What is the truth about fingering and vagina tightness?

[Anonymous]

I've been seeing my girlfriend for over five months now. We agreed not to have sex until marriage (if that time comes for us) but we do other things about once or twice a week, including fingering. It might just be me but I feel like she has gotten looser over time. She likes when I insert my fingers in and quickly move them back and forth while inside. It might be just me but I feel like lately I've been having more and more room in there as if its expending or something. At one point I was even able to insert three fingers in side by side and it concerned me. I don't want to make her loose for my sake and especially hers. I searched all over the internet to see if too much fingering and moving around up there can make a girl loose, but I have been getting mixed results. Does anyone have a real answer? Is the quick finger movements deep in there a bad idea? I don't want to ruin that area for her.

[MissConfused93]

Okay fingering will stretch her. But if you were to stop the vagina would shrink again. You cannot make a girl "loose". Stop worrying. And more things than just fingering or sex can break the hymen. Some girls don't even have one when they first start having sex or doing anything sexual at all.

[MissConfused93]

Fingering causes microscopic years in the vaginal walls, just like sex. Its normal. Over time it will heal up and "shrink" per se.

[MissConfused93]

*tears haha. And I was in biology class for two years. I know what I'm talking about!

[Asker]

I like this answer. Makes sense and sounds like you know what you're talking about. Thank you

[MissConfused93]

Thank you for BA! (:

[Izzy2102]

It's normal that it gets loser if she more comfortable. I would guess she wasn't comfortable the first few times.

Three fingers is nothing to worry about though, the average penis is still thicker from what I understand

[Anonymous]

This doesn't even make sense.

How could that even "ruin" that area for her, it's pretty natural that that happens when you start having sex/playing with your yourself, or in this case, you fingering her.

[AJ2293]

It's astonishing how often I have to say this on this site, but sex ed classes at your place suck!

[Asker]

then explain what you know

[DSLexotic]

Fingering DOES break virginity. What? You thought only the magical penis can pop a cheery? Anything in their will loosen it/break virginity. From a penis, to riding a horse to medical exams etc.

[mimiperson]

I think you might want to do more research on that subject...

[michael0314]

this is correct information

[MissConfused93]

Not break virginity stupid. It's called a hymen. Virginity can only be taken through sex. As in a penis in a vagina.

[DSLexotic]

Wow! You're a f***in idiot! How old are you? ANYTHING THAT REACHES THE HYMEN CAN BREAK IT! Even the bouncing on a horse can be forceful enough to tear the hymen. Something tells me you've been fingered & in denial about how in tact your coochie is :)

[Girlie8780]

You guys are getting way too upset over a stupid mistake You can only lose your virginity through some sort of penetration like a d*** lol But you can break your hymen in any of the ways listed above and more