How do you know when a man is enjoying himself in the bedroom?

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This may vary I know and may be weird to not know how for sure, but - how do you know when a man is enjoying himself in the bedroom? What makes you [guys] show you are? Biting? Scratching? Something she does?I had three rounds of rough sex. Hair pulling, biting, scratching, spanking etc.. I think he moaned a bit and he did come three times in an hour. Does that necessarily mean he enjoyed himself or is it just sex to him? He said I've never been horrible to him, that I'm sexy and all that but do guys ever lie about that kind of stuff as some women do about orgasms?

Blobb · Accepted Answer

I generally don't lie, if it sucks I tell the girls straight up and suggest improvments or if it's going to make her too nervous and shy I'll just say nothing and change positions or activity.

Generally for me, biting, applying pressure, grabbinb, spanking, moaning, gasping etc means I'm enjoying myself and into it.

I try to make it very clear of when I'm into and when I'm not. I'll stop doing all those things when I'm not into if or when it doesn't feel awesome.

When I come funnily enough, the orgasm can be just a regular one even if I was really into it. But a really awesome orgasm will pretty much floor me for a long while. I'll be really tired and sleepy after a great orgasm, I can rarely go again.

I can go again and again if my orgasms are just meh.

taster · Accepted Answer

LOL!  There is nothing for you to apologize for..if I did not want to ask & answer questions then I should not be on this site...you need to realize that all males are different...vastly different...some guys like to be submissive, some like to be dominant, some like regular sex, some like kinky sex..have you ever googled a Domina or Femdom site?  I would guess...and it is only a guess...that most guys are into something on those sites albeit not most of that...in my case, I like giving oral, facesitting and pee...that is why there are so many different types of p*rn...nothing will serve better than communication and most guys are very skittish about opening up and admitting what they fantasize about...(:(:(:

MrOracle · Answer

No guy goes 3 rounds and gets that involved in something they aren't very much enjoying, so you have nothing to worry about. Many guys are only good for one round a day, no matter how much they like it. Most can probably go 2-3 max on average. So he's clearly making an effort, which means he likes it.

AustinMan · Answer

It sounds to me like you two had a great time.  The best sex for me is fantasy or role play sex.  It lets us be even bigger than life.  Sounds like he's a dominant and you're a submissive and that's a great start.  Keep up the good work.