Do only rich men and beautiful men get constant blowjobs?

[Anonymous]

It seems like the only men with tons of money or tons of beauty have women rushing to give them oral sex. Is this because women feel that oral is the way to keep a man interested and they will gladly do it all the time in order to keep a very valuable man. Where as, if a women has a normal or just above average guy, there is no need for constant oral pleasure to keep him around. Stories of girls loving to give head only seem to happen until marriage, or for the above two reasons.

[cun7n1nja]

Not a factor for me. If I'm really into a guy and we're serious about each other, he gets bjs all the time, with or without asking, just because I want to do it and enjoy it. Marriage isn't really a goal of mine. If someone I'm with long term decides he wants to marry me, and I want to and can see myself spending my life with him, I would marry him if it's important to him. So trying to 'rope a guy in' with frequent bjs and get him to marry me isn't what I'm after. If I'm into you and enjoy sex with you, I'll be going down often. If I'm not into you, I probably wouldn't be with you for long if at all, and if I don't enjoy sex with you and whatever issues we have in bed can't be remedied through communication and hard work on both of our parts, odds are we're not sexually compatible and probably won't last much longer anyway, as that incompatibility will likely affect other areas of our relationship in a negative way.

I don't give head to keep a guy around, I give head when I'm happy in my relationship, and because I enjoy doing it, for myself and to please my man.

[cun7n1nja]

@Update: Still irrelevant to me, lol. I'm very much a giver. I do love to receive, but I enjoy pleasing my partner much more.

[Anonymous]

One of the reasons guys stop getting so much head that they did as teens is:

a) they take a long time to come -- much longer than younger guys

b) their wife/girlfriend wants to get off too, so she might play with him orally for a while, but stop short of having him finish, so they can both get some.

c) oral sex is often used by girls as an alternative to sex -- so if you two are having sex, you might as well just have sex.

[Asker]

Great answer! I never thought about the abstinence or shall I say, Clinton perspective. But no, I am speaking about older men as well, mid to late 20s up to mid to late 30s. They seem to get oral sex from women, yes without the women having pleasure. That is what I am saying about the women trying whatever they can to pleasure and keep the guys attention. Also, younger guys come faster because they barely understand what is happening. ;-)

[Opinion Owner]

Key words: "seem to."

[Opinion Owner]

* Also, don't discount how much a guy lasting a really long time as he gets older contributes to him not getting as much head. It can really hurt your jaw/lips if it goes on and on and on ... That being said, it's not that common for a guy to go down on a female until orgasm if she can orgasm from penetration, either... Using oral as foreplay is kinda the norm in relationships that include sex ... not because either partner values the other one less, just because it's efficient and fun.

[katiesmuff]

I'm sort of a suck your penisahocolic (meaning I love to suck the penis of my guys) and it doesn't matter to me if their pockets are full or empty.

The beauty issue in truth is something that comes from within the eyes of the beholder and I doubt very many of the guys who get to sample my charms would ever be on the front cover of a magazine (unless of course I was the editor! lol )

Can't comment on the marriage issue!

[Guppy]

You are always fun to read.

[Brando]

What does money have to do with men getting head? Seems like you're asking this question wondering why men get simple sex rather than all around attention from a woman or women.

[Asker]

If you are telling me that very wealthy and or beautiful men do not get blowjobs often and easily, we will have to agree to disagree. Also, I don't understand your second sentence.

[Brando]

What I mean is: it would make more sense to ask "Why/How do wealthy men get sex or romantic attention from females more" rather than what you did here. Blowjobs just seem too specific and like its some widespread appeal to wealthy men to suck his d*** only. Ya dig?

[Asker]

I do only wonder about the specific blowjobs. Because, as the women pointed out, that is a sexual pleasureable thing that women give and do not really receive anything in return! So I am wondering specifically about that. I am also wondering specifically if they really are the only men who get it constantly. Women can be romantic with poorer or less attractive guys, but the wealthy and beautiful get full blowjobs all the time. Why is this?

[Lupianwolf]

porn stars as well

[dwiller943]

Lol. No.

[Anonymous]

I don't know about the rich guys but the hot guys, definitely. I love to give head to a hot guy, giving him sexual pleasure gives me sexual pleasure.

[Asker]

So are you likely to give a hot guy you have only know a little constant head? Also, are you likely to give a boyfriend, who is attractive but not super hot, constant head?

[Opinion Owner]

I wouldn't date a guy I wasn't attracted to so yes I would give my boyfriend constant head. As for not really knowing him, I would be afraid of catching something or if he has a girlfriend but admit those types of things are the only things that would stop me.

[Opinion Owner]

As per your update. I never ever perform any sexual acts that are not enjoyable to me. Hot guy or not. As for the money thing, I couldn't care less about money or marriage for that matter.