This is why...
Anal sex increases the chance off developing anal cancer, anal sex will eventually lead to pink sock, anal leakage, infection from tearing off the inner walls off the rectum, E coli, hepatitis A, hepatitis B, hepatitis C, intestinal parasites, chlamydia infection, poliomyelitis, human papillomavirus (HPV), gonorrhea, Herpes simplex virus, conjunctivitis, prolapse and fecal incontinance to name a few.
Here is an example of pink sock actually happening link (WARNING in advance)
Things like lube and having slow intercourse will slow down the rate this will happen but the rectal walls are surprisingly extremely weak and will weaken over time regardless. with anal they will very likely callapse much sooner, it isn't designed for penetration
Guys that like anal sex whether they admit it or not, have been brainwashed by too much p*rn, I find it disgusting about the whole taboo idea, I don't buy the "I like it because its taboo" its NOT TABOO anymore. It used to be but its became pretty normal now, monkey see, monkey do. ass to mouth is just something new whatever p*rn shows guys will follow
I find it funny how so many guys are into anal have zero to no idea of the consequences that can happen, the girl is gonna be the ones suffering from it later on and she is gonna have a disgusting looking butt hole like that of a p*rn star, no benefits of an emema per say. If you wanna do anal fair enough do it not my problem, learn it for yourself link
Call me odd but I always thought there was a p**** for sex
I entirely agree with your educating statement. I tried anal with my boyfriend and it was very painful and uncomfortable. And he respected me by stopping never asking for it again.
Anal sex isn't healthy for different reasons:
-Bacterium's living an being absolutely necessary in the intestines can cause havoc elsewhere in the body (vagina, mouth, stomach)
-There's a risk of rectal prolapse link for both girls and bottom guys.
-For a bottom guy, if his prostate is hit at a moment he as an even tiny infection there, the infection COULD spread over the whole body , causing sepsis (bacterial or viral blood poisoning link Prognosis can be estimated with the Mortality in Emergency Department Sepsis (MEDS) score.[28] Approximately 20–35% of patients with severe sepsis and 40–60% of patients with septic shock die within 30 days. Others die within the ensuing 6 months)
Moreover, the guy doing it can get a nasty prostate infection from the feces his d**k meets in the anus.
Morality hasn't anything to do with it, it's just risky behavior.
Iv been using large Dildo's and cucumbers up my butt for years. And iv never experienced any health problems.
Some people have been jaywalking for years and are still alive.
Because more often than not its painful for us.. so in general (I'm not speaking for everyone) why would we put ourselves through the pain for your pleasure especially if its not a serious relationship.
Its just f***ing disgusting, why do you want to put your d*** where sh*t comes out. All the other answers pretty much said it all, its not meant for that and we have vaginas for a reason. Especially now that I've been traumatized by some answers below, I wouldn't do it if my life depended on it hahaha!
I do think the fascination of it probably has a lot to do with p*rn, but that's p*rn not reality. Reality is having something like rectal prolapse.
Pink Sock...O.O
A guy has a prostate, therefore has a greater physical pleasure from it. I've had anal sex at least a dozen times and it's never become pleasant and barely become tolerable. Girls are against anal sex because it hurts and there is a lower instance of us ever having a desirable outcome from it than. Also, because men can easily ejaculate from sex that doesn't hurt us, and we don't always understand why you insist on doing something that hurts us just to get a "different" ejaculation response, when we only get an orgasm sometimes and it's not a guarantee.
I'm not, and never 'refused to try it'. It's just not something I do with someone I'm not serious with because it's intimate and requires more trust. I enjoy anal with my boyfriend often.
You mind if I ask how long you have been having it? As you can see by a lot of these answers. A lot of people act like its Deadly and dangerous. And I'm not saying its completely without risk. But iv been using large dildos and cucucmbers up my butt to masturbate with. And it hasn't given me any problems. How about yourself?
No problems. I tried it for the first time with my first boyfriend when I was 17, and we did it probably like twice. I'd experimented with anal play by myself for years before that though. Then I didn't have anal sex again until my ex when I was 21, but we did it maybe one out of every 5-6 times we'd have sex. I have anal with my current boyfriend a few times a month on average. We're young though, and may not show signs of damage for many years to come. But if done carefully, problems can be
Avoided.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!People are picky about what they like. Some people hate anal, some love it. It can be uncomfortable if you're not gentle, but if you know what you're doing it should go well. A lot of people will not tolerate or even try it because it is some what taboo or too kinky. They just might not feel comfortable. If someone isn't comfortable with something, they cannot be expected to do it. It's similar to people not eating foods they don't like. Hope I helped.
why use the anus when there is a hole next to it meant for f***ing. lol.
why not both?
cause I don't want to. no desire for it. plain and simple. don't really feel like going through the pain and patience for anal..furthermore when the guy I'm with probably doesn't even want it.
I read everybody's comment and I must say now... It truly scares me. Lol. It's terrible. Absolutely terrible.
whats terrible? Anal sex or people's opinion of it?
Anal sex... Scary >.<
It's amazing how people can be so honest on this site , Not knocking you . But 2 answer your question 2 things plain in simple and this is real , First their are still some females who associate that with being gay and would wonder if their partner might be gay . Another thing is I've talk to a lot of females and the ones I know really don't get pleasure from it , Including myself . We have a hole that's pleasurable for us and less painful . But the butt hole no , I think if some women like it , It's because of the act. And that might get them going . But speaking for myself I get nothing out of it . To me just focus on the hole I was born with , That will do the job just find.
i would think about it if I trusted him but I just think it would hurt so much and the idea turns me off
I'm not against it and I've done it.
:) Its refreshing to finally hear a girl who isn't against it. Its OK if they don't LOVE it. But as long as they don't hate it or think its gross.
For one t is gross and still is. Also SHIT comes out. Nothing goes in an a**hole to help it except for a butt plug to stop a person from sh*tting because they can no longer control their ass muscles. Lots of times its because of too much anal. The ass sphincter is one of the weakest muscles in the body.
shxt causes a lot of problems for health reasons and keep taking dildos up the ass it will be a problem for you too.
The Vagina has three holes
1. for the penis/birthing
2.For peeing
3. The last for come and to make sex easier and feel great in the VAGINA!
Sorry many women like our asses intact because it was made to work for us not service d***s
Please re-take Anatomy class...
Plus 1! only p**** please
Not that I disagree with you...and I love every ppart of a vulva...but...THREE holes? O.O
not every girl is against it, but it is painful and a penis isn't really meant to be there so as you said you just have to be patient and make sure she knows that it isn't out of selfishness, it is to make the connection and the experience between the two of you better.
I'm against anal sex and I'm a strait guy. it's just weird.
It's disgusting lol. Your poo comes out of there and it's impossible to get it clean. Errrrgh haha
Also, we have vaginas. I would feel a bit degraded.
It's nasty and the anus was not meant for sex. It was meant for sh*t, NOT SEX.
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