Absolutely, I love anal play. However, I don't think I could go further [anal sex] with it than fingers and maybe his mouth, if it wasn't a serious relationship because it's intimate and requires a certain amount of comfort and trust for me to enjoy it to the fullest. And I DO enjoy it to the fullest in those circumstances. If we have a friendly sexual relationship [like what I unexpectedly just entered into with a long-term friendly acquaintance after my recent breakup], I may still crave it and the results may still be super pleasurable and explosive, but I know that it won't fully satisfy the emotional aspect of my needs, and therefore will be less enjoyable as a whole.
In any case, excuse the tangent, lol. Anal play is totally welcome and feels great to me, and while his oral skills are already fantastic [I've orgasmed more times than he has so far, at his insistence], I really hope that we do at some point enter into anal territory, lol. I don't think we're too far from it though, because he's already done the whole 'thumb rubbing' thing in that area during sex from behind. He's probably just waiting for the right signals from me or for me to request it myself. Which I probably will at some point if he doesn't go for it soon. =P
My girlfriend requested has requested it a few times. Definitely a turnon to hear!
Yeah, once it's established and known to him that I like it [whether I ask or he asks/goes for it], it's something he can do in bed anytime he feels the urge, and I'll ask for it when I want it if he's not already doing it. No need to ask at that point, in my case. I like the surprise, but I also like the reaction I get when I request it, lol.
I would, and have. I actually enjoy it more when he does. It's an exhilarating feeling to me.
Yes
Anal stimulation feels SOOOO good
No sarcasm there?
why would I be sarcastic? It feels good... I think it'd be a good way to mentally work me up to full on anal, since I'm a little wishy washy about it
Ok sorry just didn't know. And yea it takes some getting used too. It was really painful for me at first using butt plugs and dildo's. But once you get stretched out its feels absolutely incredible. Its hard to describe but contractions during orgasm are really strong and its a deep whole body pleasure. It gets better overtime to the point where I hurts very little if at all.
I love it when my wife fingers me, even some smaller sized toys. IT does not make you gay in the least, it feels great and is done by a female. What more could we want.
She played with my backdoor and nothing else until she brought me off to an orgasm that had my legs shaking even after the fact. I never ejaculated that much or half that much - before in my life.
Lately she has expressed an interest in pegging me, and I am seriously thinking about letting her.
She does not mind me playing with her butt when I go down on her or during sex, bot no anal sex. Small toys only. Although she said if I let her, she will let me!
I would be amenable to those terms as well. That's the mantra for me - "I wouldn't make you do anything that I wouldn't be willing to do myself."
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!I would not enjoy it, I just do not find butts sexy... I think it is something you should talk about beforehand because every girl is different in what they want .
Hmm, I don't know. I'm not really into anything anal and neither is my boyfriend so I doubt he would go for it anyways.
I don't think so, though I've never tried
Its amazing trust me ;)
its a great feeling, you can't imagine how it feels.!
You guys try it with your gf's they would love it
No. I don't enjoy that feeling. There's nothing up there for us, like you guys have the prostate, which is like the male g spot. We just have our ass. I'd rather he just pay attention to my clit and fingering me at the same time.
Not true! Just like how you can feel a man's prostate through his anal passage, you can stimulate a woman's clitoral walls. It's the reason girl's can orgasm from anal sex.
Well it certainly does nothing but cause me pain. So I would rather he keep his fingers away from that area.
No
It doesn't work that way for women.
The reason buttplay is so erotic for men is because of the prostate. We don't have one.
That being said, it can add to a sense of "fullness" inside of a woman, stimulate her g-spot if you touch her in the right way, or just be a novel feeling that she likes.
It's something to take up with her, really. I'm not crazy about having my butthole touched (the sensation is kinda weird for me), but I know other girls who adore it.
Actually, it can work for women (not all of course) if she's able to take it without pain. There's a thin membrane between the anus and the vagina, filled with sensitive nerves. So ass stimulation can feel pleasurable. In fact, some women have more nerves on the anus side than the vagina side. So for some women, anal stimulation can work better than vaginal.
For a female, though, orgasms are caused by g-spot stimulation through the anus, or clitoral/g-spot stimulation in the vagina while anal stimulation is also taking place. That's what I meant. Men, from what I understand, can achieve orgasm just by having his prostate stimulated.
Yes true. But a rare amount of women can actually climax from just anal stimulation.
Yeah, why not? If we've gotten that far into our relationship and love each other there is nothing wrong with it
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