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Virgins losing their virginity together - What do you think?

What do you think about virgins losing their virginity together? Do you think it's a good idea overall, or bad? Why/why not? I put my thoughts below. + Pros They don't have to worry about impressing each other, worrying what number they are on the others' list of partners, they can worry less about STD's, don't have to feel bad about not knowing what they're doing, and they can just have fun and learn together. - Cons It might be a little awkward since both are so inexperienced, and if they are both the clingy type that people assume about virgins, they might get hurt if things don't work out.
I think it's a nice idea for virgins to lose their virginity together.
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I think it's a bad idea for virgins to lose their virginity together.
Vote B
I'm indifferent/don't think it's either good or bad.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Your cons are not really cons...

    Who cares if it's awkward, because if nothing in life were awkward, life would not be fun. Awkwardness is the opposite of boring.

    If it's really awkward, you can probably laugh about it later when you are experienced.

    The clingy thing is a risk even if one person is not a virgin. It is probably a greater risk in some ways. At least if both are virgins, they both carry the same risk.

    Fact is people should take pro-active steps to avoid being clingy and that probably means developing emotional control before you get down to business. Don't have sex if your relationship is not ready for it.

  • I think it's a great idea because learning, or experiencing something new together is more fun, and romantic when it's the first time for both of you. It's also nice to know that your partner has never been sexual with some other person before you. Some people would not mind that at all, but some would.

Most Helpful Girls

  • i agree with all your ideas why its good, if its because you love each other (or at least seriously like each other) its a nice idea to be each others first, if so clinginess wouldn't be an issue and who cares if its a little awkward, once you get into the flow of things its as natural as breathing.

    one thing you didn't include would be if the girl is experienced it helps the guy out quite a bit at the start as she is able to guide him in, if they are both inexperienced it can quite often led to quite a lot of fumbling around, which can be funny but can totally ruin a guy's confidence in what he's doing.

  • I think it's a great idea and that there are no cons that wouldn't also be present with losing your virginity to someone who isn't a virgin. If they're both virgins, they both are at the same experience level, so there's less pressure. You get to experience something for the first time with someone who is also experiencing it for the first time. it's more likely to be "special" if they are both virgins.

    I think it's perfect and ideal. You're giving something to them, and they're giving you something in return.

  • yes it may be awkward, but they'll get over it and learn from the experience. I actually thought only girls really get attached to the guy, once they lost it to him. At least that's what happened to me, but he wasn't a virgin.

    I think it's good, there's nothing bad about it. To me it seems more intimate for some reason, because they're learning together. My boyfriend is 20 and he's a virgin. I'm not, and I've never been with a virgin so when the time comes, then we'll see how it goes with me and him lol

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  • It's not a good or bad idea; it's just life

    Everyone has these preconceived notions of what their first time will be like but in reality, it's not Twilight/Gossip Girl-esque

    The first time with ANY new partner is usually awkward and a learning experience

    C. I'm indifferent. Neither good nor bad

    • Thank you for your honesty!

  • I lost my virginity to a virgin. I have no regrets.

  • sounds sweet, like watching a mother duck and her ducklings cross the road.

  • I'm indifferent to it. I lost my virginity to my boyfriend who was not a virgin, and that was okay too - at least he knew what to expect lol!

    • I know a lot of people will answer this based on experiences such as yours, but I was basically looking for what you thought of the idea in general. Do you think it's a good idea?

    • Basically I feel the same way as peace.love.couture does. First time sex can either be really great or really awkward with a new person no matter what their experience levels are.

  • It is the proper way, and it's fun even if you both suck at it. It is ideal in fact and is sad when this is not the case and someone is more experienced than the other.

  • i definitly want an experienced guy, manwhore not preferred but ya know... at least one of us needs to know what the hell to do

  • I lost it to another virgin it was lame and overrated , it is more about how you feel about the person over all rather than the aspect of being a virgin.

  • Depends, if you're just doing it to lose your virginity? Stupid. Don't waste it like that.

    If you do it cause you love each other? Go for it.

  • Uuuum well yeah I dunno. I think it'd be awkward as f*** ^^. But on the upside like you said at least they'll both be like "OMG so hot" lolol and learn together etc..

  • lol I think it'd be an amazing experience. I was 17 when I lost my v card to a 15 year old who already had sex.

  • sooo awkward :)

    • The question, or the situation? What did you vote for, if I may ask?

    • the situation :) I lost my virginity to a virgin and it was just really awkward, neither of us knew what to do! However I do think it's a good idea seeing as then it's special for both of you, and just a special thing to share. Due to this I was unsure and voted for results. haha

  • There are virtually no cons, the con you put isn't really a con. All sex is awkward for the first time with someone new. I think it's cute and the way it should be, in my opinion

  • I chose A

    For your pros they're all for sure reasons where as cons is mights

    Plus I'm waiting till marriage and I'd like them to be a virgin as well

    • That's actually true now that I look at it again - the cons I listed aren't as extreme or for-sure situations. Thanks for making me think on my own question! And good luck on finding your virgin bride. =)

    • Yeah if you tell the person using their words and reasoning, they'll understand it better. While if I use my words and reasonings, you'll most likely be lost and require more understanding. And thank you :)

    • If she wasn't but regretted it and only with one guy would you not marry her?

  • Throw a wedding ring into that mix and I think it's awesome.

  • Definitely A.

    • Thanks for your vote. Why would you choose A?

    • Because the emotions and connections would be tighter rather than someone who would've already lost it with someone else like an ex or fwb. Plus they'd be on the same level

    • Thanks for that. I'm glad you agree. =)

  • It'd help the search afterward :P

  • It sounds hilariously awkward

  • That's how it happened for me, and it was a GREAT first experience!

  • That's how it happened for me, and it was just about as good as a girl's first time can be.

  • aww, that sounds cute.

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