Is it OK to like feeling dominated?

My boyfriend is older and of a different race, he says that one of the things he is attracted to me the most is the fact that we are so different, I am young, slim, white, etc.. He says that it makes him want to dominate me in bed even more, which I like, most of the time he does it through rough anal sex or just doing it for long periods of time. I live with him and I've been noticing that the more we have those long sessions of hard sex, even if it can be a little uncomfortable, some how every time we do it I like it more and more. Last night for example we had a long session of anal sex from 3:00 am all the way to 7:00 am, I couldn't fall asleep right away because I was still feeling sore, also I noticed that at some point my body was even trying to push his penis out from going in again and again, like trying to reject his penetration. But with all that it still felt really good, doing it in so many different positions, and just feeling him dominating me on and on again and again. It felt just right. I feel like I may even get addicted to the feeling of having him owning me like that. I know it sounds weird, but it is just as weird to me that I'm acting this way, I wonder if this is even normal?
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  • It's very normal for a woman to want to submiss to a man. What's strange though is that your boyfriend said that you being a different race (white) makes him want to dominate you even more. That's some f***ed up reparations sh*t right there. He wants to do to the white woman what the white man did to the black man for 500 hundred years..."f*** 'em" lol.

    • Never thought of it that way. Sounds bizarre, I don't think that's the reason.

  • Completely normal! just don't do anything you won't feel comfortable with the next morning (physically or morally)

    • It is physically uncomfortable but mentally pleasant.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Its normal. I love being dominated. Mine is in a completely different way but it is still domination. Just be careful and make sure your guy knows when to stop

  • yes I fantasize about being treated that way. as long as overall he treats you nicely and respectfully outside the bedroom it is fine.

  • Haha yes, it's fine and normal. Everyone has their own kinks, you don't need other people's approval of what you consent to and enjoy!

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  • There is no "normal" when it comes to sex. Everyone is different. People are allowed to like different things. As long as you both know that the dominating is only sexual then you're fine.

  • The butt doesn't want anything going in it. That's why you had your body acting like it was rejecting it

  • Are you done bragging? Anyways its pretty normal for girls to be submissive to their partners in bed.

    • Yeah, I kind of like to brag about my sex life, you got me, haha.

  • My body is ready to be dominated

    • I don't think I would ever be attracted to a man like you, I like my man to be the dominating one.

    • good for you sis

  • So... as he's the complete opposite he's old, fat, black, and f***ing you in the ass all time?

    I have absolutely no clue how you may like anything of it!

    • We have vaginal sex more and of course I like him, otherwise I would not live with him.

    • lol!

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  • That's normal, but I have hard time believing your story.

    • I brag too much, LOL!