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Why do girls like being sexually objectified?

Are there any other intelligent girl who understand what's right and wrong but and are not dumb, but somehow like the feeling of being sexually objectified Why do girls feel this way even when they know the guys don't want them for anything more? It's so confusing being a girl sometimes, I don't even understand my own feelings, I don't want to behave in such a way at the same time because I don't want to be disrespected yet I like the feeling? Why do we as girls almost want a guys approval or something? I mean its so ridiculous at the same time What do you all think about this?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • This isn't the popular opinion, but women enjoy objectification as much as men like objectifying, but we live in a society that denies base desires and labels them 'bad' or 'dirty'. Yes, they are dirty and represent the worst part of human nature, but consider this: The pleasure guys experience when a woman submits to his desires completely is actually equal to the pleasure a woman experiences when she submits completely IF he exudes enough masculine energy. A selfish man is desirable to women just as a selfLESS (ie. "pure") woman is to men.

    In the real world though, objectification like cat-calls and such 95% of the time aren't welcome because men who do this are instantly categorized as "low quality" and most women have at least some self-respect. MY argument though is that, from the right guy who exudes solid confidence, women not only tolerate objectification, but crave it.

    Objectification gets a bad rap because most only see this: Women abusers who take advantage of girls with low self-esteem, pathetic dudes who can't keep it in their pants, "sluts" and slut-shame, and the true sluts out there who use the aforementioned pathetic dudes for personal gain. Truthfully though (IMHO) there's something hot about being seen as a sex object - but it's gotta be with the right person at the right time.

    Sex is still that shameful thing that isn't brought up in civilized circled (otherwise nobody would ever get anything done, lol), so objectification will stay a dirty word. The desire doesn't make you good or bad, it's just some have more appetite for risk than others.

  • I've never ever met a girl that liked being sexually objectified.

    I'd sure like to though!

    If you're talking about women in p*rn or prostitutes in general, I would suspect such women simply have the "man gene" that allows them to separate "feelings" from "sex." With men, for example, being sexually objectified is our fantasy. Most women prefer to 'love' their sexual partners, whereas men (typically) have no such requirement.

    For example, that one reporter on fox news. The really cute one. I think she is so full of crap and disagree with every word she speaks. I don't like her. But I'd still have lots of kinky sex with her, just because she's cute and sex with cute women feels great.

    I suppose this sometimes happens in women too. But, that's just my guess...

    • What does sexually objectified mean to you exactly?

    • prostitutes. if you're talking about models and such, I wouldn't consider them sex objects. They just want attention, and the easiest to get is sexual attention. But having sexual attention is not the same as being a sex object: at least on our (guys') end, it isn't the same at all.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Why do girls think that just because a girl is OK with just sex that she is being used. Not everyone wants a relationship all the time but sex is a natural urge for humans both male and female. Why do people assume strictly sexual attraction means disrespect or objectification?

    There are many male exhibitionists but some how they are not being objectified so why is it that when female is an exhibitionist she is being objectified?

    To me objectified is being viewed as less then human and the person being 'objectified' is not comfortable with it but the person doing the objectifying does not care because an 'object' has no feelings or desires. Not the same as exhibitionism in eyes.

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  • I am a girl, I like being used, chicked, spanked, insulted and pounded till I scream like crazy. And then, as I scream the guy shuts me up with the penis. I like being treated like a piece of meat in bed, in everyday life everything is normal. Usually I do the things I mentioned above with guys that I am using myself only for sex. Am I whore? Maybe. Do I care? No at all. I have studies, I have a loving family, I consider myself smart. Yes, a girl can be smart even if she takes it aup the butt from strangers.

  • because according to the media, being "sexy" and thus a "sex" object is all that matters

  • I was used to start my "sexual" career...

    Now.. I tend to use guys...

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  • Attention seeking.

  • Ok so for me there are two possible meanings to being "sexually objectified". One is in a normal and rewarding relationship, when a girl likes to feel used and abused sexually (and with consent of course). This is sort of a fantasy or preference and it's perfectly normal and OK to enjoy that kind of raw sexual feeling. I am married to a super smart woman who loves that on a regular basis.
    The other possibility is that the entire relationship is based on sexual objectification. That could be fine as a one time fantasy with a stranger, but a long term relationship that is based only on that would seem unhealthy to me.

  • there is nothing wrong with enjoying the feeling of being sexually objectified during sex remember sex is fun you can't be too serious all the time women by nature are submissive and submissiveness is part of sexual objectification just enjoy the amazing feeling you feel and enjoy the compliments you receive enjoy being a feminine women bless you and take care

  • In case of places like Hooters, it's lots of money, for looking good

  • If you mean sexual objectification as in a guy who she doesn't know grabbing her bum then no they don't like it.

    But if you mean as in a guy she's physically attracted to calling her sexy or feeling her back and bum making out with her then yes they love it. I know loads a girls who like it when a guy compliments their body

  • Girls say they hate being objectified.
    But how many girls on here alone post pictures with their boobs showing or body pictures in the rate me section just to get 50 guys to tell her she's hot?

  • Girls do it to themselves, I guess they like to know they are wanted and they do this by being a slut.

    • i see, I think after reading all the answers I have realized sexually objectfied was a wrong term I used.. I wasn't sure how to put it exaactly,

  • I don't like the feeling, it's degrading to me. I wasn't made for someone elses entertainment and I'd never let my boyfriend treat me as such.

    But I guess other people are different.

  • omg...

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