Guy wants to rip the girl's clothes off, how should she feel?

[Anonymous]

i am dating a guy and the chemistry is insane between us. you know, just a small touch makes you tingly type of thing. we also have good conversations and our personalities are similar. I feel on fire around him. he feels it too. it's been a few months and the lust is insane but he hasn't actually pressured me for sex, he's been patient with me and told me he isn't trying to push me into anything. we go on dates and talk a lot. but we can't get enough of each other and it's mutual. even from kissing we both get really turned on. today he was hugging me and he whispered "too bad we aren't alone so I can rape you" and he whispers "i'm going to f*** you so hard" and sometimes he will text me how he's thinking about the naughty pleasure he would love to give me and stuff like that. i know guys are horny, but he is sexually obsessed with me. he makes me feel like he worships my body, it's like a whole new level. I am flattered. but what happens when a guy is this obsessed? it's like a sexual obsession between us. we talk about other stuff a lot too. he will ask me how I am, how my day is. but what does this all mean? I want to rip his clothes off too, and he knows it. i know lust is the seed for a deeper connection. if a guy is that attracted to a girl, plus considering that he has been patient with me, and is also sweet and kind of lovey dovey (he gets romantic and cuddly, tells me how cute I am sometimes too) with me, what does that mean? i feel that he does try and is getting to know me as a person too. but there is insane chemistry between us. i guess the sex will be really good?

[Guppy]

Yeah, this is normal, and how guys are when they are anticipating sex. We are naturally obsessed with women and their bodies. Don't that worry you. Have fun, passionate sex. Enjoy the hell out of it. Let him worship you. Let him talk dirty and by all means indulge yourselves sexually in one another. Trust me, you will bond over that stuff. You should be so lucky that a guy is obsessed with you like that. Then, after the sex settles down a bit, you can see if he is still that into you. Good chances he will be given the history you wrote. He was patient, he is into you for more than sex I bet.

[MrOracle]

All this sounds fairly normal in a relationship with a high amount of passion and lust on both sides (meaning: a GOOD relationship!). You both want each other, and why wouldn't you? He is obviously trying to be a well-rounded boyfriend, and not JUST after sex, but, wanting sex with your girlfriend couldn't BE any more normal.

Just be safe, and don't let him move faster than you want, or treat you with anything but respect. After that, whatever you want to do is all good.

[alexandraa75]

He's just being a guy. They get horny it's normal but the fact that he cares about you more than sexually is good, it means he likes you for more than just your body

[falafelany1]

I don't know about that whole I want to rape you thing... everything else sounds good though

[AustinMan]

When the chemistry is that strong, it bodes well for the rest of the relationship. Sex is the engine of intimate relationships. Go for it.

[TheArkAngel]

yup, have fun you 2 ;)

[Happygoluckyboy]

I think you are asking questions you already know the answer too. He wants you. You want him. Just let it happen.

There is nothing wrong with anyone being obsessed with the other person when they are in a relationship.

[Anonymous]

If I were you we would have f***ed by now but it's good you are waiting

[Anonymous]

Yup, seems like he really wants to get to it.

[Anonymous]

He wants to bang you so hard.