I gave him a bj on the second date and now he doesn't know what he wants?

okay so abut a week ago I went on my first date and I really really like this guy then the next day we went out to his house cause his mom wanted to meet me... well one thing led to another and we ended up in his room to watch a movie... I looked at him and he was giggling and I asked him y and he said because I can't believe you have never been with a guy, and I told him to stop laughing at me its not that I haven't wanted to do anything with guys its just no guys like me then he started laughing again and I put my head on his chest and asked him to stop and he pulled my face up and kissed me and I didn't know what to do I've never kissed anyone before well anyways as the night went on we got closer and closer and one thing lead to another and we had oral sex but when he pulled out a condom I said no I don't want to lose my virginity until I'm in love and he seemed to be okay with that than he took me home and we started talking on myspace he said he doesn't know what he wants then he said he's not ready for a relationship then he wanted to get to know me more and I didn't know what he meant so I wrote him back asking what the f*** he wants and he hasn't replied but he read it what does that mean?
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Most Helpful Girl

  • That means he wants to have sex with you but you won't give it to him. Also, it might have to do with how good you gave him oral sex. When you give oral sex to a guy the first time you have to be enthused about what you're doing, do it good and finish him good. You have to do it like it's something you really, really want to do for yourself as well as his. So I don't know how good you were at that, but since he wants to wait I'd say your first experience with him wasn't all that fulfilling for him. If you like him then just keep in touch and maybe someday soon he'll contact you again. If that happens, be prepared with what you're going to do with him so that he's not disappointed next time..

    • Well I don't know what he meant but he asked me after if I was sure this was my first time ever doing that and I said yea but I don't know what that meant...

    • Maybe that you weren't that good at giving head. Send me a message at bburk_em@yahoo.com and I'll send you an advice column that's helped me tremendously. At least that won't happen again then.

Most Helpful Guy

  • It means he doesn't want a virgin. He wants someone he can have sex with...not just oral.

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