SICK of having big butt and thighs but small waist! Looks so off!

[Anonymous]

Even though my upper body is thin and I have a small waist, the thing that REALLY annoys me is my protruding butt and upper thighs. I'm an islander so I'm guessing its genetics, I seem to be the only one in my family to have a huge trunk lol.

I am currently in 5 weeks of gyming and pilates so far and have lost weight but it is my BUTT AND THIGHS that are just so damn hard to lose. I've been eating healthy ever since I started. My butt and thighs take longer to lose.

I get self-conscious when wearing jeans and short tops because when I look in the mirror, my butt is like PROTRUDING out, which looks abnormal with my small waist. I can fit size 10 jeans but its my BUTT and thighs that can't and its so frustrating.

My butt and thighs in jeans looks similar to Kim Kardashian in these pics:

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My worst nightmare is to end up looking like THIS of which I am heading:

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Sorry to all the curvy women out there, I don't mean to offend but personally I just can't stand this body shape, guys always look at my butt, perve and I feel some guys find it gross. Some guys have even labelled me as Nicki Minaj who I can't stand lol. It just hurts. I like the athletic shape which I use to be and am trying to aim for that. Am I wrong?

Is this body shape off-putting for you men out there?

[Anonymus1704]

I have the same problem. I'm 5'7 tall and I weigh 119 pounds. My measurements are 32B 24 38. I'm a pear shape and have thick thighs and my butt sticks out a lot. I used to hate my body beacuse all guys stared at me, but then I realised most of them love it. I also started to workout. I did 40 min of cardio a day and some upper body excercise. After 2 months my body seems more proportional. My shoulders appear wider beacuse of push ups, my thighs are toned and look thinner. Now I get even more compliments on my body shape and have improved my self esteem too. But I don't think you should worry too much about your body shape beacuse most people find it extremly hot and feminine.😉

[KingJR]

um have you any idea why magazines keep posting images of kim kardashian in a bikini?...definitely not because she has an ugly body...

If you're comparing your body to kim kardashians, then you've got curves in the right places. If you want to get in a little better shape, then fine, go to the gym. A butt that sticks out isn't a bad thing. Especially if it looks like Kim...

You've only been going to the gym for 5 weeks...give it time! As for if this body shape is off putting for us guys? no, like the song says " I like big butts and I cannot lie "

[Asker]

I guess you're right and yeah I have to be more patient about my training, thanks so much for this, you've made me feel better about myself.

[G-Daz]

Ola menina! como voce esta bunda grande :D

Thick thighs are so hot! and a big butt looks amazing. What's wrong? lol. I don't think it looks bad at all. learn to love it!

[Asker]

I don't know I'm just really self-conscious. But thank you for your comment, it really uplifted my spirits, I wore jeans today :) thanks!

[G-Daz]

haha wooh :D good

[David-NewZealand]

There are heaps of guys that like bigger butts and thighs on girls. I am not joking they find it a turn on. Which on of those three photos does you butt look the most like?

[David-NewZealand]

Because if you have got a butt like the last link well trust me you will be turning guys on no problem. That butt in those jeans was a turn on.

[Kinkhard]

You should be proud of having a physical quality that makes you stand out sexually. You will probably attract more ass than tits guys... but that's not really a bad thing. To an ass guy what you've got is sexual dynamite! Rock it with pride girl! As long as you don't gym it away, it'll be the aspect of you that your future boyfriends brag about to their buddies!

[Anonymous]

If you're worried about it looking ugly, it's not.

[Asker]

Thank you for this. And yeah I've embraced it now, just getting into shape and hopefully just slightly cutting my ass size. :)

[Anonymous]

You're worried about having a thin waist and a big butt? C'mon a lot of guys really like that!

[Asker]

Yeah they would more or less like to 'bang' this haha. But yeah you're right, thank so much for your input, you don't know how much this has made me feel better and less paranoid. :)

[Opinion Owner]

you're welcome :)