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Are you weirded out by pee fetishes guys/girls?

so for some reason I have one. I don't want anyone to see me do it or do it on anyone but the idea of watching a guy do it/him do it to me turns me on. i don't know if it would turn me on in real life but in my head it does. sometimes those fantasies enter my mind when I masturbate. I think of this guy I'm talking to who turns me on doing it. but he isn't my boyfriend just some gray area. however I don't know if I would feel comfortable telling a guy I want it. one time he (guy I'm talking to)teasingly made a joke about him peeing on me if we had sex and also asked me if I'm into that stuff "like peeing and that weird sh*t" but then he asked "i mean, don't you think it's disgusting?" so is he into it too and just testing the waters? I feel weird admitting it. I even feel grossed out by myself that I'm into it. he and I have made out before but never slept with each other at this point but it may happen in the future.
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do you think he's into it and was trying to see my reaction?
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can anyone please answer my update.. thanks :)
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Most Helpful Guys

  • First of all...the science is ALL on your side...kissing is less clean than anything to do with urine...Second of all..I think most guys like to watch a girl pee...it is true though, that the percentage who desire contact with pee is substantially less...still, never forget this...a lot of guys are simply afraid to tell females that they are into pee and my guesstimate is that at least one in 10 is into some kind of urolagnia...all of the male mammals I have observed seem to be into it...I have a 100% success rate with my steady gfs (I never had the nerve to ask a non-steady)...but most people can be reprogrammed..none of these people thought that pee was disgusting when they were born...they were too successfully socialized by friends & family or, even more likely, developed a phobia on their own...the majority of people who love their mate can be redirected...but probably not overnight...my wife took it totally in stride when she found out I was "into pee" could not hide her surprise when she found out I wanted to drink it...but she did just fine...(:(:(:

    • @Update..yes it sounds as though there is a very good possibility that he was gauging your reactions...There are a lot of tests that you can do..porn is certainly one of those...really little indicators will occur over a period of time.certainly need not be years...my wife, being a nurse, never complained about cleaning up blood & urine..did not like being spit on though and hated cleaning up sh*t & p*ke...(:(:(:

    • ME or...him...should get best answer lol

    • If we are not already friended then you should do so..I have YEARS of experience at this and can probably give you a lot of advice...(:(:(:

  • He's already brought it up at least twice before so if he brings it up again it is obviously something on his mind. If he ever says anything about peeing again tell him you want to watch him pee right now and if he says "that's gross" or something like that then just tell him you were messing around and tell him to quit talking about it if he thinks it's gross. If you're not shy and want to watch him pee then tell him you're curious how guys pee and want to see it once or twice before you die lol. If you tell him it's just a curious thing he may let you watch.

    PS, I have a pee fetish also! I would love if my girlfriend squatted over me in the bath tub and peed all over me : ) I don't ask for that though because it seems weird lol. If I ever feel like I have an opening I will bring it up though.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Just go into the bathroom with him and chill out. You can do that if you're close or love one another I suppose and eventually you're going to be in the bathroom at some point or another especially if you live with one another. I went into the bathroom with mi boyfriend at the time and he was like "what are you doing in here?" I just told him that I wanted to see him pee. of course he asked why. I just wanted to see because I was curious. annnd of course he's like ooookkaayyy? lol. It made mi wonder why all the mens toilets were so messy =/ he could aim just fine. lol. If it turns you on after you do it just tell him when you feel you've gotten close to him. Being open about your fantasies and how you feel is a good way to build your relationship instead of holding back.

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    • lol. how? =P

    • Want to drink it dummy..o.O

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  • he might've been, you should ask him would you ever pee on a girl if she was into it sexually? if he says ew, say I'm wondering caus som1 online said something bout it so I wanted to know.

    if he says yes he wana try it tell to rub your clit with his d*** then let it out, might wana dent over in the tub to avoid mess. lol my boyfriend thought he was into it so we tried it like that and he said he wasn't into like he thought he would but he was glad that I didn't judge him and I tried it out. in fact I might've liked it more than he did lol

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    • i ment bent! hahaha. i think this girl deserves best answer lol

  • Not something I'm into or something I'd engage in, but a person is allowed to have their fetish(es) or preferences.

    I don't really think it's as common as the interweb will make it out to be, because apparently everything is common on here, period sex, anal etc. To each their own.

    It takes a certain level of trust and vulnerability to tell a partner and that's fine, take your time. It should be on your terms

    • OK..let's lay out your guess..percentage-wise?

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  • No I find it interesting, with both guys and girls peeing. I dated a guy who would let me hold his penis as he pissed, which was hot, I have been watched and watched both girlfriends and boyfriends pee, we all pee everyday, so it is no big deal.

    • Do you have pee fetish. I like watching girls squatting with a strong stream. we can be friends then.lol

    • Hi, nice to meet you. Are you really interested about the pee? It is quite rare to listen to from a girl... I would be very glad to have a little chat with you... may I send you a message? I don't want to bother anyone, just to know what kind of interest the other people have into this pee stuff... Hope to have a chance.. bye

  • Not weirded out.

    • Actually..u just about as weird as me?...(:(:(:(:

  • not weird, that's hot.

  • Not weirded out. I have had a pee fetish since the fifth grade when I peed myself in front of my class.

  • Everyone has their things that they like. I personally don't mind it. I'm not going to go out of my way and ask for it, but if it's what she likes, then I suppose I'm open to it. I'm very open minded sexually so most of the time I don't really judge people on what they like. We're all different. He may be testing to see if your open to it. People will sometimes say something like a joke and if your reaction isn't "I don't know, I like it." and it seems like you don't like it then they'll jump and say "it's gross isn't it?, and "I hate that stuff." They may actually not like it, but they may also (as you said) be testing the waters to see your reaction. I've talked to people all the time who say they don't like something, and if they ask me and I say I like it then they'll say that they actually do to.

  • I would be a little weirder out by it but I am not going to say I wouldnt. However if we were talking about fecal matter then I would be grossed out

  • Wait till you have normal sex to tell him IF you decide to break it to him

  • I'm not really into getting used a as a toilet but I mean if some girl really wanted me to give her the old Cleveland steamer, I would consider it I guess.

    • Eh? Pee isn't cool..but you would sh*t on her chest? O.O

    • It's more of an inside joke that nobody here would understand. I would not pee or poop on anyone.

    • What part of Wisconsin are you from?..? Been drinking too much of that Point Beer? ..and I think you are outside because I love a woman and her pee..(:(:(:

  • I wouldn't be grossed out by that and would pee on a girl if she asked me to. I am guessing since he brought it up, he was probably testing the waters to see if you were into it. Doesn't seem like something a guy would just bring up if he was not interested in trying it.

    • Would you let your guy friend see you pee naked?

  • I would be very curious about what kind of stuff do you like about pee...
    Personally I do appreciate when a girl is desperate to pee... at the point where she could pee herself!

  • that can go either way depending on guy and situation. However, I do not know of any guys who would be into any of that type of stuff.

  • The dreaded two sided loaded question. I dont see why anyone would bring up the topic unless they were very into it or very against it. But I know of late, I've tried to be as forward as possible to the extent that I'll mention it privately with a girl I've known just to gauge her response. If it's not a negative (and it wasn't) I can use it for future reference or she may too.

    What makes it difficult is that I would prefer being completely honest and letting them know of the fetish straight away. But I also don't want it to be a defining moment either. There's much more that goes into relating and much more that can truly be enjoyable. Most experiences have been very positive on the whole.

    I truly believe there's an intimacy that can be reached by exploring unlike any other. There's lot of orgasm triggers it seems that are related to urethral excitation or pee play as I like to call it.

  • No I am turned on

  • Nope. For me watching a girl pee especially as a part of masturbation is very erotic. Not disgusting gross or wierd.

  • As long as its a girl anything to do with pee is good for me.

  • i don't really have a fetish but I really like pee. thinking of being peed on almost feels relaxing so no, I don't think it's weird. plus, pee is clean.

    • plus, it would be a turn on because it means she is more perverted. he may actually be into it. that's why he asked what you think about it. otherwise he would have just stated it as fact.

  • If he said it was disgusting he is probably not into it.

    I don't like it personally but that doesn't matter although that was your question.

    Thing is there are men who will WANT to urinate on you. So you just need to look for that.

    • Yeah, I don't suggest that you go into the bathroom with people like other person suggested. If somebody tried to impose their fetish on me without telling be beforehand I would be upset although I'm female, a guy might not be as upset. Still it's not a good idea and a bit of a violation. Need to tell the person first what is up.

    • he said "so are you into that weird sh*t like pee?" then kind of quickly added "it's disgusting isn't it" and then another time we were kind of tipsy and he's like "im going to pee on you to mark my territory" so I thought that made him seem into it but wasn't sure

    • Well, I see that you are trying to read into his few comments and the thing is nobody here on gag can tell you what is going through his mind. I think you should just tell him upfront that you want him to pee on you, just tell him that you are curious and ASK him if he would do it for you. He just might say yes.

  • Not sure if it's qualified as a fetish for me, but I have a sexual urge when men urinate in close proximity to me. I've had maybe one fantasy a while ago of a guy actually pissing on me, but eh. I think it's more about the relief men exasperate when they finally get that " release " via urinating. Reminds me of him just cumming a ridiculous amount lol. I would just wait till your sex life gets pretty regular, and then start hinting and asking him if it's something he would like to try?

    • omg that is the SAME thing for me, the same exact reason I get turned on by it. I guess it's common?

    • I mean, from my experience it is pretty common - one of my friends is into major BDSM type stuff, so I go with her sometimes to hangout with other people who are into the same thing ( just for fun, I'm not sexually active,) and majority of the time they all are into the pee thing and what not.

    • well my friend always made jokes about rough sex..that guy..like whisper "i'll f*** you so hard" in my ear when we were out together and whatnot. it turned me on but I'm actually not very experienced only had sex with one guy very few times and it's new for me. plus my friend is older and way more experienced. so it turned me on but made me apprehensive too.

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  • I've done pee stuff. It's kinda fun. I don't see myself wanting to do it a ton, but it was worth the try.

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