"Women are only good for sex"; why do some guys STILL not appreciate females beyond sex?

[Prof_Don]

The "women are good for sex" idea isn't usually said in words, but is implied through action. Imo, this is misogyny as its highest level, because to the guys in question, females have no true value besides their bodies. Females are people with triumphs, hardships, goals, dreams, good decisions made, bad decisions made, past experiences...that shaped their INDIVIDUAL PERSONALITIES (something these guys in question don't care about much, if at all). --------- Guys and girls, why do you think some men hate the female gender so much, to the point of not caring about females as the individual people that they are, to the point of viewing females only as sexual objects and not as people? Reply as much as you like, sharing experiences if you so wish to do so. P.S. Guess the pokemon!

[Anonymous]

So then, a lot of women also have "penis envy" ? Lol. Give me a break... Men definitely aren't jealous about your bleeding vaginas... and women think of sex the same exact amount, if not more, as men! Men just say women are only good for sex mostly because women can pick such bad men to sleep with! The nice men feel more deserving, that's all. Women are very naive about the men they pick to have sex with, especially younger women who are dating. Women do want to be treated as sexual objects you simply can't lie about that. Look at women any where you go and you'll see how much skin they "have" to be showing, how much make up they "have" to wear, and how conceded they "have" to be about their looks. Selfies anybody? Maybe if women quit dressing like sluts men won't look at them for just their bodies. Well this won't ever happen, because in a woman's mind the only way to attract a man is by flashing ass n tits. Look at plastic surgery... But wait a darn sec... women don't want to be known for just ass n tits? WTF? Even in sports women just "have to" dress suggestively... volleyball, tennis, definitely cheerleading. ( I'm sure that's the man's fault somehow tho, right?) Women also make up the majority of the porn industry, but blame it all on men because we watch the majority of it. Without a women's vagina men wouldn't even bother getting married or dealing with relationships lets get real! Sex is a great thing! It's when women think they can use the vagina card openly and freely to complain and get what they want we start seeing problems. Women just blame men for wanting and "using them" when their the ones who are dressing suggestively to attract men in the first place! ( I'm not explaining anything new here...) It's just one of many double standards women hold their own but don't actually follow through with. Some of these women don't even want equality they only want superiority! Some use men simply for money! And they try to accomplish this by saying men are "misogynists" and "women haters"? SMH. The only females out there with good personalities get scooped up within seconds leaving us men to droop through the remains... This is how the new generation works and it will only get worse unless men stop using women for just sex and empowering them in that sense...

[Anonymous]

Mk, first of all, why the f*** are you going all feminist on us right here?

Second of all, you're no better.

Wanna know why? Cause you are also sexist. Just a different kind of sexist. Some guys treat women as objects, but you're worse! You're treating them as delicate little flowers who can't fight for themselves. You're acting like you gotta be this shining knight to ride in and defend their woefully inferior lady bits.

Lastly, I believe the sudden rise in hatred of women this generation has, specifically in America, is due to the overreach of the feminist movement in the last generation. The feminists stopped reaching for equality and started reaching for superiority, and this is the males' response to that. Not saying that is justification, but its what I believe happened.

[NonchalantBro]

word

[samhradh_leannan]

I'm female, so I might seem biased here. But where exactly does the QA imply that women cannot stand up for themselves? When someone speaks out against racism, do you accuse them of implying that the victims of racism are delicate? What is wrong with standing up for someone else even if they can stand up for themselves too? Doesn't happen all the time? SHOULDN'T it? I don't see anything remotely sexist about this question.

[Opinion Owner]

actually... I was directly quoting from an episode of scrubs. but for serious, QA is a tool

[samhradh_leannan]

Well, the quote clearly doesn't apply to this question. Whether or not you see the QA ad "a tool", the question is not sexist.

[Opinion Owner]

psh, w/e, I doubt you're even FROM Connecticut.

[samhradh_leannan]

My city is "Stars Hollow", what do YOU think? Where I'm from has nothing to do with this, and you know it. If you're going to attack my profile page rather than addressing the matter at hand, I'm done here.

[pr3ttybr0wn]

I think a lot of guys have vagina envy. They want to be us because of the perceived advantages and power that women have. You see them all over this site "oh how come women don't have to ask guys out, and all girls have to do is be pretty and hot and they can get whatever they want. f*** bitches for not dating nice guys like me I hate women dshlfshalkfa" You can tell in some of their undertones that they are jealous of women and want to BE women.

Personally I don't give a f*** about a misogynist guy. You don't have to like me, your opinions will not stop my flow and guys like that really don't matter. As long as you don't put your hands on me I'm good.

[sixstring]

Trying to score brownie points here huh.

Some men are shallow, immature douchebags. That's the only reason why. Like there are heartless bitches out there who think all men should be exterminated.

[Prof_Don]

Trust me...there are plenty of females that think the same as the dudes I was referring to. I pardon for the cheesy wording in the question; it was on total accident, I promise! :-P

[Little-Hippie]

Let me explain this:

It isn't about hatred.

It's about relevance.

Because it doesn't matter who you are.

You cannot carry relevance beyond the reciprocating party's ability to appreciate it.

-Speaking French doesn't get you points when applying for work in predominantly Hispanic areas.

-A really nice brand new F-150 is really a bit much for someone who really only needs a working older-model work truck.

-A motivated, goal-driven woman with a great personality and numerous life experiences in excessive to a man who really only needs a good looking woman.

Many men don't look for women so they can appreciate them as colleagues or business partners.

The look for women so they can appreciate them as women.

And regardless of the additional traits, it all comes down to each man's core priorities.

[Albinism]

Because women are innately weaker.

[Anonymous]

Like it or not, a huge part of women's value is specifically tied to sex and babies! Without sex and babies, what is left? What's left is a smaller, weaker, lesser man. Without their absulute vital role in sex and babies, women would be basically WORTHLESS to humanity! No more sex and babies means no more humanity.

Anything women do beyond sex and babies is of secondary importance. Feminism tries to claim women's careers are so important. But the real source of women's true equality comes right back to sex and babies!

On an individual basis, how much value can a man honestly place on a woman's friendship without possibility of sex or babies? NOT MUCH!

[Opinion Owner]

I have a down vote without any opposing comments. If someone doesn't agree, maybe they should explain their argument!

[Anonymous]

I'm not sure, but some guys just happen to be a**holes.

[Anonymous]

If they had just put "most" in front of it, they would be correct. Some women are actually good beyond that. Maybe these guys haven't seen any.

[Fiona83]

Yeah, just as there are only "some" nice guys out there. Is that your logic?

[Opinion Owner]

That's up to you to decide.

[Anonymous]

Because they are fragile/delicate I can't grab them hard or toss them around without hurting them or play fulling punch them in the shoulder without hurting them. lame. Plus they don't have common sense can't drive, etc. I can go on and on.

[Anonymous]

those guys probably hate the cards they were dealt with as being male