Do you get embarrassed to be naked?

[Anonymous]

I'm really shy and embarrassed about being naked lol all I can think about is the flaws on my body... even though I don't have that many, I'm a pretty good weight and my boobs are an okay size for my frame (im petite and they are B cups). But I have large inner labia and it makes me very self conscious of my vagina... I also don't know what to do with my pubic hair, when I shave I get a rash and it grows back too fast feeling spiky... I'm too much of a chicken to get a wax because of the pain and because I don't want anyone to see my vagina. Another thing I have is stretch marks on my ass and thighs. My stomach is small but sometimes it looks bloated, like I'm in the early stages of being pregnant :/

[ObscuredBeyond]

Maybe you're gluten-intolerant? As for the stretch marks...I wouldn't worry too much. Nothing you described here makes you particularly ugly. Women who get undressed and then Photoshop images of themselves to look "perfect" always get a few pixels wrong. And as a result, the eye immediately sees those girls as fake.

Having a few of the mild flaws that you do sends the message that you're "genuine." Which might turn a guy on even more, knowing that his ambitions for you are more realistic. Men may fantasize about perfect women, but they chase the woman they feel they deserve. And it's telling that we'll often end up chasing a woman far less idealized in appearance than the stuff in our fantasies. They're fantasies for a reason: we don't deserve them.

[VALEN_tine_ANGEL]

if you are single then you are normal to be embarrassed in front of another person. if you are with your love, he is the only one you can show off your body without any cover, when you and he are in your private place and there is nobody else.

it is normal if you feel embarrassed if you are only wearing underwear in class,

but it is also normal if you don't feel embarrassed when you are in swimsuit in the beach.

it is also normal to let a doctor see your vagina for an UGS test in his/her room.

different situations and conditions affect your standards of how embarrassed you can be.

but in general, people should be embarrassed when they are naked in public.

[dazednconfused82]

I am a big girl I know I am and this doesn't help me relax any also I'm very uncomfortable being naked around a guy...when my husband and I first got together I made him turn off the lights before I got naked...Idk why I am this way Ijust have always been uncomfortable in my own skin. He tells me I'm sexy and what not but honestly I don't believe it...so to answer your question...yes I feel very uncomfortable being naked...but then again I think all women are uncomfortable in their own skin.

[ryaninalaska907]

read what ya said first off I am a guy to tell you if your guy did not like you for who and how you are he would not have married you. And to say you are a girl and you say all women are uncomfortable in there own skin just cause you are a girl you can't say that cause I know that there are a lot of girls out there that are comfortable in there own skin . P. S. dont think I am being a jerk of a guy I am so not not like that just talking.

[HelenitaV]

I have your same concerns about my body, but I learned that there are somethings I need to learn to live with and guys have flaws too. Actually most people have things they do not like about their bodies. How about trying some cocoa cream on those stretch marks? they won't disappear but they might get clearer, try waxing at home (maybe that will help and work out to get a flat strong belly). You should also consume less salt so you don't get bloaded.

[PoeticNinja]

Yes, landing strip. Pubic hair strip in the middle.

[HelenitaV]

ohh I didn't know what it meant

[EverythingReal]

I was embarrassed to be naked up until the point where I was actually naked with a guy. It's a comfort thing. I'm an outie too, and I used to be worried about it, till I realized it didn't matter and he didn't mind. You don't have to be comfortable with your own skin, you just have to be comfortable with someone you love. If they care about you, I'm sure they'll be plenty turned on by your body, no matter it's condition.

[canuckfarmgirl]

No. Of course, I am very selective about who gets to see me nude but I'm not embarrassed. I like my body even with all of its flaws and scars.

[Lommelun]

Large inner labia is more common than not. Stop fretting about that. Guys generally love it or don't care one way or the other.

Myself I do get embarrased while naked. But then I AM a big bloke and not pretty at all. But after a while you realize that unless you change, this is the way you look and you might just as well be happy with it.

[tom-tom-traveler]

I used to go to a nudist resort, and that required a good deal of effort on my part because I was so big and unattractive. I was quite sure I'd get sidelong glances and a fair bit of laughing and pointing. Fortunately none of that happened and for the first time in my life I was comfortable in my own skin.

As for having elongated labia minora, that's something that I (and other guys) find hot. You'd only suffer from appreciative glances whenever you're nude around me...

[Claireluvskaren]

Being naked it awesome, I wish I could be naked more often. Is my body perfect, no, but who's is. Unless you are airbrushed you will have "flaws". The naked human is a pleasure to look at, male and female. Enjoy your nakedness,

[katiesmuff]

Great answer!

[katiesmuff]

Also love your answer! Not sure I need to be worshiped, but everyone is free to enjoy me if it is their wish. You are so right that we all have physical flaws so no big deal, but so many especially girls look at these glammer mags etc and think their body doesn't resemble the models they see not realizing those are retouched etc.

[katiesmuff]

I feel completely free with being nude in front of others. Actually a shame I have such a good real job or I could make the perfect nude dancer. lol

[Claireluvskaren]

I love your spirit. Good for you. My body is a temple, now worship me, has always been a moot I enjoyed .

[ryaninalaska907]

why say that you probably have a nuce butt

[PoeticNinja]

I feel more vulnerable than embarrassed. Though, I try to make it work.

Instead of shaving, I do a landing strip. Since then, it doesn't itch as much. I used to wax, it was nice to be hairless for 6 weeks.

I like the the position where my legs are over my shoulders but then that creates pudginess. I don't like it. It might turn him off.

Girl, I have stretch marks on my thighs and ass too. The guy would be to busy spanking it to notice the stretch marks. Or so I hope.

[HelenitaV]

land strip?

[Cuddle_Muffin]

I love being nude its soothing.

I have loads of imperfections on my body but f*** that...im just not perfect. I deal with it.

[tom-tom-traveler]

Very nicely stated.

[SixFootSexy]

I have to say... for an 81 year old woman you are fiiiine.

[katiesmuff]

Great answer

[taster]

Probably everyone gets a little shy at some point...but you sound totally awesome to me and I would encourage you to embrace your body...I am sure that I would!...(:(:(:

[ak1981]

I love being nude..its so feeling good with own skin, no matter shape and size of body...its always good to see your gender reveal in air openly better when I feel horny and it erected super hard.

[JennieF]

Nope.

[Anonymous]

I'm comfortable having my boobs and vagina showing, but i get pretty embarrassed when people see my bare butt.

[Anonymous]

Embarrassed? Not so much, I wouldn't feel completely comfortable but that's normal I guess.