I wish I was in that position...im cool with a little ruff sex...and most men think women are psycho if they cry during or after sex. The guy I love never understood why I cried after sex once...im not an emotional girl or a psycho but when you love someone sometimes the emotions just come out after amazing sex. Just like your best answer mentioned it only happened because my emotions were so strong for him. Wish more men liked that.
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I think that is somewhat normal. Every guy is different. And sometimes, depending on what is happening in his life he just wants to feel powerful. The key is to have boundaries and a safe word because A: you don't want to be emotionally hurt if it goes further than you expected it to and don't know "who he is anymore." and B: you can actually damage stuff down there so not all pain is good pain
1 0 0 0That's good advice. Thank you!
I think it is really hot when a girl cries a bit during sex either due to the pain or just because the emotions are really strong for me. As long as she's not in agony, a little bit of pain, pleasure and emotions are a really hot cocktail if you ask me. A lot of guys I think like that idea, but don't want to admit to it, less a girl think wrongly that he's abusive.
0 1 0 0Yeah I had the feeling that a lot of guys like it but don't want to admit it. I mean, my boyfriend only admitted it after he got really comfortable with me. So yeah. Thanks!
It turns me on when a girl whimpers a bit. It is my male ego thing, and we like it. Hey, our d*** is so big and strong that it is hurting her a bit, but she's not asking us to stop! Hot, hot, hot! Or, she's whimpering because our d*** is giving you a bit of pleasureful pain, plus you are emotionally connected enough to cry. Super hot! Men like it when women feel a bit vulnerable, which is why we also like rough sex/rape fantasies as well, even though we think you might judge us for it.
That's a really good explanation of the thinking that goes behind this. Thanks so much! It makes sense now :) I mean, as long as I know the reason isn't "I want to hurt you because I don't care about you" I won't judge him for rough sex/rape fantasies.
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0 4thats a bit weird, you'd imagine crying during sex would be like forced entry, maybe he has a rape fetish
0 1 0 0We do roleplay and one of them is a rape roleplay, although I'm the one who usually initiates that one, not him. Idk...
your the one with a rape fetish? maybe he is just going along with that
Maybe. I mean, we like to incorporate some dominance/submission things in sex so I guess that could just be part of it. Tears just seemed a little strange as a turn-on
I can't understand what's worse, the fact that you have a rape fetish or that he likes to hear you cry...both are disgusting, no offence.
0 1 3 1Rape fantasies are the #1 fantasy for woman according to a study I read somewhere... so I guess you're just disgusted by women in general.
I am not disgusted by women. I'm disgusted by the thought that a girl would actually want to be raped.
It's totally normal! All guys likes it at some extent.
0 0 0 0your boyfriend needs a doctor
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