Guys what is so appealing about girl on top?

With all the guys I've been involved with, they always want me on top. My current boyfriend always texts me stuff like "wish you were on top of me (;" So what is so amazing about girl on top?
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  • Personally it's not my favorite position.
    Still, there are some advantages.
    First of all, it's relaxing, as she's doing most of the work.
    Secondly you tend to reach deeper into her then in many other positions.
    Thirdly unlike in many other positions she tends to be more aware of how her inner muscles are working in that position and actually massage us quite well then (of course that doesn't mean that she can't do so in other positions too, but she's more likely to do a good job of it then as she's in controll and controll the pace more)
    And fourthly we got the hands free to do whatever we like. =)

    Also, on the whole D/s side of things, if you're submissive you could think of it as her being in controll dominating you by being the active one, or if you're of the dominant type you could think of it as her servicing you (again the whole her doing most of the job part).

    And if I'm tired after a long day then yeah, sure, I'd like her to be on top if I even have energy to have sex at all at that point...

  • Watching her entire naked body while she pleasures herself on top of my cock. It is an amazing turn on to watch every curve of her body moving and her breasts bouncing. And also the look in her face :)

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  • Well I think you are talking about 2 different things.

    The first is the sex position, as in cow girl. The great thing about that position is you get a full and easy view of her entire body. Guys are very visual so being able to see her entire naked body and she rides us is super hot. It's also kind of fun to watch the girl make the movements and get her self off, while I'm just a bi-standard, laying back and enjoying the view.

    As far as what your boyfriend is referring to, I don't think he is explicitly referring to a specific sex position. He just simply means he wants you physically on him as in having sex or you simply cuddling up on him. It's a vague phrase and that's really all its meant to be.

    • U are right that it is a vague phrase and he's said it meaning cuddling before and also said it meaning girl on top

  • It doesn't usually do anything for me except it is hot to see her pleasuring herself. It is also a great way to catch a breather if I am tired of pounding. Girls have made me pop in that position but it is rare. They usually have to be acting freaky and talking really dirty. If she is just being really confident and is grinding just right it can be pretty awesome but I usually prefer other positions.

  • is pretty hot to be able to see the girls whole body, plus is far easier to use your hands when you're underneath and don't use them to support your weight. Personally though I don't spend much time in that position, most girls seem to prefer it when I'm on top

  • Easiest way for girl to orgasm from sex usually. Plus, nice to not have to always do all the work

  • The way I feel about it, is its nice to be f***ed instead of doing the f***ing lol.

    When the girl is on top, she is kind of doing the work, so you feel like your being f***ed, instead of you doing the f***ing.

  • free hands that can touch, boobs, ass legs, face, hair...eyes that can enjoy the view of making love

  • guys like, are turned on often times when the girl is the dominant one

  • less work on bottom