lol what part do you like

[thatkidfromcanadia]

everything about your question and then the second part. ;) sounds hottt

[Asker]

hahaha lol well wouldn't that bug you if a friend mad you hard but you couldn't do anything

[thatkidfromcanadia]

I hadn't thought about it like that before, I just liked the idea that a girl actually liked erections.. But I guess it'd be annoying :/

[Asker]

haha aww sorry :( didn't mean to so that lol

[klpic]

no not at all. one girl friend even got her head down in my lap tom watch me. ( she asked me to wank for her) next time i asked her to wank her self and we came together.

[MikeK]

Not really. You're hetero.

[todtoy]

I don't think it's weird. I wish more women would admit they like to watch. I like watching a woman get off & I like being watched by a woman when I get off. I think the problem is other than sites like this one where a woman can answer anonymously most women would be concerned that everyone thought they were a slut if they said they enjoyed watching a guy masturbate. Another name for giving a guy a boner just to get him hard is called being a prick tease & that's not cool at all.

[Asker]

i never said I give them them purposefully or with intent lol and also I think its normal for the opposites to like to know the others feeling good :) I just have friends on this site ha so I want to be curious without being questioned :D

[todtoy]

sorry if I made it sound like you were purposely doing that it diddn't sound like you were. I was just saying its not nice to do that to a guy :)

[Asker]

yeah I agree

[defytraditiongirl]

nope, I love it too

[fantasticmrfox]

fullmetal237 you can watch me on Skype anytime

[Lj236]

i don't think its weird. the second part might be a little weird though

[vattakai]

if you really like doing that...am intrested in it.just let us develop our friendship.we can have a chat.if you wanna see on camam ready to show.u can reach me at

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[Asker]

lol I don't cam show but thanks and like I said below I'm not a whore hahaha its all just thoughts. on the outside I'm very composed and pretend I don't notice them getting hard or copping a feel of themself

[thatkidfromcanadia]

indian people are so f***ing creepy lmao

[Blue_eyed_beauty]

@thatkidfromcanadia: hahahah lol I wish we could give comments up arrows!

[Asker]

lol me too

[kholland65]

This is like how my old Girlfriend used to keep getting Facebook invites from random indian guys. So weird.

[thatkidfromcanadia]

need I say more...

[steve7368]

It's good to find a girl who likes to watch would like it if she watched me sometime

[duncanmacleod]

Hello no it's not weird, it's dead sexy of you, i had some female friends who asked me to wank infront of them and it really turned me on and they seemed to enjoy it, i really like it when a female friend turns you on and she notices you've got a boner and even better if she touches you through your trousers or rubs her foot on it, i would love to be straddled and taunted, it's a sexy fantasy, i wish you were my friend.

[lastepoch]

I was asked to wank for a Facebook girl last week, if I knew what I did now I would have.

[Anonymous]

It's not weird at all. Is it easy for you to tell when guys have boners?

[Asker]

well I'm not implying everyone gets them and certainly not from me ha but when I do hibe a guy one I can tell yes :)

[Opinion Owner]

Do you like getting guys you do not know boners?

[Asker]

depends...usually not...but if theyre attractive and I realize I turned them on without meaning and they hug me or are trying to hide it I definitely am surprised

[Opinion Owner]

Strangers hug you?

[Asker]

well sometimes...im very social so I may meet new people and I tend to be a hugger when in a good mood...i have been told I have great eye contact and also a sort of peering gaze lol which can freak people out but some guys like it...i guess

[Opinion Owner]

Have you had a boyfriend?

[Asker]

lol yes I've had boyfriends why?

[Opinion Owner]

Have you ever told them this? Cause if I had a girlfriend and she told me this, I would love it.

[Asker]

hmm well I always hint and I have told one but I guess they werent comfortable being the show...its just so hot...could get off right there just looking at the pleasure on their face yum then when they get off and moan oh its to much to handle...seriously

[Opinion Owner]

Your awesome. How do you feel when guys get hard grinding on you?

[Asker]

ooh that is so hot...if I feel it against my thigh I'm ready in an instant and I need it. I'm thinking like making out or something not dirty dancing

[Opinion Owner]

What if you are on a crowded train and a guy gets hard behind you?

[Asker]

hell no that's just creepy lol well...is he really super hot and fit? lol then I may be curious as to why otherwise I'm kind of disgusted

[Opinion Owner]

the guy is a friend or boyfriend.

[Asker]

oh well then yes lol

[Opinion Owner]

So, you never dress or act in a certain way to give anyone boners on purpose?

[Asker]

no usually. I dress for myself an generally don't care what anyone thinks of me. only ones I care for. but that's not to say some people don't grab my attention or capture my curiosity. but sometimes I get in a flirty mood but I try very hard to refrain but if I happen to give one then oooh lol

[Opinion Owner]

What is it like to hug a guy when he is hard?

[Asker]

well if he hugs me tight and against him I can feel it on me through his pants and its really hot and tempting...if he's hugging me but his body is kind od away and he's turned on he just has a sort of weird turned on air around him...that and he's trying not to touch me to much lol

[Opinion Owner]

The second one you put seems like he doe not want you to notice he is hard.

[Asker]

well do guys want you to know?

[Opinion Owner]

It woul depend on the guy if he would want to girl to know that.