Guys, what makes a girl bad/boring in bed?

[Anonymous]

Do share! Hey, maybe you'll help some of us improve our skills.

[DutchAtheist]

Lack of enthusiasm.

I don't really care if you are inexperienced or clumsy as long as you are not scared or 'playing dead'. Just be up front and say you want to learn... he'll probably get a kick out of that even.

[kheserthorpe]

This. Only things I'd add are being really closed minded about what she's willing to do, or so self conscious about her body she doesn't want to do things.

[Asker]

I agree. Sometimes when I'm on the bottom I wonder if I seem like a dead fish. Naturally, I moan and say things. I grab his hips and pull him closer. But I always feel so limited in missionary. What can us girls do better while we are laying on our backs for you?

[kheserthorpe]

Moaning, hip bucking and pulling him into you is NOT doing nothing.

[bDizzie]

Like everyone else said, it's not as fun when she just lays there like a dead fish. Makes me feel like I should just finish up quickly

[Asker]

Girls, take notes. If you want him to last longer give him a reason to! Lol (but too much excitement can result in a quick finish too)

[ladsin]

... she goes limp lol I don't wanna do all the work

[normalice]

If she doesn't enjoy what I do to her.

[Asker]

Yea. Easy to avoid. Girls need to let go and just tell guys what they want. Most guys would enthusiastically pleasure them and give it to them.

[normalice]

exactly.

[Anonymous]

boring? if they don't seem into it.

[Anonymous]

I hate it when she doesn't want to do anything and just lies there... (which is basically all the time)

it feels good when she takes charge and wants to try new things or do something.

[Asker]

Laziness! Lol. What about doggie style? If your lady doesn't want to do much work she can flip around and let you do it. Is doggie boring? Is it hotter when she thrusts herself back into you?

[Opinion Owner]

I have to really ask her to move around... she only likes missionary.. its rare that we do other positions.. and yeah I think its hot if she thrusts back at me...

[Asker]

Wow. There has gotta be a way to spice up that missionary! Have her wrap her legs around you and talk dirty. One time I was with a guy in missionary & there was enough space so I took the opportunity to buck my hips into him. I did a lot of the thrusting and used variation...slow, fast, one hard ram or two into him that lasted a few seconds. I squeezed my vaginal muscles real tight. And after, he slowly swirled it in me,nice slow circular motions hitting every spot. Suggest a few like ideas to her

[Opinion Owner]

that sounds amazing... thanks.

[Asker]

No problem. I think this will be pleasurable to your missionary loving lady. Suggest some things. Or you could always tease her and suddenly slow down your thrusting. That's what happened in this story. He slowed down and nearly stopped right in the middle and I was so aroused my body took over and began bucking up into him. He thrusted back lightly but I had to have more lol

[kheserthorpe]

The problem is not lack of ideas, it's lack of effort.

[Anonymous]

Defiantly making me do all the work, last girl I was with just lay there and I ended up feeling she didn't really want to, thus I couldn't get in the mood. Probably the worst night I had

[Asker]

Yes this seems to be a common theme. When you say "just lay there" do you mean she was lazy and only wanted missionary? If so, is it still boring if she's moaning, talking dirty, and grabbing you?

[Asker]

If a girl wants you to do all the work maybe she could just play that up. Like say "I want you to spread me wide open and give it to me hard and fast! Yes, like that! Give it to me. Feels so good oohhh" perhaps the lazy ladies could make it hotter by demanding you to do everything to her..and hard! I don't know hmm..tossing ideas around for lazy chicks haha