Why exactly does he want us to go to a swinger club?

[Anonymous]

if he doesn't want to sleep with other women, doesn't want me to sleep with other men, doesn't want someone to watch us and is not even OK with other men seeing me in underwear? When my boyfriend suggested it I was kinda surprised. Our sex life so far has been very "vanilla - like". I didn't really think about trying new things yet, I just lost my virginity to him 2 months ago, but I would be open to it. He also tends to get jealous easily so I don't at all understand what he wants to do in a swinger club. It's not really my thing but I would do it for him. When I asked what I should wear he said "well not something slutty, most people there are creepy old men, I don't want them to look at you" I always thought all people in swinger clubs look slutty, that's the point, isn't it?

[archer86]

He wants to see if there are real people on those swingers sites and what they truly look like. Been there, laughed my ass off. I went to two swingers parties back in the 90's. I'm no God of Beauty by any means(no need to confirm this) but each time I went there, I turned out to be the youngest, slimmest, cleanest, best looking person in the groups. I wasn't looking for any sort of supermodel but even I couldn't get drunk enough to bang some of those chicks!

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

That's why, nothing more than curiosity

[arashmenalagha]

Hey that sounds like loads of fun. what do you mean by Vanilla like xD!

Not sure why he wants to go if he's that pissy about you being looked at by other guys.

I've never been to a swinger club, if you go can you please tell us your experience?

[ShesSoSilly]

I've always thought that was the point of it too, hook up with another couple. I would straight up ask him why exactly he wants to go and what he intends on doing there. I personally am not interested in the idea of that and if you aren't you should express this to him. That even though you're willing to for him, you don't really have a desire to go.

Maybe he just wants to see what one is like but it does sound weird to me anyway that he'd want to go but not do anything or want you to do anything.

[Anonymous]

Ask him why he even wants to go. The whole point of a swingers club is to hook up with other couples. Maybe he wants to find another woman and have a threesome.

[Gezginmalkoçoğlu]

What do you want? That's what matters.

[Anonymous]

Maybe just go with him and check it out.

[Anonymous]

" I would do it for him."

There lies your problem. You have likes and you have to stick to them.

[Anonymous]

That might be some sort of fantasy of his.

[Anonymous]

you are only 2 months having sex and it became boring so soon? I have sex with my boyfriend for 2 years and it's still exciting and fun.. I would not go to such place , and would break up with boy if he propose swinging.