Should I be worried or concerned that my boyfriend is going to Vegas without me?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend is going to Vegas for 3-4 days without me...I have told him that I don't like the idea f him going. Vegas has a lot of girls/ p**** there. People go there to get laid and party and get drunk... p,s- my boyfriend and I are together for a year and a half and we cuddle and do sleepovers and have met each others families. But I am still a virgin and when we try having sex he says I'm tight and he has difficulty keeping and getting an erection,plus his foreskin doesn't go back..

[animalwithin]

No offense, but your boyfriend sounds weird. he can't get an erection because you're tight? If you're tight, that's the best thing in the world. And if he's giving you crap about still being new at sex, f*** him. I don't trust this guy. Not sayin he's going to cheat on you, I'm saying it sounds like his excuses are bullsh*t. Don't be afraid to lose the guy, you seem terrified If you two were to break up. You deserve better so don't let this guy give you a hard time.

[Asker]

why shoudnt I be afraid?

[animalwithin]

Let's say you break up. Then what happens? Will your whole world crumble? Will you spend your days in misery and agony? Will you lose anything and everything? No, no, no (at least I hope not lol). Believe in yourself girl! This guy shoul be treating you better, thus you deserve someone better, don't you think? I mean with all that he's put you through with the sex and a Vegas trip where he know it bothers you, do you really have feelings for the guy?

[goldgunsgirls]

I've gotta agree with the other guys. It's very worrying that he can't get hard around a tight p****. Tight = bonerific = sexytime. There's a problem if he's claiming that he can't get hard because your p**** is too tight. Either he's lying and there's another problem (e.g. depression, as one answerer suggested), or he's lying and there's a HUGE problem, that he's a closet gay.

[Asker]

could h be in love with his best friend (who happens to be a female)?

[goldgunsgirls]

That still wouldn't explain the fact that he can't get hard with you.

[Asker]

ya true...possibly its something more like depression or stress I think

[Babibunni]

Let him go but keep your guard up, there's a lot of slutty women in Las Vegas and things can get too crazy and out of hand but a relationship can't work out without trust so trust him but keep your guard up

[Anonymous]

You keep replying to answers asking if he's into you or why shouldn't you be worried. Obviously you ARE worried and there's probably a reason for that.

Isn't being tight supposed to be a good thing?

[BobSacamano]

Is he going to Vegas with a group of guys?

What's his reason for going to Vegas--- business trip? To gamble?

Knowing this info will help out. :)

[justincider]

Everyone worries, but if you are secure in your relationship you will be fine. People are going to do what they want to do, and if it goes bad then you shouldn't be together anyway. If he's into you, he won't stray, but of course you are wondering if he is really into you...

[Asker]

by hs behvior do you think he's into me?

[justincider]

Not at all, what you are both doing is normal. I think you are wondering if he is into you, so you are worried he will stray. This is about your insecurities. He should be able to have a boys weekend in Vegas just like you should have girls weekends there. Ur being kinda sucky telling him you don't like it. Sorry, but just don't let him know you are worried. Its weak

[Anonymous]

Let him go, I wouldn't want a girl who wouldn't let me go where I want or do what I want.. If you don't trust him then there's no point in being in a relationship

[Anonymous]

He's had sex with lots of girls but "can't get an erection" when you two try to have sex?

[Asker]

whats that about?

[Opinion Owner]

Maybe he's lying, or maybe he's been a bit ill or going through depression, or maybe there's a weird reason he can't or won't have sex with you.

[Anonymous]

I would have similar concerns, but there is a lot of p**** around him at all times. Surely you've noticed how easily girls put out. If he wanted to cheat, he would have already done it by now, I think.

[Anonymous]

he has trouble keeping/getting an erection because your tight? sounds to me you should be more worried about guys in vegas then girls

[Asker]

why shuld I be more worried about guys? he's not gay...he likes girls

[Opinion Owner]

I mean ya that's what he says your his girl friend so he would obviously be in the closet but he can't get or keep an erection through vaginal penetration? says more then words to me

[Asker]

do gay guys play with t*ts or eat p****?

[Opinion Owner]

No but closeted guys do, they just can't get hard when the time comes because there not turned on by a vagina.. all I'm trying to say is don't think its your fault because your a virgin... hell most guys including me live for deflouring girls because well... its great, its not bad at all and I think its strange that he can't do it, all I'm sayin sorry if I offended u

[Asker]

no I'm not offended, but he is attracted to me (he says so- he likes my curves/body and says I'm cute), but the sex dosnt work?

[Opinion Owner]

The definition of a closeted gay guy is that he acts stirght in everyway he can to come off as a stright guy but he can't get hard when it comes to stright people sex... anyone can say anything and sexuality can be tough for men... gay guys aren't treated too well buy stright guys