Is it true that men feel like being with a small breasted woman is disappointing?

[Anonymous]

I know, yet another breast question. But I've heard so many hurtful comments, both from men and women about small breasts, and particularly MY small breasts that it's really hard to believe people who say small breasts are good. It feels like they're just saying that to be PC. I've been told I look like a little boy, like a 12 year old, like a "carpenter's dream", a pancake, whatever cruel remark there is about this, I've heard it! I don't know why I've had that bad luck, since I know small breasted women who have never heard such mean remarks. Anyway, it has stuck with me for ages, especially because even though now I'm an adult, some people still think it's funny to comment freely about my body, or make jokes like it's their god given right. A lot of busty women have made comments, I don't know why, a lot of them have way nicer bodies overall than mine, so it's not like it could be envy! Maybe they just feel superior, I don't know, but sometimes I'm very nice to them, no jokes nor criticisms and then they make a small breasts joke! Especially that men who like small boobs are closeted gays or paedos, or desperate, that they fake liking small boobs just to get some, they lower their standards. I've also been compared to my sister my whole life, she is busty, and I'm flat. To make things worse, I'm not skinny with subtle curves, I'm average sized, with wide hips (not fat, hip BONES), small, pronounced waist, thick thighs and butt... and small boobs. I feel like if I had a skinny framed body, with subtler curves small boobs would look better, but I'm like Kim Kardashian, but flat chested. It doesn't look right. I don't have money for implants, and I feel that would be selfish of me anyway. So do guys actually feel that small boobs are that much of a disappointment? I just don't know what to believe anymore, since people can be so condescending when it comes to body image.

[Anonymous]

One of the best girls I've ever slept with had like 34A's. She had one of the nicest asses I've ever seen and she was a super freak. I loved fooled around with her because she'd get so wet and even though her breasts were small her nipples were super sensitive and super cute so they were fun to play with. Not once did I ever wish "damn, I wish this girl had bigger breasts". I had so much fun with her it didn't matter.

Focus less on your breast size and more on being a sexual creature when it counts. Guys can get over girls with small breasts but they won't get over a boring chick in the sack.

[sexyasianboi26]

There are billions of people in this planet, not every single one of them will have the same physical interest.

I for myself, would rather be with a skinny girl than a curvy girl with big boobs and butt. I don' know but it is just my preference.

So to make you feel better, yes if I did see you in person I would be physically attracted to you.

[Asker]

But I'm not skinny like Keira Knightley, like I said I'm more like if Kim Kardashian had no boobs.

[sexyasianboi26]

the way you described it sounds hot. Like a Gymnast or Swimmer. They have big thighs wide hips big butts and small breasts.

[Anonymous]

I've heard the same, I basically have the body of a skinny 14 year old boy. You name it, I've heard it. But you can adjust. Just find a man that cares more about the bottom half than the top half. Plus, small boobs stay perky a lot longer and are more sensitive according to the guys I know. Dress to compliment your body type, not hide it. Because, honey, if you have small boobs, you can get away with any kind of shirt ;)

[Asker]

I've just never met a guy who prefers butt to boobs, it seems like they are all obsessed with boobs as if they still were newborns :(

[Opinion Owner]

They exist. My ex never complained even though I'm a 30A.

[justme20]

my boyfriend prefers small breasts over large. I'm the biggest girl he has been with (im 38DD) all his exes were AA-B cups. Some guys are neutral, some guys like smal and others like large

[Asker]

How weird and ironic, I've only ever met/been with guys who prefer big breasts, and now your boyfriend has been with mostly girls with small boobs... I hope to meet a guy with that preference one day, it just seems that big boobs are better since they're part of the "ideal" body women should have and men drool over. In any case, you're very lucky.

[pr3ttybr0wn]

don't feel bad about your body you have a pear shape & a lot of guys like that try dating guys who like pear shapes. they're out there

[Asker]

I've never met any, they're all into hourglasses, or just chicks with big boobs and no hips... the minority are into "ruler" types exclusively, they think big hips or a big butt is bad, not "delicate" or something like that.

[archer86]

Read some of my answers to this question about small boobs and you should get the idea. I am tired of answering this all the time. You should be able to read them

[zdagger]

I've dated a girl with your shape and spent about one day a week telling her I thought she was perfect and DO NOT get implants... however she continued to feel bad about herself and her figure. If you aren't happy with your body it won't matter if your man likes it or not. Either realize you can be hot and sexy to the right person, or get a boob job. OR seek alternative methods, apparently drinking enough beer can give you a cup size. Research it first, google is your firend.

[improve]

you're none of a man if you could not reasure her well. you are zero as a man

[fungusamongus]

@improve what a disgusting point if view. he tried consistantly and was genuine in his like for her body as it is... are you expecting men to fix all of your psychological problems? i guess when we can't, then you project your failings onto us by emasculating good men.

[jmr2191]

I'm not too picky about breast size. What I really don't like are breasts that are products of plastic surgery. It projects too much insecurity and I like a girl for who she is- whatever cup size her boobs are.

[kheserthorpe]

I like pear shapes. A lot. .

[Bl0n6eguy]

"I'm average sized, with wide hips (not fat, hip BONES), small, pronounced waist, thick thighs and butt... and small boobs"

Sounds like you have the perfect body; if you have a small waist and wide hips they're likely incredibly jealous, and insulting you out of spite.

Some women develop butts instead of boobs as they grow up, but for those into that you'll have the perfect body.

The girl who asked me on a date yesterday is like you describe, and my crush is like that too (I think she has what you call an A or B cup?).

Do not get Implants, I bet you look perfect. Try to make the most of your naturally gifted butt, it is just as attractive if not more so to the right guy. And don't try to Emulate Kim, she's likely had so many surgeries, face lifts, and probably butt implants.

I know I would like you for how you are. Small breasts can even accentuate your wide hips, making them look even better.

I've fallen into the trap of booking cosmetic treatment, laser spit removal, and I'm having second thoughts now.

Be your gorgeous self, and flaunt what you've got. They're jealous.

[munky89]

i had this discusion with someone...big boobs sag due to weight...i prefer smaller chested women...but I'm not crazy over chest...I LUV LEGS

[justme20]

you do realize that small breasts sag too right? ALL breasts have the potential to sag from A cups to F cups

[munky89]

true...just more common I find with bigger breasted women...but iunno...i don't look at boobs...as long as she is cute and has a vag I'm good

[jakenoval]

Are girls disappointed when a guy has a small tool? In my experience some are and some are not (or at least don't say it). depends on the guy but in general a female shape has curves but I would say proportion is more important.

[Asker]

It's not the same deal. A tit is a tit no matter the size, OK, so a penis is a penis no matter the size, but have you seen some huge t*ts that just aren't good looking? There are many, and not all small boobs look bad, and I'm sorry but just because I have small boobs I shouldn't be told I look like a boy. No matter how small a guy penis is, no one ever tells them they look like girls or anything. And small boobs are curvy too, smaller, but they're not like square shaped or anything.

[Asker]

I've never disappointed by a guy's size if it's a guy I really like. In contrast, some guys have a penis that it's too damn big and makes everything uncomfortable, especially BJs (try sucking on a cucumber for 5 minutes!). But I would never think that being with a guy with a small penis is like "being with a 10 year old girl". Plus guys have their d***s conveniently hidden from the judgmental eyes of women, we don't have such luck, you can easily see who has bigger boobs through clothes.

[Asker]

Plus big boobs are everywhere, on TV, movies, magazines, literally everywhere, big d***s are only in p*rn. Guys aren't constantly bombarded with images of big d***s like even when you watch the news or go watch a comedy, but big boobs are everywhere, the pressure is always there, the message is far more pervasive than penis size. I hate it when try to guilt us into thinking guys with small d***s have it harder, when they themselves discriminate flat women.

[MRTICKLE]

I love small breasted women. Sizes A or B up to a C is ok. Anything more than that for me personally is too big, but I would never judge or disregard a person or try to hurt their feelings. I prefer smaller, but that doesn't mean I will hate bigger.

I would love to meet a smaller petite breasted woman.

Don't feel bad please, you are who you are and you shouldn't feel you have to change for anyone.

I have a smaller penis, and women laugh at it. Women can be just as cruel to men about their penis.

[taster]

Huh? Probably some do...I prefer smaller and would not care if a girl was flat as a pancake...(:(:(:

[taster]

Always remember this---> Females are WAY more concerned about boobs and boob size than males are...those b*tches you mentioned...simply big-titted breast snobs...and their reality would crash when I showed more interest in you than their fat-boobed selves...(:(:(:..<3<3<3=D

[G_GTom]

Let's reverse the question, "Is it true that women feel like being with a man with a small penis is disappointing?"

After all women saying that it doesn't matter could be saying to be PC. Large men make comments about smaller men. Women make small size jokes.

What would you say to a man in that situation?

[Asker]

Well, I've never cared about size honesty. But are you implying that just 'cause some girls are stupid, shallow bitches that it's OK that small chested women get crap? The nerve, what an awful answer.

[Asker]

Besides, a guy with a small penis can get just as much attention as a guy with a bigger penis in, say, a club situation. If I met a handsome, nice guy with a small penis and we hit it off, I wouldn't be disappointed or turned off, because I'd already be too horny to care (been there done that). Now if a guy were gross, creepy or whatever, no matter how big his penis I wouldn't sleep with him. In any case with penis size it's always a surprise, guys don't get ignored because of it cause you can't

[Asker]

you can't see it through clothes. If I go to a club with bustier women,I'll be invisible because all men will be acting like newborns. Plus, we all know that telling a guy his penis is small is like giving him a permanent trauma, but joking about small breasts is a "no big deal" thing, at least my ex always told me to "chill" about his dumb jokes about my size. Let me ask you something, so you honestly thing that small chested women deserve crap because small penised guys are mocked?

[G_GTom]

I never said any women deserves crap. I just wanted to see what you would say to a man in similar situation. If you really don't care about size, you'd be in the minority or the extreme minority on this site. I don't know where you get the idea that women with small breasts would get ignored. Do you really think Keira Knightley would get ignored if she went to a club with a busty woman? If all it took was being busty to attract guys, you'd see overweight women getting most of the men.

[G_GTom]

Furthermore, men like breasts in general. We like to look at them whenever we get the chance. The same cannot be said about women and penises. You can still have a satisfying sexual experience with a woman who has breasts a lot smaller than you would like. The same cannot be said about a women who prefers a lot more than the man has to offer.

[G_GTom]

Breasts fall fairly low down the list of things I like. I wouldn't say that make the top 5, but I do have preferences. Perfects size? I'm guessing large B cup. I can't say for sure, but I've seen this size on women and I really like what I see. B cups are also good. A cups are hit or miss. I've seen some really good ones and some that do nothing for me. AA cups I've never seen ones that excited me. That's my honest opinion.

[Asker]

OK I'll tell you a story about why I don't care about penis size. My ex was average sized, his penis wasn't very long, but it was a bit thicker than average. Penetration was nice, but I could never orgasm from that. Then I was with a guy with a long penis, it was nice, but still nothing, and BJs were really uncomfortable. Then I was with a player, a guy who was always hooking up with chicks. He had a small penis, it was a surprise (my bad for buying into the stereotype of player = big penis)

[Asker]

It was in no way a turn off. He was confident, and he knew how to pleasure a woman. He wasn't afraid of "handling" me... I don't know, it was like he just KNEW what he was doing (he was). he really knew his moves... and then during intercourse, he started moving in a way, I don't know how to describe it, but it felt like a circular motion. It felt really nice and I had an orgasm. He's the guy with the smallest penis I've been with, yet the only one to make me orgasm from penetration.

[Asker]

Hence my skepticism, I'm sure a guy with an average or big penis who knows his moves could get the same effect, but then size is irrelevant. I have little experience (only 3 guys), but in my opinion, the women who think the only way to have staisfactory sex involves a big penis are ignorant, have had bad lovers, bad luck, I don't know. But from experience, I can honestly say size doesn't matter.

[Asker]

And of course we have a clitoris and there are so many ways to stimulate it that don't involve the penis... oh I've also had orgasms from nipple stimulation (though that's rare)... but yeah, if it were the same question I would tell the guy that a) there are many ways in which a woman can orgasm that don't involve the penis (hey, I mean with all due respect, lesbians are perfectly happy without it) and b) it really is more about how you move and technique (pressure, I know) but you can learn it.

[antonlikesmlb]

Small boobs are more sensitive. I like them.

[skinnyriblover1]

I it disappointing? Nope. I spotted my girlfriend in the crowd precisely because she was slender and Thathletic. Undressing her is a treat!

[Nifrayu]

Men don't care much about breast size. I think women worry about it too much. This is starting to feel like a 1 to 1 with all the penis size questions.

Okay I'll be completely honest with you because I don't like to answer questions dishonestly. There was only one time I felt a little disappointed by my partners breasts and that was when we tried titty fucking. She was just too small there for it to work and I admit I felt a little disappointment with that, but that's not a big deal. It's really such a minor thing.

So don't let it bother you. I'm sure they are very perky and they will age better than large breasts. So be proud of them.

[Pete671]

small boobs are cute imho,

[waterworld]

I like butts, so i honestly could not care about boob size, as long as they're not ridiculously big. I've been with women that are D and over, and to me it just seems burdensome. I have a tendency to get a little rough, obviously only if she's into that, and that can be a problem for larger chested women, having all that weight bouncing around. I'm a big guy (6'3", 205lbs, athletic), and usually are more attracted to shorter, smaller breasted, petite girls. And i can assure you I am in no way a closeted pedophile. Sorry about all the hate you've been getting.

[CreativeGuy0017]

I know it’s easy for me to say “oh don’t worry about it”. We have created this idea that bigger is better. Many people believe that. That will never change. I personally adore small breasts and have a great attraction to them. I love the perkiness they have and just the overall look.

[fungusamongus]

I like curvy, proportioned women as a preference.. its just what I am drawn to naturally.

This does NOT mean fulller, massive hips, 36DD tits and a bubble butt.

I actually like a slimer, toned and leaner women just as much as a women with a little bit of meat on her.. imagining they had the same proportions.

Honestly, completely flat chested, sorry but NO.

30B or 32C cuo now we are talking! smaller bosoms are perkier and dont sag and flop sideways when she lies on her back (a bit of a turn off tbh lol)

[Anonymous]

i don't give a f*** about being PC, never have.

i like smaller boobs, and that's the end of it.

[Anonymous]

No, not at all. Small breasted women are just as beautiful!