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I attract a lot of kinky guys!?

I attract a hella lot of kinky guys it seems..whenever I'm dating a guy and we have sex I find out that they are kinky little freaks haha..not that it's a bad thing but just wondering why do I attract guys like this..am I giving off some kind of vibe?
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Okay to clear anything up when I say these guys are way kinky I mean that they are kinkier than a lot of men. Yes a lot of guys like kinky sex but this is like taboo sex that they like...over the line of kinky already into the ground of taboo..like does anybody even do this type of stuff...yes that kind of guy!
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  • Maybe the guys aren't necessarily more kinky, but you just bring out the kinkiness in them. For example, studies show that guys will talk to girls who are more flirtatious but less attractive physically than girls who are far more physically attractive but less flirtatious. Deep down, a guy wishes to feel validated for his masculinity (i.e. if you laugh at his jokes, acknowledge his ability to be a leader, trust him, etc.; for women the equivalent might be praise, physical touch to ensure that she feels confident in her skin, random reminders of his attachment to her like cute little notes, etc. to ensure her ability to keep him committed) If you do this, you activate a deep part of a man which in turn then activates his sexuality more. Once you do this, the guy feels more sexually confident and asks these questions.

    • I'm not even overly flirtation lol...maybe just a bit confident though in who I am..

    • Then the answer is probably something different entirely, it's probably them, not you. The types of guys you are attracted to might just be more kinky. Maybe you can't tell this, but probably other guys might be able to tell (the same way that you can kind of tell when a girl purposefully makes her voice higher when talking to a guy she likes, but the guy seems to be oblivious to it). Maybe ask some of your guy friends who "get it" to weigh in on them when they asses them in person

    • yeah some of my guy friends think that I'm into some of the kinkier things I guess

  • Depends on what you consider kinky. Not everyone agrees on what is and isn't kinky. What you call kinky might be very normal. Or it might be that you make guys feel comfortable enough to tell you what they want.

    • well I'm usually up for anything up these guy's are up for really kinky sh*t

    • You still are not giving any examples. I am not sure that it really is that kinky. How do you know what most men are into? It might be very normal. I think most people have something they like that is considered kinky by others.

    • No it's not common believe me..I don't want to say it here online but it's really not common...Let's just say that a lot of people wouldn't do it or think of it to even do.

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  • Knowing your body type would help. No joke.

    • curvy, big boobs

    • Well if Anthropology means anything to you - curvy women signal health, reproductive fitness and youth.

  • What makes someone a 'kinky little freak' to you?

    Its more likely your definition of 'kinky' is broad ... but you might surprise us ...

    • no believe me that it's really out there...like a lot of people don't do stuff what they ask..I'm not a straight vanilla but they are something else..

    • Unless you give us examples, we can't tell if its you, or them.

  • Without knowing at least a ballpark number it's hard to say whether or not it is just random chance or something about you. Maybe you are just one of those girls that makes us want to behave like primal cavemen.

    • haha no clue

  • What do you consider to be kinky?...and, since a lot of guys are kinky, maybe most girls attract kinky guys? I suppose that there are some girls who project either a straitlaced or "I am in control" look...and then all of us deviants stay away?

    • Umm well kinky is broad definiton yes but I am usually up for a lot during sex so if I consider them to be kinky..

    • I think a lot of females would find me to be sexually boring..yet I love giving oral and receiving pee...would you be able to cope with that?

  • Well it may be your appearance

    • What would appearance have to do with it?

    • Maybe to some guys you may just appear to be into kinky stuff

  • I have a feeling that you consider almost anything but straight missionary sex to be kinky.

    Here's a hint: Most guys want to do almost everything that they see in p*rn.

    • no believe me it's way out there what they like..

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