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Would you have sex in the same room as another couple?

My girlfriend and I are a little on the adventurous side where sex is concerned, sex in the bedroom is great, but we're both very turned on by having sex in semi-public places. Although we've discussed threesomes (both MFM and FFM) and are turned on by the idea, neither one of us thinks we could handle seeing each other with someone else, and so for the moment at least, we're content to leave additional partners in the realm of fantasy. Obviously, if jealousy issues are a potential problem, swinging is out of the question as well. But... well, we're both sort of turned on by the idea of having sex in the same room, at the same time, as another couple. The turn-on factor isn't really so much to watch (we've got p*rn for that), as to be watched, I think. And we both doubt we'd get any jealous issues that way. We've both interacted with strippers at bachelor/bachelorette parties without any jealousy cropping up, and we've been to strip clubs together, so just being in the same room with another couple having sex isn't likely to cause any problems. But looking around on the web, it doesn't really look like there's many couples out there wanting to do this sort of thing, they're mostly swingers looking to share partners, and we're just not willing to go there. So I'm just curious. Would you have sex with another couple in the room? Would it turn you on, or would it bother you? Would you be afraid that your SO is getting off more from watching the other couple than by being with you? You can just give the canned poll responses if you want, but It'd be awesome if you could elaborate why you feel the way you do about it. No "see results" option. Everyone can have an opinion on this.
No way am I letting my partner in the same room as another naked man/woman!
Vote A
It sounds interesting, but I don't know. I'd really have to spend some time thinking about it.
Vote B
That sounds hot/exciting! I'd love to try it someday!
Vote C
My SO and I have tried this, and it was a DISASTER.
Vote D
My SO and I have tried this, and it was awesome!
Vote E
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Most Helpful Guys

  • In a way I have already, sort of. I had sex with my wife a couple times, while I knew our guest could hear us. My wife hates the idea that someone know we have sex, but I love it.
    So, a couple times, when other people are within hearing range, I play with my wife until she is willing for really really quiet sex. But the closer her orgasm is coming the less she is noticing that I al fucking louder on purpose.
    Also I some times I made sure to not close the curtains and to have sex while I know neighbours were spying into our bedroom trough the window.

    We once we caught her little sister was having sex with her boyfriend on our sofa when she was staying over. We sneaked into the kitchen and we spying on her. And then I fucked my wife in the kitchen while her little sister was fucking in the livingroom. I wished my wife had the guts to fuck in livingroom with them seeing it.

  • I think sex in the same room with another couple would be hot. I have done and enjoyed a couple of threesomes. The MFM one was great, both us guys were into her, but not into each other. A FMF scene was actually kind of boring. I think it depends on the chemistry of who is there.

    Consider going to a sex club such as: link Some people go just to watch. Some go to be watched. Some people go to pick up new partners.

    • I have considered swingers clubs. Though we're not open to sharing at this point, I know clubs are mostly okay with that, and we probably won't be harassed too badly by other members. We simply have sanitary concerns about having sex in a place where potentially hundreds, even thousands of people have had sex on a monthly basis.

    • You would definitely not e harassed by others at a sex club. There are clear rules and people follow them because they know the bouncers are right there and ready to go into action. At the same time sex clubs push the edge they are also very much in control.

Most Helpful Girls

  • I chose "B". I'm not that girl that is worried about something like "A" its not like men don't watch p*rn or like sex isn't in 80% or more movies these days and I'd be in the room... Also its not swinging so its not like he's going to be touching her or being intimate with her. I can't say that I'm fully interested in the idea but I'm not completely closed to it either. If I was in a relationship and it was something that he wanted to try I would definitely think about it more and possibly try it.

    Though I have to say it would depend on who was watching too, just anyone or someone I know too well could possibly make me feel uncomfortable. So I don't know how exactly that would work...

    • LOL..what a cautious answer! But a good one...GAG is definitely better with you on board!...(:(:(:

  • I have done threesomes and if you make clear statements before everything should go right. I let my boyfriend have sex with me and some friend I told them they can't have sex as penetration I mean they were fine with that, so basically he can watch me and my friend getting sexy kissing fingering and that kind of stuff...well when the action started I was so turn on I let them f*** and when I felt a little awkward I took my boyfriend to another room to ended what we started... so give it a try... I think I went far away from your question...anyway having sex in the same room can be a powerful turn on (basicaly as a live p*rn hahaha )

  • I did when my friend was leaving for the military in the hotel they were staying at. His roommates friend was there with him and both couples just did there own thing. It was definitely interesting because I think hearing the other couple helps influence you and your partner and both couples will feed off each others moans and reactions.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Yes I have done it. I've had sex with guys in my best friends bed while she was with her boyfriend on the opposite side. It's a king size, so a couple on each side. I thought it was pretty hot with everyone naked and going at it at the same time!

  • not proud to admit that frshman year of college me and my girlfriend did the same thing with my roommate and his girlfriend. kind of gross when I look back on it, but whaterver.

  • I voted C. My partner is not interested so not happening ...

    But I'm exactly where you two are. Not sure I'd want to do an actual threesome or swinging, but 'same room sex' seems really hot and I'd -definitely- do it.

  • Tried it before and it was exciting. It was like both couple were trying to compete which kept it interesting.

  • Done it. It was OK. Done the threesome and anti climax. Done in semi public - was OK. Tbh the fantasy Is often better than the reality

    • That may be true. For us, the reality of semi-public sex was much hotter than the fantasy, but that doesn't mean that all of our fantasies would turn out the same way.

  • I'd be up to it, it's always fun to try things at least once. It's a little odd having another couple there but it wouldn't be a disaster to try it, and maybe we'd all do it together afterward. The world of possibilities lol

    • WHOA! You do not usually answer Sexuality Questions? You have my entire morning in disarray?...O.O

    • Lol, maybe you've never noticed but I do

    • O.O..Evidently I do not know you at ALL! must not have your chat turned on tho../:/:/;

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  • I did not vote in your poll...this is something that a lot of dormitory people (including me) have done...It was somewhat exciting...after all sex was new to me at that point...but that, in and of itself, was not really a turn on..and I have no interest in that at this point in my life..(:(:(:

    • Perfectly understandable, not everyone is turned on by exhibitionism.

  • Heck no

  • absolutely. I answered "E"

  • I ahve. Once on tour, while I was making love to my boyfriend, my brother was in the other bed making love to my backup singer.

    • Was this a one night stand for your bro.. or had they hooked up before.

    • @abw121290 they had hooked up a few times, I believe.

    • My brother and I have both done our partners when we went to Hawaii we were on separate beds... It's no big deal ;)

  • I've done it with a couple of different guys.

  • I've done it and yeah I'd do it again!!

  • Ewww no way

  • It is like watching p*rn but in real life! Love hearing and seeing others doing it! Hottest sex ever! People should not be so uptight.

  • yes! my wife and I have had sex in front of other friends and couples many times. its very hot, almost taboo type of feeling, very exiting!! we dont swap or have threesomes just like to see others have sex and if they dont want to do it with us, they are more than welcome to just watch us!!

  • Why can't we keep it to the question. No threesomes, no swapping, no swinging. Just opinions or experiences on the question at hand. If you want to take it further then start a separate discussion on threesomes.

  • Yes, we've done it many times. We also swap partners and it's a huge turn on.

  • Nah tick

  • I pick A2 No way do I want to have sex in a room with another couple. not because I don't want who ever I'm with naked in a room with another naked man but because sex is something that should be shared between 2 people with passion and love...

    Or at least in the case of friends with benefits it should just be 2 people unless they talk about it and have a 3 some but not with another couple that would just confuse things even more.

    • That's cool, man, and most of the time, I agree with you. However, in my opinion, it doesn't have to be that way all the time, every time. Nothing wrong with generating a little excitement through alternative means every once in a while, keeps things fresh and fun.

  • See, here's the thing. What if the couple in the bed next to you are just CLEARLY better at sex than you two?

    I mean, they're doing these like crazy positions cause she's super flexible, they go for like 90 min straight cause he's a machine and has a solid iron core, basically they put you to shame.

    Wouldn't that be embarrassing?

    • Then you go home, have a team meeting, set a practice schedule and plan to step up your game next time.

    • lol, you make an interesting point, but I seriously don't think that would be an issue.

    • Then consider it inspiration. You can learn something from them.

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