Do best friends "cuddle" together while watching a movie or sleeping together?

My boyfriend and his best female friend "cuddle"- at night while sleeping and during a movie at her place (he has even seen/played with her t*ts and licked her come off his finger)...is this normal? or appropriate? do best friends actually cuddle? (p.s - thy know each othr from high school and way b4 my boyfriend and I met they know each other and he has assured me that she is only a friend and nothing more. He has also said that she isn't his type and that she's very fiesty and that he would never marry her)
Yes friends cuddle if they know each other for a long time
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No - there's also an attraction/ more than just friendship
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They're just very close friends/ they might have dated in the past
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p.s- they also had a fight after they foled around because it felt awkward because they are goo friends for a long time
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  • Oh my goodness, I don't even know where to begin...

    NO! it's not normal for a guy to cuddle with his female best friend, play with her t*ts, and finger her then lick the come of his finger.

    I hope you know they are FWB. You're getting played. If he's seeing her at all while you've been dating, then he's been sleeping with her, getting blowjobs, etc. but if he hasn't seen her since he's been with you, then you're okay.

    When he takes a shower, go through his cell and you'll have your proof.

    Good luck to you, and I hope you aren't too hurt. There are plenty of good men out there, go find one.

  • They just might be havin sex, that them two only know about and if it happend before yall dated I'm sure its like they're comfortable with each other enough and tried to like do the casual thing and probably was awkward because me I think id cuddle up a little bit that's just me though... Maybe hell I like to cuddle lol

    But just keep an eye on em because people love sayin we can't sex were friends type bs but they do and when its good and secretive who given that up

Most Helpful Girls

  • Uhh I feel like the seeing her boobs and tasting her come is weird.. I DO cuddle with my best guy friends, I have.. but that's the most I've ever done with them if it's just a platonic friendship. I mean if they've dated before it might be different, but then I would just think there are some left over feelings.. either way though, I personally wouldn't like my boyfriend doing that to any girl. By the way, just because he would never marry her doesn't mean that he wouldn't have sex with her.

  • They're friends with benefits. Even if he's not screwing around with her now -- he's keeping her on the backburner or as a side action girl. Girls don't go fooling around with boys they don't like -- this dude wants two chicks to bone.

    • he never bones me - I'm still a virgin ans his foreskin doesn't go back either and he can't maintain an erection

  • You're naive as hell. He's clearly messing around with her in front of your face. He has no respect for either of you.

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  • This guys is cheating on you, nuff said.

  • Yeah ummm this is far from normal I'm sorry. He is wayyyyy out line.

  • I think they crossed the line of friendship a while ago...

  • he licked her come off his finger when you two were dating?

  • Er, that's not just cuddling, that's sexual activity.

  • i don't know if you're a troll or just plain handicapped.

    he licks and plays with her t*ts, and fingers her and tastes her cum?

    TROLOLOLOLOL

  • RUN

  • Why is this a question? Get out of that relationship. Now.

  • that's... not right. That's beyond "best friends"

  • Did he play with her t*ts and lick her come off his finger while you were dating? Your question doesn't make a lot of sense.

    • in the past this thing with her come and t*ts ahas happened

    • I would say that friends cuddling is not necessarily a big deal, but I don't think I would be okay with my girlfriend cuddling with someone she used to fool around with.

  • damn near all my friends will just cuddle, if we're all hanging out watching a movie at someones house or something there's often a bunch of people practically woven together

  • Look at the poll

    that should give you an answer

  • If my girlfriend told me that her best guy friend had licked her come off her finger, that would either be the end of their friendship, or the end of our relationship.

  • nah.

  • You're either a retard, or a troll.

  • OBVIOUS TROLL IS OBVIOUS.

  • Not really. There may be some feelings there that they just aren't acknowledging.

    • my boyfriend is with me and she dates other guys...