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Would it be weird if next time I asked him to pin me up against the wall?

I had my first kiss a few nights ago, and we were in his bedroom just making out (no sex at all). I was on the bottom with him on top of me. I kinda liked that feeling of being pinned down, ya know? Is it weird that I liked that? And would it be weird if next time I asked him to pin me up against the wall or to pin my hands or something? How should I go about asking him to do this? Am I weird for liking this and wanting him to do this? Up until that point I had never been kissed before. I still haven't had sex yet. Everything is really new to me. HELLLPPP! ha ha :-)
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  • Being kissed against a wall is my favorite way of being kissed and turns me on in an instant. And I also know what you mean by loving him on top of you. I like the fact that he has caved me in and his weight on top of me feels fantastic.

    I remember the first time I was kissed like that and with second base, I was almost close to having sex right there because I was so into the mood. But we didn't since our relationship was still new. So, no it's not weird at all.

    As for getting him there, lounge around such flat surfaces when you guys get into the kissing mood. The suggestions made by the others works really well as well. Pull him down to you (if you are lying on a flat surface) or against you and go for it. They really like when you take the initiative to allow him the dominating position. :)

    • ok thank you very much :)

  • No it's totally normal to like that, I like it too (actually I love it). My boyfriend was my very first kiss and it was more innocent in nature - we were just lying on the floor beside each other. When he kissed me again later on he held me against the wall and it was super hot. So I think next time you kiss this guy just grab his hands and pull him onto you. He'll get the idea. And the reverse works too - guys like to be dominated too.

  • No, not weird. Being dominated is something lots of women seem to be into.

    • ok phew!

Most Helpful Guys

  • Being dominated (or wanting to dominate) is a very normal human desire in sex. Whether you're a girl or a guy. I enjoy both.

    One of my partners and me played a lot of these games. Domination, imaged rape scenes, imagined public sex... whatever. But we got into it after a long time into the relationship (she was also bold about what she wanted). Otherwise, frankly, I might have thought it was too freaky if it had come on too fast.

  • Wait till next time and you might be shocked it wasn't a mistake the first time, he might have liked it to, and if he doesn't, all you have to do is suggest it, just tell him you want him to do it, a lot of guys actually enjoy that stuff, just make sure it remains sexy and it doesn't get excessive. I am guessing you are not very adventurous on a normal day. And no, you are not weird at all.

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  • Just stand by the wall. If you need to call him over. (hey you come here) Grab his hands, put them up and kiss him. I'm sure the rest will follow.

    • ill try that next time thank you :)

  • Thats how I like it too, not weird at all! ;)

  • Nope,ask him! That's a good way to be making out...:)

    • oh I agree it would be :)

  • Well, it's not weird at all! Don't be ashamed of it. The best way to tell them, is by being honest. Just one day when you have time, ask them if they could pin you down. Maybe they'll like the idea of being dominate. Good luck!

  • It's completely normal.. All you have to do is say.. nothing weird in it!

    My girl is same as you... except that she never said anything... but I eventually made out that she loved it like hell when I pin her arms down!

    I noticed her giving me signals by spreading her arms above her head and sometimes taking my arms and pinning her arms herself!

    This is when I decided to make her happy and since then I've always pinned her arms down frequently during sex or casual kissing...

    She never fails to climax and make our clothes wet all over when I pin her arms down in missionary and hump her while kissing her passionately all over!

  • Its biological most women like to be dominated by men. I like tossing my girlfriend around playfully in bed and pinning her down and making out.

  • I like being dominated too lol its normal and not weird at all!

  • thats hot, I'm sure he'd like it if you asked him. no its not weird at all

    • ikr! I got turned on just by the fact that he was on top of me and we were making out haha

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