i don't know what determines this, but I've come to the conclusion that it is simply a fact that some women can not enjoy anal sex. I don't know if it's a byproduct of relaxation, aggression, a personality trait, or even a physical attribute, but some women simply can't like it.
On the other hand, some women love it. Based on what these women tell me, it's really not all that different from vaginal sex - it's only a different orifice being stretched out, and since the butt is tighter, it can feel better.
The fascination men have with anal sex, by the way, seems to stem from the fact that men also have an anus. Unlike vaginal sex, men can get some idea of the pleasure you are experiencing with anal sex. I'd say half the pleasure men get from sex in general is the knowledge that they are pleasing the girl they are with - so having some idea of what you are experiencing is a pretty big deal.
Unfortunately, this is completely false, as men have a prostate in their butt and women don't. The prostate is packed with nerves and makes anal sex in men a very different from anal sex in women - for men even if the initial entry is 'botched' the feeling in the prostate is so intense it can override the pain (this is why many men think something like 'surprise anal sex' would be a good idea). For women, this is not the case. The nerve layout in the anus is very similar to what's in the vagina. So, they are similar. The variance in pleasure among women is due almost entirely to their control of the actual hole. If they can't relax it, it's almost impossible for them to enjoy it. So, if you are incapable of relaxing it, don't do it.
It's a little gross, but I would guess that a possible 'litmus test' for whether or not you would enjoy anal sex is whether or not you can comfortably poop in the presence of your boyfriend. When I say 'comfortably' I mean it. Don't fool yourself into thinking your are comfortable because that will end badly; but the plus side is that this works both ways. If you can learn to become comfortable, then you can learn to enjoy anal sex.
oh, also, some guys like it quite specifically because women typically do not like it. The idea is that if you get a woman to like anal sex, it's not only a 'conquest' of sorts, but you have also managed to get a girl that likes your penis so much that she wants it in every orifice. If you hear someone mention the 'taboo' of it, this is, I think, what they are referring to.
Anal sex increases the chance off developing anal cancer, anal sex will eventually lead to pink sock, anal leakage, infection from tearing off the inner walls off the rectum, E coli, hepatitis A, hepatitis B, hepatitis C, intestinal parasites, chlamydia infection, poliomyelitis, human papillomavirus (HPV), gonorrhea, Herpes simplex virus, conjunctivitis, prolapse and fecal incontinance to name a few.
Here is an example of pink sock actually happening link in advance)
Things like lube and having slow intercourse will slow down the rate this will happen but the rectal walls are surprisingly extremely weak and will weaken over time regardless. with anal they will very likely callapse much sooner, it isn't designed for penetration
Guys that like anal sex whether they admit it or not, have been brainwashed by too much p*rn, I find it disgusting about the whole taboo idea, I don't buy the "I like it because its taboo" its NOT TABOO anymore. It used to be but its became pretty normal now, monkey see, monkey do. ass to mouth is just something new whatever p*rn shows guys will follow
I find it funny how so many guys are into anal have zero to no idea of the consequences that can happen, the girl is gonna be the ones suffering from it later on and she is gonna have a disgusting looking butt hole like that of a p*rn star, no benefits of an emema per say. If you wanna do anal fair enough do it not my problem, learn it for yourself link
Thanks!, I believe it's definitely out of the question noww.
yeah, I'm glad I gave you the information but its for you to decide your future
plus if you physically want to see what your ass will end up looking like. just check out a p*rn stars anal that looks destoryed and disgusting
For me, it was painful and I tried it many times. For other girls I know, it ended up being very pleasurable. I think it has a lot to do with how exactly your anatomy lines up. Guys like it because it is really tight and also because p*rn movies have made it into a mainstream, attainable taboo ... kinda like how having a shaved vagina is now considered the norm. Guys who don't try it feel like they're "missing out" on something exciting that everybody else is doing. I've actually had a couple of male partners who said it wasn't that pleasant for them and prefered vaginal sex, and a few who were crazy about it.
"For me, it was painful and I tried it many times." Nuff said...
You have to use lube and go slow first time and yes he can get BM on him if you don't clean first it can be really great fun and make you have great orgasums when don't right, personally I love it and I have no anal leakage or problems at all. It not anything some one talks about as a matter of fact most people that do it don't admit they do
When it hurts, meaning NOT done right from the guy's side. Then it really hurts and NOT in a good way whatsoever. At all. He has to know how to do it, properly. The dos and donts. Etc etc. ut when done right, it can and most probably will, give you the hardest orgasms of your lifetim and you will be addicted.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!I think its just one of those things that most guys want to try just to say they did it. My self included. I really don't find anal sex desirable. I mean poop comes out of there. Why would I put my d*** in there when there is a perfectly good hole right next to it that was made for my penis. Plus watching my girl in pain isn't a turn on. Half the fun of sex is watching my girl get off. Still, that being said, I would still like to try it at least once, just to say I did and see what its like. As much as I hate to use this term YOLO.
it only hurts if you don't prep right it feels really tight and it feels like having a d*** go up and down up your ass. Also please use lube
personally id want to wear a condom to avoid a sh*tty d***
Anal sex isn't healthy for different reasons:
-Bacteria's living an being absolutely necessary in the intestines can cause havoc elsewhere in the body (vagina, mouth, stomach)
-There's a risk of rectal prolapse link for both girls and bottom guys.
-For a bottom guy, if his prostate is hit at a moment he as an even tiny infection there, the infection COULD spread over the whole body , causing sepsis (bacterial or viral blood poisoning link Prognosis can be estimated with the Mortality in Emergency Department Sepsis (MEDS) score.[28] Approximately 20–35% of patients with severe sepsis and 40–60% of patients with septic shock die within 30 days. Others die within the ensuing 6 months)
Moreover, the guy doing it can get a nasty prostate infection from the feces his d*** meets in the anus.
Morality hasn't anything to do with it, it's just risky behavior.
Like taking a big dump, except instead of going out, it goes out and comes back in continuously
I think the cards against humanity card “pooping back and forth forever” about sums it up 😂
yes the guy can get sh*t on his d***...
yes he can get sh*t on his d***!that is a disgusting if it happened and I guess the girl would feel unsexy!
I'm going to speak in favor of anal sex mostly because I have a lot of experience with it with several women. They have all come to enjoy it very much and none of them has had any ill effects despite be sodomized frequently and sometimes forcefully. Whether it's painful is up to the couple. Most of my gals have a masochistic streak which is no surprise since I'm a little sadistic sexually. They like it to hurt some. It's always about your consent. If you want to stop, he has to stop but be patient.
It is intensely pleasurable according to my lovers. It's extremely important that the first time be done with a great deal of patience on his part. He has to let you control the penetration. Spooning up to him with him holding completely still works very well. Once he's in the first time and you acclimate, it will feel great. Fecal matter is no usually an issue but don't do it if your stomach is acting up. Use lube but you don't need tons--that just makes things hopelessly messy. Give it a try with a really patient lover and I'm betting you might really enjoy it. If you want to discuss this further, comment on this answer and I'll go in the clear. I went anon to avoid getting hammered by those who are either misinformed or too uptight.
"Most of my gals have a masochistic streak which is no surprise since I'm a little sadistic sexually." Nuff said...
Most of the times my boyfriend and I have tried it, it was too painful to continue.
We did have one time where it was actually pleasurable, but it hasn't happened again.
My boyfriend told me he had a girl accidentally sh*t on him when he pulled out once, and I don't find that sexy so I'm usually not comfortable with anal sex.
Because they see it in p*rn.
Obviously, I wouldn't know what it would feel like for girls, but the guy can get sh*t on his d***. You'd have to clean it out a bit if you don't want that, but it doesn't matter because the guy shouldn't complain. He has to expect it if he's not an idiot.
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