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Breast appreciation for the small breasts?

Okay...This question is really for guys. So most girls just care about if guys accept smaller breast or anything of the such. But what I would like to know is: If a man likes big breasted women, why date a girl with small breasts, and then watch p*rn to see women with big breast? Or better yet, when she asks if the guy likes her breasts the way they are, he says "Yeah, but you'd be hotter with them bigger." ? When a woman becomes someone that the guy is really into, why let the size of her breast cloud his mind to the point he HAS to see bigger breasts? Why not just deal with what she has? Especially if she knows the guy likes bigger breasts to begin with, then she just feels all kinds of bad knowing that he's not REALLY satisfied with what she has, if he has to look for other breasts to look at. So...? Please be thorough with your answer :)
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lol. Okay. My boyfriend didn't say he didn't like my breasts ALTHOUGH I know he's a fan of big breasts. And I really appreciate all of you guys and girls comments. Quite differential. :) Keep em coming.
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Most Helpful Girls

  • whatever, I feel like guys like small boobs today more than they like big boobs. I'd trade these huge, saggy DD things in for tiny perky boobs any day. Not only are they always f***ing there, in the way, but they sag. Its not pretty, trust me. They look amazing in a bra, but when bra comes off, boobs come down. :/

    guys will date you if they are attracted to the overall package and your personality. if he wants to be around you all the time and likes you, the fact that you don't have big boobs is probably not going to stop him from dating you. Unless its a huge deal for him, an obsession, and not just a preference.

    "Yeah, but you'd be hotter with them bigger." I don't think guys should say things like that to their gfs unless the girls are really pulling it out of them for their honest opinion and ask if the guys think they would look hotter. theyre either under the impression that you're okay with blunt honesty or they don't really care about your feelings. seems like you need to have a chat or move on if he's saying things like this unprovoked. to the left, to the left.

    This is really about your insecurities. You will never, and I repeat, never, be the complete embodiment of perfect fantasy in a guys mind or meet all his preferences. You can be better than that, but you won't ever be that. If its not boob preference that you don't meet, it will be something else. You can't pick and choose what kind of p*rn or adult pics/videos a guy watches. Its not fair. You're either okay with him watching it, and don't have a problem with xxx rated materials, or you express that you do have a problem with it all in general. If you're okay with him watching certain things but not others, because you only want him looking at certain body types...that just screams insecurity and that's not attractive at all. And its not just guys. A lot of women like looking at p*rn or pictures of guys/girls as well. You may just be less sexual or less into p*rn. And that's fine, but you can't tell him which p*rn is okay and which p*rn isnt. it would be different if you said "why does he look at other women?" but you specified boobs. so its not really about him not being satisfied with you as a whole person, you are focused on one body part because you are insecure with your own and then you are projecting that onto him and creating an issue where there is none.

  • Guys do NOT just like small breasts, they do NOT just like medium breasts, they do NOT just like big breasts and the do NOT just like large breasts. Guys typically like ALL breast sizes, regardless of what they say or what preferences they claim

    There are flat chested girls with boyfriends and husbands, there are girls with small breasts who have boyfriends and husbands and the same is the case for medium or small breasts.

    Just because a guy likes big breasts does not mean he does not like other sizes

    Guys watch p*rn because it's a tool for masturbation and it allows them to explore variety. If a guy only watches blondes in p*rn, does that mean he doesn't like redheads and brunettes? No, it doesn't. If a guy watches BBW in p*rn does that mean he only likes BBW? No.

    Hell, sometimes what people watch in p*rn they don't even care for in real life.

    But if a guy says "Yeah, but you'd be hotter with them bigger." then he's a genuine ass who doesn't know how to speak to women. How would he like it if he asked you if you like his penis the way it is and you respond with "well, you'd be hotter if you were circumcised and your d*** were bigger and thicker." I bet he wouldn't like that now would he?

    The typical guy isn't that much of a douche.

    Honestly, you should probably just move on. Chances are he's immature and unrealistic in other aspects of your relationship.

    Guys DON'T JUST like one size of breasts(whether they claim so or not). If that were the case, only one size would exist. It's the same for butt size, body shape and weight. There are guys out there who love them all

    • I am a guy and I quite agree.

  • yeah, last summer mt boyfriend said exactly that, you'd be hotter with bigger boobs, and he did admit to being a breast man. then he tried to cover it up, by saying he likes all boobs that look nice. alcohol is great for honesty. for any guy reading this I would highly recommend never saying anything of this sort to your girlfriend ever. as it still effects my sexuality, I no longer feel sexy when he grabs my breasts, even during sex it can kill the moment. I've talked to him about it, but he just says it was a mistake to say, but what? the honesty, I cannot forget and I do try any way now that I am breastfeeding our new baby, he says he loves my beasts and he has said, "I never thought id like them but they are so big and awesome, sexy" He's a tool and I'm stuck with him, should have wrapped it up!

Most Helpful Guys

  • 1) Many guys are fine with small breasts. If fact, many men prefer small perky cuppable breasts to large saggy ones. Of course, there are men who just love the big ones.

    2) Breast enlargement is still a controversial choice. It may make your breasts look bigger but then it's got a big downside to it. Explaining that is out of the scope of your question.

    3) How sensible it is for a girl to surgically modify her body just to impress a guy? After all, you need to be loved and desired for what you are and not for what you can change yourself into.

  • Well I honestly believe that most guys DO deal with breast size...in my experience, breast size is WAY down the totem pole with regards to importance...I tend to not be attracted to the type of physiques that host large breasts...I am seriously fine with As or Bs or even "flat as a pancake" ..actually my wife is 34C and I am fine with it...after all..it is what she has...but I never really cared about boobs to begin with...and she doesn't seem to either...ie...if I skip her boobs and go right to giving oral...she never complains...<3<3<3=D

    • you're like the only guy who likes thin girls on here lmao everyone else is a chubby chaser

    • f***...O.O...One of my friends bought me a Plumpers Magazine as a jab...but that is because I have had SO many problems with Aggressive Obese Females...eeeeeeeeeeek! o.O

    • OH YEAH! :)

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  • I'm very late but here's my comment
    to be honest we love to see big breasts we can't deny!
    but like someone says breast is breast and we like them in any size even shape
    in my case I love medium size or a bit smaller since they are more sensitive so it's very fun to touch and I almost gave an orgasm to the girl ( did twice on 2 different girls)
    well breasts are synonim of feminity and fertility a flat woman isn't attractive

  • First off ... I prefer smaller.

    But why would a man do that?

    Simple. He's not a 'breast guy'. He likes breasts, and likes bigger ones, but they're actually pretty low on his priority list. He maybe cares more that she's slim with a round ass and a pretty face and is fun. Big breasts would be a plus.

    Its I think how most women feel about a guy earning ... 20 million a year. It'd be nice. But you date guys who earn less and don't feel bad about it. But still seem to like movies/books where super rich guys whisk away some girl to a better life.

  • damn your cute. Anyway, I'm not much of a fan of BIG boobs really. I've been turned on by all sizes, but if your flat and I have bigger boobs than you... that's a red flag

    • LMAO

  • I would never say youd be hotter with as many if not most women have self esteem issues. Men watch porn because they like it. Many things i see in porn that turn me on i would never do to a girlfriend of my wife. Its part fantasy.

    Also why date a girl with smaller breasts if you like bigger breasts? Well there are things like personality and other things guys are with people for. She also could have a killer ass

  • True, I like all sizes of breasts. My current partner has small t*ts, (32A) so right now I am highly turned on by the little ones.

  • Big breast is what some guys prefer but girls with small ones should not care cause most guys only care about the vagina that's why we can get with who don't have exactly what we prefer

  • Men are in the same boat. You either have to accept it or move on.

  • I only looked at half of it.. but all I can say is DON'T go by PORN! p*rn is filled with fake breasts.. I get more of a hard on with women with natural breasts. Most get implants so they can have better roles so they can.. you guessed it get paid more money and maybe Might get a few more viewers but I haven't seen any implants that looked really good with all the cut marks.

    What's nasty is the areola gets all stretched looking.

  • Let me share you girl my breast enhancement journey. I'm also one of the girl whose dreaming to have a bigger breast not for sake of my partner but its my own decision to have a beautiful body shape. I take breast full in less than two months I achieve bigger breast. ^_^

    • let me be you lol

  • All breast sizes are wonderful :)

  • Well I date girls with small breast and watch p*rn with girls who have small breast :) I find woman with small breast more classy and fascinating

  • i dont mind small or large breasts... but too big (over D) becomes a turn off

  • I prefer small breasts myself.

  • I myself prefer smaller breast as they look more attractive. Like the size of an orange or grapefruit.

  • For the most part, I'm never attracted to a woman with larger than a B cup. Just how I am - Kiera Knightly, Mary Louise Parker, Natalie Portman, Gwyneth Paltrow, Lisa Bonet, Claire Danes, Ellen Page, Miley Cyrus, Amy Acker, Cameron Diaz, Emma Watson, etc.. Those are my ideas of ideal feminine beauty. The one thing they all have in common is that they're all below a C-cup.

  • Sensitivity matters too..

  • It's because we like variety.

    If you've got a tall woman, you're not going to watch p*rn with tall women. P*rn is a means of exercising our need for variety, without actually cheating on our partner.

    If I'm dating a short brunette, my p*rn viewing will be statuesque blondes. And vice versa.

  • I do not view girls as a sexual commodity. If we are compatible, boobs are just part of the landscape. A's or D's, nipples like grapes or BB's, pink or dark, it is all good.

    • Just because you have a preference doesn't make them a sexual commodity.

  • I wouldn't ever tell a girl I'd prefer if her boobs were bigger, it's harsh and it leads to a headache, iv been with plenty of girls that didn't meet certain parts of my criteria but I wouldn't ever tell them that, I'm assuming by this question and common sense, stuff like that bothers girls.. 

    As for masturbating to girls with big boobs, he's a guy? Probably me and 99.8% of straight men like masturbating to girls with big boobs.. It's just this thing we do sometimes..

    But anyways, id tell the guy he makes you feel insecure sometimes with the boobs situation and if he's decent he should reassure you that he likes the way you are now and wouldn't change it for the world

  • Questions like this I always want to answer honestly but guy sexuality is so hard to explain and so hard for girls to comprehend that it's not worth the effort to be honest. Most of the time I try to explain guy sexuality it confuses girls more than helps them understand. All I'm going to say is that if a guy calls you his girlfriend in front of other guys (basically he claims his territory) he loves you and wants you the way you are. He might have some other fantasies and p*rn he looks at sometimes but if he publicly declares you his girlfriend you don't need to worry much, you're the hottest thing for him.

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