I hooked up with my boyfriend's brother..sort of?

Question

So I was at my bf's parent's house because his sister 'k' asked if he would ask me to help her make cupcakes for some of their family that was coming over the next day...she got a call from her mom asking if she could go to the store...she asked if I could finish the baking while she was out because she was gonna go to a friends house b4 hand...that was a lot to ask and I was annoyed but I agreed anyway...So K left and about half an hour later my bfs half brother who was in town for a few days he walked right in to the house...and came into the kitchen and saw me I told him. K had dumped. The baking on me and left we talked and flirted for a bit and long story short we went up to my bf's old room and made out he went down on me and eventually I started on him...I stated to feel guilty when he was saying he was about to come so I told him I had to stop...When I mentioned that I felt guilty because I was his brother girlfriend he seemed upset but I don't know if he was all that mad he just stared at me making an angry face he asked if I was serious I said yes and he just stormed off and slammed the door ...he didn't yell or anything.. But I don't really count his as a full on hook up because I felt to guilty to let him finish..So here it is should I tell my boyfriend b4 his brother gets a chance? Or should I just keep my mouth shut and either not say anything or if he does talk I could just explain from there... the positive thing is his brother is going home early and is going to skip the family dinner they were going to have this Thursday so he won't be actually around now...until his next visit I don't know if it was because of what happened or not I think his boss wanted him back at work or something?

Sissy_girlyyyyyyyyyy · Accepted Answer

Tell him,I'm sure he will be angry and freak out but he'll cool down later and maybe forgive you who knows...BUT YOU HAVE TO TELL HIM!...mistakes do happen and you're not the worst person on earth, I just get a feeling you don't regret this whole thing...I hope I'm wrong because when you apologize to him you must do so sincerely and not just to brush off the guilt you feel, that's if you do feel guilty, and do the same "mistake" again.

I'm sorry I have to ask, do you love your bf?...coz you can make it a lot easier by breaking up with him if you don't love him anymore. If you do love him, then the trust he had in you will definitely be broken and you two would have to work on that. Just imagine if he did what you did with your sister,how would you feel?...

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

You might as well end your relationship with your boyfriend. Clearly, you don't love and respect him enough. So tell him that. Either break up or end up doubly breaking his heart when he finds out not only his girlfriend but his own brother cheated on him, sexually - even if you didn't go all the way. Sorry. I think it would take a strong (or a stupid) man to accept what you did. But hey, people make mistakes.

katiesmuff · Accepted Answer

I can't imagine that it isn't going to come out at some point, so I think you might be better off getting it over with now and tell the boyfriend.  Just be prepared for it to end your relationship!

shikari · Accepted Answer

The truth tends to come out sooner or later [between 1/2 brothers is certainly no exception] so tell your boyfriend what happened and why. Admit it was a mistake and you feel guilty. Let him figure out how he feels about it, and then move forward from what happened, whether as a couple or not. The last things I'd want is him hearing about it from somebody else; people talk.

Honesty and trust are pivotal components in a relationships, dishonesty can lead to distrust which has caused the end of many, many relationships. You need to understand that your dishonesty is worthy of distrust and thus a valid reason to be dumped so accept that possibility.

Hope you've learned from this.

northwestree · Accepted Answer

Difficult situation!

It is tempting just to not tell. The problem is, if your Bf's half brother tell's your Boyfriend it may be worse for you. One solution is to csually mention to your Boyfriend that his half brother is hot, and see how he reacts, Take it in slowly from there. Depending on his reactions you may end up telling him or not.

I hope for everyone your Boyfriend is OK with this. Brothers have shared a girl before. If not, this relationship my be over for you.

SJD75 · Answer

Sucks to be him that he didn't get the chance to cum.

doestrueloveexist · Answer

that's not a "sort of"

prettymuscle · Answer

Going down on him is still the same as hooking up. Your a super slut cause if you going to cheat then cheat outside the family not with his brother. If you break up with him do it over the phone cause you tell him in person he  may lose control and smack you around a few times. you are a sad person I bet you cheat many times on him. you freaking slut