Is innocence a turn on?

[Anonymous]

I keep reading this stories about virgin girls who want to know how they can avoid telling the guy they´re gonna lose it with that they never had sex before. Girls who don´t like being virgins or who think it´s terrible and hide it from everyone not that is anyone´s business anyway) Today I was watching a movie in which the girl was very hot (she was around 21) but she seemed very innocent and kind of afraid ut curious at the same time about haing sex with a guy. The guy was like EXTREMELY turned on about the fact that this inexperienced girl wanted to have sex with him. So I don´t really understand. is it a turn on? or a turn off? Why do you think all these virgin girls think being inexperienced is terrible?

[Malcom_Reynolds]

It is for me. Although I have gone on record many times saying that if a girl told me she was a virgin, I wouldn't read anything into it, it wouldn't be a turn on or a turn off, and I still stand by it.

I realize the above sounds contradictory so let me explain: innocence is more a behavior than inexperience. At university I had a friend who believed in no sex before marriage (good christian girl), but I never considered her innocent. I do believe that she still is a virgin, but seeing her at parties, getting drunk and making out with other straight girls, telling really dirty jokes, and occasionally winding up in her underwear, let's just say she did not give off the innocent vibe. This is mostly because she just set her own limits and that was that.

All that being said, my friend described above is an exception. Despite virginity not automatically meaning innocent, there is a strong correlation. That is, people who are virgins tend to be innocent for obvious reasons.

Going back to your question, yes innocence is a turn on for me. I think it's really cute. I find a girl who's quite innocent gives off a better sense of sincerity as well. They don't tend to play games as much mostly because they don't know how. This doesn't mean that the above can't be true of a girl who's not though.

I don't think it's an EXTREME turn on, they are aspects of "bad girls" that are turn ons as well, so it's just one personality trait that is usually a good thing.

Why do inexperienced girls think being inexperienced is terrible? Mostly because they don't know what guys will think, and are worried they'll be compared to more experienced girls.

[taster]

"Virgin" is not the same thing as "inexperienced" I don't think the vast majority of guys mind teaching an inexperienced girl...where the virgin part gets tricky is: How difficult is it going to be to get her to have sex the first time, how difficult will it be to execute the actual sex and does she equate sex and love and will she want to marry her first lover...o.O

[oOsweet~o~nessOo]

Man people think the grass is always greener on the other side - ALWAYS.

When your not a virgin, it's good to be a virgin

When your a virgin, somehow it's bad to be so.

Quit worrying about what everyone else thinks, and focus on what honestly matters to you. Your innocence and sexuality is yours to decide, and shouldn't be based off of anyone else's notion of how they feel about sexual experience and what not.

If a guy you like is really that concerned about your sexuality, chances are he's not even going to date you, and sure in the hell isn't worth changing over.

You will always get both sides to this question, from some guys liking an innocent girl, to others wanting a more experienced girl.

It's normal to want to do stuff with guys, because since the start of your period, your body has been ripe for reproduction and sexual intercourse, so your getting hormones and instinctual pushes to breed and bond with another human. Nothing else to it.

This site's male population is generally comprised of more conservative, sexually and realtionship inexperienced men, who are a bit masogenistic and will readily prefer the ideal untouched girl, and argue you to death that this is what every single man on the planet wants.

Not gonna lie, men are more comfortable in general, with dating a girl with a relatively LOW amount of sexual partners. But the virgin deal is a give or take nowadays - as women aren't being stoned to death for not being one now lol :P

[Anonymous]

omg I hate all these "innocence" and "virgin" questions. So annoying! If a man finds you attractive he will like you either way

[Claretica]

BA this.

[guy532]

HA! I was once crazy for a girl that was insanely attractive, smart, sweet, and just plain amazing. Then I found out she was a drunk slut and now I hate her guts. So no, if a man finds you attractive he will not automatically like you either way.

[Opinion Owner]

Look I'm sure she thought bad of you as well. You obviously have no respect for yourself or women if you call them a slut. I'm sure you wouldn't want someone calling your mother a "drunk slut" or your future daughter

[guy532]

It's a huge turn on. I think this explains why it is, the best link

[sikoo31]

SUCH a turn on OMGWTFBBQ

can's I have link to that video?

cause they won't know what to do, they think the guy won't like that she won't be very good.

[sikoo31]

why the hate? I wasn't even trying to piss anyone off this time

[Asker]

I?m sorry! Wasnt me! Thanks for your answer!

[sikoo31]

o I know, I was just speaking in general

[lv4lv]

Big turn on.

[Anonymous]

It is neither a turn on or turn off but if a female acts childish or too naive then it is a turn off