First time sex with a new partner - guys with small penises and being nervous?

[Anonymous]

Now I'm certainly not saying that there's anything wrong about having a smaller penis or anything like that. I'm just kind of curious because I know from my own point of view that when I'm about to have sex with a new person, especially if it's a guy I like, I get nervous about my looks down there (I have a long labia) and what the guy is going to react to that (never had any bad experiences!). So my question goes are you guys sometimes nervous about first time sex with a new partner because you are afraid she'd think you have a small penis or something similar to that. Does it sometimes stop you from having sex with her so you end up just cuddling instead? Thanks!

[mxmetno]

I have a small penis and I must admit I get really nervous about first time sex with a new partner, I feel a little ashamed and embarassed as she reach my penis with her hand or just pull down my pants...Sometimes I try to make fun of myself to make seems thing less heavier and of course it mostly depend on the girl I'm with. It doesn't stop from having sex, but sometimes if I notice some sort of disappointment in her face it's not so easy to go on

[Sam_i_am]

I still get very nervous with anything down in that area, when I first had sex I was worried what she would think about the size of my penis, my pubes, and the size of my balls etc.. That's why most people get physically emotional in the darkness of a bedroom, but it's better to fully do it during that day so you can become comfortable with your boday

[AustinMan]

In my experience, women only worry about their appearance down there until they get some sexual experience. As a guy, I don't have a template for the perfect p****. I'm fortunate that my penis gets a pleasantly surprised reaction from women so I never worry. If it feels right, just go for it. If he turns out to be really small, please--don't point and snicker.

[Claretica]

On the money.

[sexyasianboi26]

The vaginal canal is 3 inches long and it expands. SO unless the guy has a pen*s under 3 inches, then it can be a sexual frustration. Work with what you got.

[Leavesbound]

I'm always up front with a woman on this topic. Personally I don't care if you have no labia or they are big enough to tie knots around the back of my head. I'm more concerned if you are ok with the fact that I have a 2.5" penis and that I mostly make love with my mouth.

[G_GTom]

If a woman prefers big penises, I wouldn't be having sex with her.

[Anonymous]

Just make fun of it lol. If he has any sense of humour it would relieve the tension.

But if he's really got a complex about his small penis... I guess you just have to fake it harder to get his confidence up. To me that is a white lie from a good girlfriend.

[G_GTom]

In general, I think lying is terrible. I wouldn't want this done to me. I want to make my decisions on real information.

[leax90]

it's like saying to a guy, who is dating a girl who thinks she is fat (whether she is or not) to make fun of her weight... With all do respect that is one of the worst advice I've ever heard lol.

[Anonymous]

Yes, I get nervous every time. I don't have a small penis, it is average to a little above, but many girls are still disappointed with that these days. I'm six inches long, but it still feels like girls are not thrilled. The more I like the girl the more nervous I get. If I don't know her very well and don't care, I am less nervous. Has totally cause performance anxiety adding to her negative experience. It sucks

[Asker]

Thanks for actually answering my question :)

[Anonymous]

I used to worry about it a little, but not any more.

I'm old enough and experienced enough now that if a woman tried to make fun of my junk or react to it in some immature way, I could deal with it.