How to tell my boyfriend he sucks at fingering?

My boyfriend sucks at fingering. He is great with his toung (oral sex) but when he fingers me, it gets boring. I want him to play with my G spot and play around with my p**** more. . How do I break it to him and how should I tell him to go on "google: how to finger a girl." I'm not trying to be rude, I never knew how to properly give a good bj untill I learned from google. please help :)
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Thanks guys :) But YEAH of course I do need to communicate to him yet also make him confortable & not feel offed. I just feel uncomfortable to say it. He makes it werid sometimes. Maybe we are moving to fast I don't know . ANyway thank you :)
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Most Helpful Girl

  • just tell him when he's doing it, touch it thr, go deeper. faster, harder. have you tried this? not not, get off the computer, drop those panties and let him practice till its perfect lol

    u can take your hand and show how to place his fingers

    make it sexy, stand it front of him with your legs wide and say ima show you how to really finger a girl, sit on his lap and say would you like to volunteer?

    • You naughty girl ha ha ha

    • i try lol

Most Helpful Guys

  • Don't tell him he sucks without having suggestions in mind. That makes you lazy and unhelpful for not wanting to provide a solution while expecting him to learn on his own.

    Teach him what makes you feel good. If you don't communicate it to him, he'll never know.

  • He may not suck at it. He just doesn't do it the way you like. Don't think all women like the same.

    You don need to tell him he's bad. You just need to tell him what feels good to you.

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  • The next time, just vocally approve when he gets it right, and when he gets off, just say something like "no baby, this way!".

  • "you suck at fingering"

  • Yo, just tell him. It's all about communication.

  • I have 10 fingers that aren't doing anything lol.

    • They are typing.

    • LOL I meant after that.

    • Chaffing? lol happens to the best of us.

  • guide him. When he's fingering you, just tell him what feels good. Tell him shallower, deeper, faster, slower, more/less fingers...whatever. Or just tell him it feels so good when he eats you out, flatter his ego a bit. Then he'll just stick with that/

  • tell him you'd like it if he tried this and that with his fingers so he knows what you like