is he your boyfriend? if he is and you trust him I would say he is a really nice guy and he is going slow with you, definitely very aroused. guys can get very aroused without sex, the guy I last dated would pull me in tight and moan/groan while we were making out and start kissing me harder. we had very good sexual chemistry and it felt amazing to kiss him.
but, if he is just a FWB or guy you are dating but have not committed to each other, he could be getting sex on the side and that is why he is able to be so calm with you.1 0 0 0Yes...he is my first boyfriend...he's the first guy I've ever kissed an even held hands with...and he knows all of that...he's the first person I've ever physically opened up to in my entire life...being affectionate isn't something I grew up with...I can't even hug my parents...so this is all a bit overwhelming...but it's a good feeling... Yeah...when I start kissing him he pulls me a lot tighter too and rubs me more...he says he likes the way I kiss...I just hope he isn't just being nice
he could still be a virgin.
he probably doesn't want to make you uncomfortable by rushing things. he's definitely turned on & I don't think he is just saying stuff to be nice...he truly means it
0 0 0 0Oh, I thought all of that was happening to you. I was thinking "Lucky Girl!
0 0 0 0It is...that's all the stuff he does to me...I guess I phrased the question in general terms...
Oh my god! OK I'm jelly babe!
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The heavy breathing comes from the increased hearbeat due to rapid blood pumping. And that is triggered by heavy sexual desire and excitement. Even a woman's scent can trigger the whole thing, let alone the rest. All you need is to check out if he is hard and you'll see how much he's turned on.
0 0 0 0Ok...well he does always comment on how he likes my scent... Is there any way of knowing if he is hard besides feeling him up?
Nope. Another thing is, if he's already hard, he very well might be afraid of acting like a pervert or sexually driven madman. No man wants to hurt their close related friends, not even emotionally. At least the smart ones.
Ok...I suppose...but he is my boyfriend...so I don't see why he'd be afraid of acting on it...
Next time just let your hand casually brush against his crotch and see if you feel anything growing down there.
0 0 0 0Ok...I'll try...but I'll make sure one of his parents are home when I do that...because I'm not ready for more yet...
You realize there's a lot you can do that doesn't involve penis-in-vagina sex, right? Just play with him! Rub him till he explodes and he'll be happy as a clam!
So...can I rub him over his pants? Would that have te same effect? And if I start doing that now...won't he want more soon? I'm sorry if I sound like an idiot..I just really have no idea..And don't want to mess up...
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1 2If he's hard, he's turned on.
0 0 0 0I've never felt if he was hard or not...that's the only way to know?!
have you and him lost your virginities yet?
0 0 0 0I have not...I'm not sure if he is really a virgin or if he was joking with me.
oh, how come you and him have not had sex yet?
if his penis is hard, is erect, then he is definetley sexually turned on
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