Which gender is most likely to cheat during bachelor/ette parties?

I have read stories that women go wild during bachelorette parties and pretty much all of them give the male strippers oral sex or handjobs, while men at bachelor parties would be stopped by a bouncer if they did any of that. What was your experience and what did you see happen when you had your/attended a bachelor/ette party?
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  • Statistically speaking, several studies have found the rate to be approximately 1.2% for Men and 2.6% of Women admit to having intercourse with someone who is not their partner at during a bachelor (ette) party. This does not include other sexual or even emotional acts with may be considered cheating. My statistics come from an aggregate study through a combination of Google Insights, American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy, Cosmopolitan, TheKnot. com, and AskMen. com.

    "Bachelor / Bachelorette Party Statistics." Statistic Brain RSS. Google Insights, American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy, Cosmopolitan, TheKnot. com, AskMen. com, 7 July 2014. Web. 31 Mar. 2015.

    • Lol fuck, sloots gonna sloot...

  • I suppose it depends on the person. However, I don't think you should trust a girl when going. Always keep an eye one them because the first moment you aren't, she'll be doing things.

    • Exactly.

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  • I have never been to a bacherlorette party yet..

    Going to my mother's soon...

    I have seen shenanighans going down at the 'rippers tho...

    So it wouldn't surprise me..

    and if ever there was a "hen" party where that was going to go down.. it would be at my mothers... I'm pretty sure it happened at her last one.. but I wasn't allowed to go, I was too young(16)..

    • What would you do if you saw her do inappropriate things lol

    • It wouldn't be the first time I'd seen her do that stuff... and its not like I know her new guy very well.. or even like him that much...

    • Wow lol

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  • Idk...I believe you should be completely honest with your partner when it comes to this. Some people make the deal of one night of freedom while other expect them not to do anything. I wonder how far one would go if they had one night of freedom and had to report back what they did, I doubt that they'd be honest. =/

  • Lmao! Dude I've been to MANY bacherlorette parties and not ONCE has anything like that EVER happened. Usually we are laughing at the male stripper because it's so ridiculous, not imaging giving him a bj lol! Does the person who you got this info from happen to watch a sh*t ton of p*rn? Lol

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  • I've never heard of that. I did hear that in Ireland (or is it Scotland?) that you go around selling kisses for pennies, but that's the most cheating I've heard of.

  • LOL..oral sex or a handjob?! Where did you read this?

    It's the woman's party..if anything the male stripper would begiving her oral.

    All they do is sit in chairs and drink while the males gyrate everywhere.

    I've never known anyone to even think about giving him oral..lol.

    As for men, who knows.

    • No no no no no, a quick Google search and numerous threads on the matter prove that women do it more than men.

    • Haha the classic "I'm right because the first page of the google search said so" response. Seriously though you have to be careful about things you see on the internet.

    • So people who post on those marriage/relationship websites that their partner cheated on them at bachelor/ette parties are all bogus? Who would waste time just to do that?

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  • If anyone cheats, it has to be in the extreme minority. Women usually have their pals with them and Male strippers have to try really hard. Yet get no success lol.

  • I think we women are.

  • Men usually

  • WE are.

  • I have heard similar stories. No way to validate truth or not.

  • I think we are.

    • the bride should fuck the stripper

  • MEN are most likely to cheat! I was a male stripper from age 18 throughout my 20's. Very rarely did any of the bachelorettes do anything inappropriate. About 1/3 of the parties would get pretty crazy, where I would get blow jobs from 3-5 different girls or more, and hand jobs from another 3-5, while the group would laugh and cheer their friends on. The women participating were usually unmarried (to my knowledge), partially because I did not pursue any married women, and the married ones did not show an interest. The wildest girls were those that arranged the party. At 1/3 of the parties, I would hook up privately with one girl in another room, and the other 1/3 or so were "clean".

    • So those girls could have been in relationships...

  • I can’t speak for guys but I’ve never seen a girl having intercourse with a stripper save one. Some girls got a little “grabby” though.

  • Huh?

    I've never ever seen or heard any stories of sexual contact between women and strippers. Did you read that in an article in Penthouse called "Confessions of a Male Stripper" haha?

  • Probably men

  • ive stripped at a few bachelor parties, and am constantly hounded to have sex with the groom. I never have, but other girls who were with me did, some right in front of me. I don't know about how common it is, but it def happens.

    • Sex... in front of the whole club?

    • these were private parties in someones house. I do know girls that have had sex with a customer in vip rooms.

    • Hmm, do you know any stripper guys who've banged the bride?

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  • You've watched too many Dancing Bear videos, and thought they were real...

    • Lol, I know those are fake... I've been on many relationship forums where they said what went down at their fiance/fiancee bachelor/ette parties and two girls I know irl slutted around at two separate bachelorette parties.

  • Bullsh*t...

    No women do that. I'm not sure where you got your info from, but no. Just no.

    Why the eff would you want to give someone oral sex on YOUR last night of freedom?

    Stupid.

    • Exactly, and a lot of women actually do this.

    • Never in my life have I heard of a woman doing this. On the internet..sure. In real life, never.

    • I've talked to people whose good-girl girlfriends sucked off some stripper because her slutty friends peer pressured her to.

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  • in western culture's point of view, the women are not cheaters because western people don't consider enjoying p*rnography is cheating. since western people say cheating is when you share emotional bounds (in love and sex) with someone not your lover then I think the women who give oral sex and handjob to the male strippers are not cheaters because they don't share emotional bounds.

    if those women are considered cheaters, and what about the men and women who enjoy p*rnography ? aren't they cheaters too? no emotional bounds = no cheating. this is western standard.

    • then tell me what is the difference between enjoying p*rnography and giving handjob and oral sex to strippers? which one is considered cheating ? what is your standard ?

    • Your generalizing for millions of people. Really? We don't all share the same morals.

    • if the women giving blowjob and handjob to the strippers are not considered cheaters, what the hell should any article or study say they cheat more often while at the same time its not considered cheating?

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