Refusing to date or have sex with an uncut guy?

I find it absolutely disgusting for a man to be uncut. Its just nasty and I would never want to have sex with or even go down on him. I am currently seeing a great guy but I found out he is uncut. I know there is no way I could ever do him sexually. is it wrong that I refuse to date an uncut guy?
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  • I don't think you can be wrong for not wanting to date someone. I may not agree with your reason, but you should have the freedom to date whomever you want, for whatever reason you want. I think its better to be honest, not lead people on or manipulate and such. but if you don't like his d*** for whatever reason and you think its something you can't get over, it'll be best for the both of you if you go your separate ways. he can find someone who has a different mindset and you can find the d*** you really want.

    it tells me that youve been really influenced by something in your life to feel this way, which isn't hard to believe if you're American. I love uncut penises, but I've only been with two guys like that. I think theyre really sexy, mostly because the guy is more sensitive and my exes liked when I played with their foreskin, etc. I don't know it seems natural to me, like I love men and penises ( and vaginas too for that matter lol) so its just like loving what a penis is supposed to look like, the real thing. I'm 100% okay with most uncircumcised penises as long as they have good hygiene and get tested regularly and they don't have any kind of abnormal condition to them. but that goes for all people I'm sexually involved with.

    it seems like there are a lot of reasons to not uncut penises, aside from personal attraction. youve all read the studies. but mostly its a hygiene issue and sexual health issue, and not exclusively a penis issue.

  • Stop wasting his time so he can meet another girl who is not so hung up on him not being uncut.

    It's not wrong about how you feel, that's just what you like.

    I used to think the same way until I met my boyfriend. I never knew he was uncut.

    once we started dating I asked for a d!ck pic and it was so beautiful. fat, long and strong. then months later when we actually got physical. I saw that it had some extra skin on it after we were intimate. I was something new, but it definitely did not take away from his perfomance.

    i would say just try and be more optomistic because you may pass up on so many men just because of that and end up with a guy that is cut but doesn't treat you nearly as well as a guy that you dismissed merely because he has a little extra skin. its not that big of a deal. you jsut have to experience first. be open minded.

  • Nope..

    I'm completely with you on this.

    I've opened a guys pants, fished him out, and found foreskin...

    Pretty sure his jaw hit his foreskin when I stood up and walked back out to the party...

    • +1. Hooray for circumcised guys!

    • My kind of girl!!

    • What if he was hung? Would you still not want too?

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  • It's not wrong. As long as you think that it would be okay for him to reject you if your labia are uneven, or too long, or have too many folds under which things might accumulate. It's not wrong as long as you'd be okay with him telling you that you're relationship is over because your boobs aren't the same size, or your nipples are a funny shape. It's not wrong as long as you would be okay with him telling you that you're fat. Yes, people have preferences, but if you have a great guy who you like, and this is your only fault with him, get over it, it's how he was made.

    • Well thankfully my vagina is fine, my boobs are 100% even (yes rare, even my doctor was surprised), I take good care of myself and I'm not fat. Yes I won't be what every guy wants but I can careless and move on to the next.

  • Not "wrong". Not much to be said if someone prefers one thing over another. Everyone has their preferences and I don't see anything wrong with that.

    With that said... it is a little odd that you'd get his penis get in the way of you liking the guy itself. I personally don't care what a girl's vagina looks like, if I like the girl, I like the girl.

    Full disclaimer: I am uncut so I may be biased.

    • no offense I just can't do it. I really like the guy and I'm not trying to be rude or anything but its a turn off

    • None taken.

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  • It's totally up to you, but if that's your decision, you need to break it off with him immediately, and you need to make sure that HE knows that YOU know that this is YOUR issue, not his.

    • i will end up telling him. I don't know if I should be honest or just let him down easy

    • Tell the truth. Always. Never, ever lie about why you are breaking up. The truth might hurt, but a lie hurts worse. Be as nice as you can be about it, but tell the truth.

  • Of course it's not wrong, that's just what you prefer. However, you're basing your attraction and willingness to get closer to the guy based off the status of his penis which isn't exactly fair to guys. But that's what you like so if theyre uncut, they have to find another girl. I'm uncut and while I find your preference rather extreme, I'm understaning of it as I have high standards for women I get involved with.

  • I don't think that's wrong. People refuse to date for all kinds of physical reasons...height, weight, race, appearance, etc. This is just another preference. If something about someone turns you off, you have every right to not date that person. Personally, I like circumcised men too and I make no apologies for it.

    • What if he was hung? Would that help or no?

    • No. Size isn’t the issue. For whatever reason, foreskins are gross to me. I can’t help it. It’s just how I feel.

  • Well I can see your from a culture its normal for guys to be cut

    Ive no idea about it being nasty and such if you wash it well there's no pronlem with being uncutt

    Truth is nature didn't intend it to be cut in the first place anyhow

    And yes its wrong to reject to date him just because his penis has a skin and no its not wrong that your grossed out by it.. Surely you would be aware your dating him and mot his uncut penis?

    • ive always had an issue with uncut penises.mI recently asked him if he was cut or uncut since we have been seeing each other for awhile and sex may be soon. After he told me he was uncut it was a major turn off. I don't want to hurt him but I can't do it.. I know that sounds crazy but I cant

    • Well I'm sure if he answers your question he doesn't have a problem hearinh you got turned off by hearing it was uncut Better to hurt his feelings then giving him mixed signals and maybe he even goes to get it cut for you

    • Just wondering, have you EVER tried it?

  • You're a total d*** bigot, and probably shattered that dudes self-esteem.

  • The only thing I can't understand is why nobody on GAG is picking up on this troll.

    All you GAG veterans know that there is a loony dude that intermittently posts questions strongly in favor of being uncircumcised under different accounts. This is a dude that is posting as an anonymous woman so that you can't see that he just made the account. GAG, I am dissapoint.

    • actually you are the idiot. This is not a trolling question so stop assuming. I don't like uncut penises. People have preferences. if you think my preference for cut is trolling than fine. whatever helps you sleep better at night

    • There are actually some non-anon women here who have stated they won't do anything with uncut. There aren't a ton of women who have THAT strong a preference, but there are some.

    • Forget it f***face, I outted you. You are the same dude that always posts about being "uncut" ...you are a troll.

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  • Its your call.

    My wife married me when I was uncut, she had a preference for cut, and I was eventually done - which I prefer fwiw.

    Anyway, its your decision.

    • I'll just note you should find out early if possible. Like ... you already spent too much time with this guy.

  • I'm not gonna say it's 'wrong' per se, but... it is pretty silly.

    I mean it's the natural state of a human male, that's only being changed because of surgery. To be so adamantly opposed to it is just kind of odd. It's a lot different than preferring blond over brunette or shaved over natural, or other similar things.

    It almost sounds like you have some sort of phobia or something. Maybe you should look into that.

    • If a man told me he wouldn't have sex with me because he was disgusted by parts that all women are born with, I would assume he just wasn't attracted to women. 🤷🏽‍♀️

  • I'd guess your opinion is probably biased towards societies and I'd suspect you are the type of person that conforms pretty easily. I'd want to know if that was a big deal to you because I find it pretty ignorant and would likely lose respect for you. I think it's naive of you to make that a big deal but if it's really that important to you there are a lot of men that are cut.

  • Move to Israel.

  • What if he told you “I don't date girls who have not gone through labiaplasty. Big labias are gross”
    How would that make you feel?

  • Lmao, you two women are idiots. Grow up

  • You two girls are shallow bitches.

  • If this is seriously your attitude toward this guy and his body (which FYI, is exactly as it's intended to be) then you owe it to him to tell him to tell him how you feel, so he can realize he deserves to be with someone who isn't a such judgmental and ignorant bitch.

    You're welcome to your opinion regarding his junk, but just know that it is shallow at best to consider dumping someone whom you claim to care about because of the natural state of their body.

  • I think it absolutely disgusting to date women who DON'T think like you!!

  • I've given up on finding a date. I'm a good looking guy and quite adequately built in the mid section. However I am uncut (can't tell when erect) but also due to an incident in combat I have lost one of my testicles (no scaring). Now I live alone after being laughed at and rejected so many times. I just sit looking out the window with a cup of coffee everyday until it's time to go to bed. It's better than being laughed at, rejected and humiliated.

    • You could get circumcised and get a testicular implant.

  • While I might think your reason is a bit odd, you have a right to it. I have one physical requirement (must be my height or taller) that if not met means I'm not turned on at all and it will never happen. So while yours is a bit unusual, you at least know it and admit it (so do I for that fact).

    Just don't lead the guy on, he deserves to move on and find someone else and so do you. Staying with him any longer doesn't do anyone any favours.

  • I'm surprised that more women aren't saying "If he loves you he will get the circumcision."

    • im not asking him to change himself for me. if he is happy with being uncut than he needs another girl who will be happy with him being uncut

  • that's just shallow!

    • look if you had something that is a turn off that you literally couldn't do than it wouldn't be shallow. I literally couldn't do it. I just cant. I'm not trying to be shallow but I would get sick

  • It's fully up to you whom you date. There's nothing wrong with that.

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