Granny Panties!!!

[Anonymous]

This is for girls or guys. My girlfriend only wears granny panties and the occasional booty shorts. She doesn't like the comfort level of thongs, which she doesn't have a big booty so I don't think they look too great anyway, so booty shorts are about the best we can do. I've already asked her if at the very least when we go out if she can put something fun on. I would like it if it was on an everyday basis though. Any tips on types of comfortable yet sexy underwear?

[ArabSweetie]

You are not selfish trust me... If ask my boyfriend to go buy new boxers he will not be mad at me come on. If there's wholes on it I will say: hey honey, don't you think those boxers are getting too old? and we go shopping together, it don't have to be expressive! We've been dating for 3 years and we got engaged, new boxers haven't ruined our relationship lol I don't try to control him or to change the way he dress, but he has nothing to loose if he puts new boxers =P

Can you imagine a girl who never shaves her legs? would you say: oohhh god, leave her alone, you are so selfish to ask her to shave them! I hope not. plzzz she could at least shave them once a month to make him smile! If you want to have a strong relationship, you've got to do some sacrifices (even if shaving and wearing cute underwear are not BIG SACRIFICES loll). Just make an effort! that's it

Go check out this link. Those panties seams sooo comfortable, I don't know how she (and you of course) could find them ugly honestly

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Hope I helped. =D

[Asker]

You make some really good points, I really didn't think I was being selfish. Glad we see eye to eye and I'm not being some kind of jerk. Thanks for your view.

[ArabSweetie]

Loll you're welcome

[Anonymous]

I hate thongs! I only wear them if I really have to based on my outfit. There is allot of cute underwear in Victoria secret you both should go there and pick some out :) or go and buy some for her along with some lingerie as a little present. May b buy something cute too so its not just a bunch of underwear lol . They have allot of cute underwear that cover up and comfy and sexy. some of them look like boy shorts I just wear those around sometimes and they totally make my but look so much bigger

[Lis4Loca]

the gap has really cute and really comfy panties. tell her to buy cheekies. they are half way inbetween boy shorts and a thong. that way you can meet in the middle. another solution would be to ask her to buy panties in a sexy material, such as lace, or silk. both are comfy and look really sexy! another suggestion would be for YOU to buy her some!

[Lis4Loca]

Maybe your girlfriend is not confident, which is why she is afraid to wear sexy panties. maybe buying them for her and then have her try them on and show you. tell her how amazing and sexy they make her look and enhance her naturally beautiful body.

[jacquesvol]

Yeah, but what is your definition of 'granny panties'? Bloomers or everything that's not a thong?

This is high: link of course but I've seen worse: a co worker in her thirties , transparent blouse and a skirt, nice bra showing, but white cotton panties way above the navel showing clearly. Too...Ridiculous. (she told me her 60+ year old mother liked the same...)

This was the kind of uglies that coworker was flashing:

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Most girls I know (and knew) irl are wearing bikini style.

[regular-guy]

Your question is superficial and selfish. Underwear are meant to be functional first, and fashionable second, because for the most part, you are the only one who sees your own underwear, and you are the only one who has to wear them--that means it's really none of your business what she chooses to wear. Why don't you make a compromise and have a few pairs of sexy panties for special occasions and let the more utilitarian undies be for everyday life.

[Asker]

If she is your girlfriend I would hope you would see them often. That's why I'd want something that is comfortable and she can wear everyday. It's not selfish at all for me to ask of her something that if asked of me I'd oblige.

[regular-guy]

No, it is still selfish and superficial. Her underwear are her choice, not yours. People are too conditioned by underwear advertisements and porn flick to think about practicality. When it comes time for the sexy moments they just come off any way. Get over yourself. It's not about you.

[Asker]

If anything I'm conditioned by what every other girlfriend I've had wore. I've never had a girlfriend that didn't enjoy wearing nice underwear. Just because something looks good doesn't mean it has to be uncomfortable.

[regular-guy]

Comparison can be the destroyer of relationships. She is not your other girlfriends.

[Asker]

Very true she is not which is exactly why I'm with her and not any of my exs. That does not mean you don't like something they did. I was just meaning that I don't look at underwear advertisments. I just remember the first time I was with a girl that wore sexy underwear and it is a huge turn on.

[smellylittlecat]

Go with her to VS and help her choose. I'm sure you can find something different.

[Shlei3]

Bikini underwear is fine. Thongs unfortunately may look nice but they harvest infections and that's just nasty. It's just underwear so I really don't see what the big deal is. I prefer bikini underwear myself but that's just me. Perhaps talk to her about it and find out why she's not thrilled about wearing anything else.

[Reeses-pieces777]

idk, my exbf wanted to wear my panties, and I was like w/e. some guys have fetishes about that stuff I guess if I can call it that. well, I guess just wear boxers. I like guys in boxers, not my panties generally.

[Asker]

I meant what panties can she wear, other than granny panties.

[Reeses-pieces777]

Oh, I'm sorry! I think boy shorts are really really hot. I have black ones--actually quite a few and they have lace--so for that added touch of femininity...so so hot. my exbf wanted to wear those and I was like no! lol..

[Asker]

Haha ya I had an ex that I think may have had some lez in her because she was always wanting to do some border line gay stuff to me and I could have seen her asking me to put her panties on. Not my cup of tea.

[blahblahblah43]

try lacy seethrough underwear (: they are comfortable and hot if she's wherein those and only those she could bend over and you could see every thing (:

[meganamelia9]

Bikini underwear are the best if she isn't used to wearing thongs

although all she needs to do is wear thongs for maybe a week or so and then she won't even know its there

[Margarita]

Take her to Victorias Secret lol she can buy panties that look sexy but not like grannys! By the way you have to get use to a thong, at first its uncomfortable then you can't leave without them on! Plus you wear jeans, a dress, leggings etc you don't want your panties showing! She can find something fun that's not a thong though!

[Fairre]

i don't know, sometimes little bikinis can be sexy. you can get them in a wide array of colors, sizes, and prices. hell, try places like Target, Walmart or Shopko. super cheap but still sexy and assorted.

[Asker]

Hey I like the sound of that.

[kayla14kathan]

lacy undies...silky...or get really mini boody undies

[jennataylor]

cheekies seem like a good in between they are still comfortable too! haha

[Marrryyyyy]

go to the store TOGETHER. ask her what she likes. then find something that you like in the same material and buy it for her

[Shannonn]

I'm the same, I just won't wear thongs lol.

Could try french knickers? they are sexy & comfortable.

[jacquesvol]

This could help to chose: link :D

[girlknowsbest65]

try cheekies

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they work even if your butt isn't that big

lol

trust me

[Anonymous]

i hate granny panties. go with boy shorts

[Mbrames119]

Go with granny panties on your periods!

[Anonymous]

Crotchless pantie! Look at fredericks's of hollywood's website

[Asker]

Wow I definitely like that idea. You have a lucky boyfriend!

[Opinion Owner]

Lol Don't have one but thanx x)

[Anonymous]

boyshorts are comfy and sexy. TRY IT

[Anonymous]

Thongs are really uncomfortable, whatever you do, if she doesn't want to wear them - don't make her! Girl's boxers, and french knickers(The lacy ones) are pretty comfortable, yet can look pretty good.:)

[Anonymous]

I think you are demanding too much from her! The question is, why do YOU have a problem with her wearing granny panties? It's her body. not yours. Usually the "sexy" underwear is the most uncomfortable. If you have a problem with what she's wearing then you should probably buy her what you like, but she is not obligated to wear it.

[Asker]

I wouldn't say I'm asking too much from her because I'm willing to compromise. I want her to be comfortable but surely there is something that is comfortable and stll sexy.

[Opinion Owner]

You never answered my question. Why do you have a problem with her wearing granny panties? She should be sexy to you no matter what she's wearing. Would you wear a thong if she asked you to? There are underwear that is comfortable and "sexy", but I think you are overstepping your boundaries. The most you can do is buy some "sexy" underwear for her and hope she wears it.

[Asker]

I guess my problem is she is sexy to me but sorry granny panties just are not. I'm not asking her to wear a thong because I can understand how they wouldn't be comfortable and with her body type not very flattering. I would wear something different though if she didn't like my underwear, or anything else for that matter. What I've told her is that we go buy underwear together so that we can agree on things that would be comfortable and sexy for US.

[Opinion Owner]

First of all, stop comparing her to your ex-girlfriends. You are being selfish and making a big deal out of nothing, not to mention possibly ruining her self-esteem. She's not asking you to change the type of underwear you wear, so I don't think it's fair that you are asking her to change the type of underwear she wears. Why does it matter what she has under her clothes when you go out? No one is going to see it. Why are you trying to control what she wears? Goodness!

[Asker]

Haha I'm definitely not comparing her by any means and I definitely am not trying to lower her self esteem. What if your boyfriend put on something really nice for you and took you out, then you get home and undress him and he's wearing some underwear that are old and have holes in them? You gotta tie it all together. I'm totally not trying to control what she wears at all.

[Opinion Owner]

If my "husband" did that I wouldn't care because it would probably be coming off anyway. Besides, it's just underwear. I'm not superficial like that, as long as they are clean I wouldn't care what they looked like. If my husband asked me to wear sexy underwear I would try to do as he requested but I would feel very embarrassed and kinda sad. I think you should be glad that she allows you to see her underwear at all. Can't you see that you are being at least a little selfish?

[Asker]

I think selfish would be if I asked her to wear something uncomfortable. I'm just asking for a compromise. I like the little things. If she is dressed all nice but then has grannies on I'm still gonna do her don't get me wrong but it wouldn't be as sexy if she had something hot on underneath. It's all about getting that mind going.

[Opinion Owner]

Whatever man, you seem unwilling to just let it go (which is a sign that you are indeed being selfish). I hope that you don't end up making your girlfriend feel like crap. Good luck.

[Asker]

Well thanks for the advice I guess that's what I was here for. Trust me I would never intentionally make her feel like crap, she's a good girl.

[Anonymous]

idk. just about any kind of underwear can be sexy. cheekies are my favorite. they are both comfortable and sexy. bikini style is fine too. granny panties seem like they would be uncomfortable lol.

[Mbrames119]

Wear granny panties on your periods and get over it!