How do I make fingering myself feel good?

When I masturbate, I rub my clit and everything and that feels amazing, but when I finger myself it doesn't do anything for me. I'd rather not use a vibrator for the sake of my mom finding it and things being awkward between us. Any ideas on how to make fingering myself feel good?

 

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  • Vgirl told you pretty good, but I would think flat on your back may make it a bit difficult to reach. I think a semi reclining position might work better as it can get your shoulder a little closer to your waist. Tip for the vibrator thing. Get a permanent marker and put your initials on it, then if your mom finds it she won't think it is hers. I'm assuming that is what you were concerned about as you are over 18 and it would be none of her business if you had one of your own.

    • Well it's more of an embarrassment factor. My mom tends to talk to other people about what her children are up to lately. yeah....not a good thing to tell the grandparents. hahaha. Also I don;t really want her to know that I masturbate because she'll freak out and think that I'm having sex with my boyfriend which I don't plan on doing until we're married. If she thinks that then she won't let me visit him....we're kind of a nation away. hahaha Virginia for him and Washington for me.

    • To be honest that was kind of my assumption. Sometimes parents shelter their children too much. They do it with the best of intentions, but the result can be a person going out into the world not fully prepared. If you happen to be the oldest it is particularly hard as you are stuck with all the firsts. I understand your dilema and I am urging you to assert your autonomy whe ever possible. You are a young woman now and soon will be out there on your own, be ready . Good luck :)

    • Hahaha I'm actually the youngest....

What Guys Said 1

  • well most girls orgasm from clit stimulation not penetration so mostly focus on ur clit and just keep rubbing it and yea follow v-girls advice I was going to say the same but she beat me to it =)

What Girls Said 2

  • Your "G" stop is inside your vagina about up to the knuckles on your fingers. It's best if you can lay on your back insert your fingers, finger tips up or facing the ceiling that way you can "hit" your "G" spot. Move your finger(s) like you are calling someone to you but only move them 1/4' to 1/2".It's hard to keep your finger tips towards the top. (your stomach) If your finger tips are to the side too much you will miss your "G" spot.I hope that you don't have long nails. It will not work because you may scratch yourself.You know where your clit is so don't forget to warm up by rubbing it first. Use a little KY or baby oil.Trouble with baby oil is that it's great lube but messy & hard to clean up.

    • Alright, but which knuckle? the one closest to your finger tip or the middle knuckle? I can assume it's not the top knuckle. hahhaa let me know if I'm wrong.

    • I should have said in between the two knuckles. You'll figure it out as you go along. Too deep & you may hit your cervix it will not hurt you but at times it is uncomfortable. To do that you would have to put your middle finger all the way in.Guys are really better at that because (if they know how to do it) they have a better angle of keeping the finger tips upward (to the ceiling or your stomach)

  • Maybe stop doing and wait til marriage

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