Am I too horny for my girlfriend? or is it a mistake?

[evolution3]

I have been in a relationship with my girlfriend for about 6 months now and we have a lot of ups and downs in this relationship, but it usually is something not that serious and everything goes well after a short while. But for the past 2 weeks, she stopped wanting to be physically active. For the period of 6 months, she doesn't want to have sex, so we perform dry sex instead..but now she doesn't want that anymore. I explain to her that sometimes I have this urge that I want to be more physical with her. It is only once or twice a week that I get it. I thought that when we make out and go on the bed, it is a sign of love but when she refused it kind of hurt me and I told her I love her less but I still really love her. I know it was childish of me to say I love her less but all she believes now is that I didn't really love her and all I cared about is making out and doing it with her. Now she even tells me she hates it. Am I being way too horny and selfish? What am I suppose to do?

[Anonymous]

as much as you want her, your girlfriend wants that space. whatever that reason is, you should be reassuring her of how much you love her, not the other way around. by telling her you love her less, she definitely isn't going to wanna do it. How to fix it? There's no guarantee but communicating with her about the situation will always help. If you two have had your downs before like you said, you can get over this. And I don't think you're selfish or overly horny, its just your high sex drive talking.

[l-hedoniste]

So she won't have sex, then she won't have dry sex, then she won't even make out.

Read your post and pretend it's coming from a friend, a friend you know likes sex and wants sex a part of his life. What would you expect him to do? What would you say he should do?

This isn't as tough a call as you think this is.