Is it wrong to sleep with my sister-in-law?

[Anonymous]

Not my brothers wife, but her sister. She's recently started flirting with me a lot, and asked for my Skype and email details so we could chat more. I get the impression (but I could be wrong) that she's looking for some drunken hook up. I mean on the one hand she says we should talk more because as she puts it, we're family, but on the other hand she's definitely flirty as hell with me, asking about my ex, when was the last time I had sex, that sort of thing.

[kandyflip]

if you feel awkward enough to post this question, maybe you should stay away from it.

on the other hand you hear about brothers (from the same fam)marrying sisters(from a diff fam). I would take as much caution if not more than what you would take with a coworker... it's not the hooking up you need to worry about, it's the aftermath of drama that you'll have at family get togethers with your brother's family.

if you're confident that both of you are the mature and responsible type, who hates drama, then go for it, other wise, you might be poking the wrong bi-polar/crazy girl who'll have drama influence to your direct family members especially during Thanksgiving or what have you. lol

good luck

[Longshot]

I don't see it as a problem in terms of having sex or a relationship at all. The only issue you may encounter are ones of privacy. 1) Your brother's wife and her sister may end up talking a lot about you and the talk could even get back to your brother. It depends on whether you are comfortable with this or not. 2) If the relationship ends up on a sour note, things may end up being awkward at family events or whatever.

[cazza3]

She's your sister-in-laws sister, correct?

You are both single, consenting adults, so what's the problem?



You nor her have anyone to answer to and its nobody else's business. You are not related or in a relationship so where's the harm in exploring if there's something there. There are plenty of relationships and marriages out there that are brothers that married sisters and vice versa.

[Betwyn]

um, your brothers wifes sister?

She isn't even your sister-in-law...

Make like bunnies!

[katiesmuff]

That is not your sister in law, get her clothes off and do her all you want!

[AustinMan]

I would recommend abundant caution for this reason: if or when it goes south, you have to be around her and her sister ad nauseum. It could get really uncomfortable.

[visual]

Yes, it is wrong.

[Asker]

Why?

[smallguy]

Why when is not even incestuos relationship?

[visual]

I read the title and didn't really pay attention to the rest. Still, as long as she's not your wife, it's wrong. :P

[Asker]

Well that's typical of the help you get on this website .. didn't pay attention to the question, but I'm more than willing to form an opinion and condemn you. Charming...

[visual]

Well you asked if it was wrong. If I think it's wrong I'm going to say it's wrong even if you'd like otherwise.