I think a lot depends on your relationship with him. If your relationship is starting to get boring it could pose a problem, but not from the strippers. They usually don't look all that great. Since alcohol will be flowing and possible harder stuff plus sluts will be available, he'll still be okay if he can handle temptation. But without even going to any frat parties he's faced with these same kinds of things. So If you have been able to trust him so far you should be able to trust him there no matter what goes on. It's all up to the person. If it gets too bad he should have enough common sense to leave and come back home. I'd say not to worry, let him have some fun and in the future go with him to any of those if you get the chance. So far, you've gotten some excellent advice that I'm sure you'll be paying attention to.
I'm in a frat and during the big party weeks we sometimes have strippers, but these are rare occasions so I wouldn't really worry about it.
In regards to him hooking up with a random girl, it comes down to trust as others have mentioned. It is likely that there will be tons of girls around but you must be comfortable with your partner being around other girls yet remaining responsible enough not to do something stupid.
well I am in a sorority and go to allot of frat parties. Yes there will be A LOT of girls! ah those freshies lol beer pong, every drunk dancing laughing a mess lol. Of course people will be hooking up left and right. But as everyone else said It all depends on how much you trust him! I would let him go don't be one of those insecure girls that keeps the guy by her side I hate that, the guys won't like that and they are frat brothers you know. Let him go to this one, but try to go to some of them with him the more his friends know you I think less likely he would cheat or they would try have his back when he is super drunk? I mean he is a part of a fraternity they will be having parties and hanging out just more then an average guy would
okay I am going to be honest with you...being that I am currently a college student at a school where there is not much to do but hang out at the frats and usually when they have parties there is a lot of alcohol and yes there will be plenty of girls there...dunno bout strippers...just sluts...not that I am calling myself a slut...but there is no shortage of them around frat houses and it only gets worse when everyone gets drunk...
i would say that if your boyfriend is mature and you guys have strong mutual trust...you do not have much to worry about...there probably will be temptation for him though...
i hooked up with my boyfriend at a dorm party freshers week last year and he has never strayed. as far as I can remember on 2 strippers in the nearly 2 years that I have been there have been hired and even then they were crap and my boyfriend was not bothered. trust him he'd probably just be having a good time with his mates.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!I wouldn't worry about strippers too much. I'm sure that's possible, but it isn't that likely. If you don't trust him, drunk hookups are way more of a worry. Of course if you don't trust him any situation is a worry.
If you can't trust him for a few hours away from you, why do you want him? I really do not understand how you could become attached to someone that is not trustworthy.
There are never strippers at frat parties. Random hookups, yes. There is a good chance he will be hit on by drunken or even sober girls. If I were you I would let him go, but ask that he doesn't drink very much or not at all. You just have to trust him.
I never understood why women were jealous of strippers. If you were worried about anything be worried about the drunk girls running around. If you trust him though it shouldn't be such a concern.
just give him a little trust?
no, there aren't strippers. Hookups do happen, though. Either you trust him or you don't.
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