Why do I get so aroused after an argument with my boyfriend?

[Anonymous]

we never get violent or say very hurtful things to each other, but when he goes off on his crazy rants, I get extremely hot afterward. we had an argument last night and after we were done I was fully charged and this happens to me after every argument and it will last for days, it's really intense too, my skin gets very receptive to touch and my nerve endings seem to get closer to my skin or something. pity he is currently half way across the world. lol anyway is there a biological reason why this happens?

[Anonymous]

anger and arousal come from the same areas of the brain or something like that. there is scientific evidence.

it also happens with fear.

there is this guy I dated and I would get so aroused when I felt angry at him. I would fantasize about hate sex.

also one time he looked annoyed and he got a flash of anger on his face and it made me so hot

he was a lawyer and he told me he fights hard in court and imagining that turns me on too.

i guess I like aggression.

[Asker]

yes me too lol

[Anonymous]

im sort of the same way, I wouldn't say I get aroused, per se, but it does sort of turn me on. It s just part of who you are, be glad youve got a man who enjoys it with you! I can't find anyone like that, ;(

[jpinka]

lol if you wana scare him and excite during a fight

push him on the bed and say pull your pants off, lay down, ima ride, and your gona shut up and enjoy it! lol

u might be into angry sex

[Asker]

LMAO. hahahahah I am a prude. well... sometimes (blush)

[womensuck]

well jpinka, what gets you aroused?

[Asker]

OMG. LOLOLOL come on, lot's pf things (blush)

[jpinka]

@women suck...really? suck by what means? lol anyway I like soft bondage, touch, forced sex, and feeling dirty. oh, and dirty talk (during sex). yeeea me and my guy have fun

[Asker]

hahahahhahahaha your awesome!

[jpinka]

coughs like comment, cough cough BEST coughs! cough! ANSWER lol

[jpinka]

u know, I also dated a woman and every time she got mad I got horny and I would grope her while she was still yelling lol

[Asker]

lmao

[Asker]

i do that to him sometime lol

[jpinka]

when he yelling you should pull his d*** out and suck him

[Asker]

0_o lol

[Asker]

you do realize your not helping my situation right now right? you are actually the feeling worst

[spike1point5]

Angry sex. Definitely. If it's really angry, like you're so mad you want to kill them...best ever. Really. The best sex I ever had was with someone I hated, we actually went from physically fighting to f***ing in under a minute. Give angry sex a try. Groping him during an argument will probably do this. I would advise not doing it somewhere with breakable things around, violent sex can be...destructive.

[jpinka]

question asker: if I'm not helping dnt take my advice. you ask I answer, its your choice to take the advice if you dnt want it don't take it. Spike: hahahaha wow violent? I dnt want cuts and bruises after sex lol

[spike1point5]

cuts and bruises nothing :P I had some bite marks that didn;t fully fade for like 4 months. This chick had actually tried to kill me once or twice and...yeah. It's this bizarre emotion that you want to cause someone pain AND make sure they feel so good they can't walk, all at the same time. So instead of just pushing her against the wall, I actually slammed her into it hard enough to crack it. Instead of just gripping me with her legs, she almost broke my ribs...yeah. it was fun.

[jpinka]

yall make me look like a kitten lol

[spike1point5]

;) It's a common side-effect, I'm simultaneously proud and ashamed to admit

[jpinka]

pft well I know we nt hooking up leme just zip my pants now lol but I'm glad you know how to have fun. dnt be ashamed

[Prof_Don]

It seems like you like "passionate make-up sex".

I will admit...to a certain degree, I am the same way. Not necessarily because of the fight itself, but because when we make-up, I realize that whatever we argued, wasn't worth losing her...then I get a bit emotionally gushy. Not tears, just affectionate love. :)

I get a bit emotionally gushy during fight make-ups, and then let the makeup sex begin!

Too bad your guy is not within reach. :(

[Asker]

yea major bust. I still can't recover from the feeling :(

[Anonymous]

haha XD

thats crazy! is it sensitive to other people or do you feel sensations better? why do you argue when he's so far away? does he go to school?

[Asker]

crazy argument about a guy I called babe on Facebook :p. it was over the phone

[womensuck]

Maybe you never experiance what it's like for a guy to physically over power you against your will. Other wise, you might would get turned off after every argument with your man.

I'm jus guessing

[Asker]

maybe. I don't know, not many men have the cojones to actually beat me at an argument