Girls who cockblock their friends at the club...why?!?

[Anonymous]

I'm sure this will sound bad to some of you but I'm just being real about it...not trying to offend. could you ladies explain why you do this? I'm not even talking about your guy friends because most of you help your guy friends out... but why do you keep your girl friends from getting some. like why is it that girls will go out as a group and then one girl will do the "we came as a group gotta leave as a group" bs. is it because that one girl can't get a guy to want her? is it because you feel like you have to protect the others from their own desires? I'm really trying to understand this because guys help their friends out

[NoOneListens21]

lol. Guys can **** block even if they are friends or not. It could be any reason from she doesn't like you or that you don't know her friend and mainly she doesn't know you. People can take advantage of you especially in that situation. Her friend may be jealous but there could be other reasons as well. She might just be trying to be a good friend even if it comes off as bitchy to you. All I can really say is when it comes to mi friends we have that discussion before and what they want. If they say they can take care of themselves then I just warn em and let them do what it is they want even if it's stupid imo. If they say they want mi to look out for em I will. =P So don't just chalk it up as her being a **** blocking bitch. =P

[jpinka]

i don't go to clubs but I will tell you y.

ill start with an example

a guy on this site said he taught a girl a lesson becasue she was being a hoe, she wanted a ride and they said OK an they left her. she f***ed 2 of his friends and she tried f***ing him.

so as long as you have guys who are a**hole you will have **** blocks. if guys can get laid and be respectful at the same time AND after f***ing a bitch or a hoe you won't have **** blocks. but until then, we blocking lol

but not every1 is around for safe harmless fun. too many pple take advantage of others and girlfriends protect their girls

[may04]

Honestly a big part if it is safety. There's a lot of psychos out there and willingly letting an intoxicated friend of mine go home with a stranger that could be one of these is a no go. Besides, even if the guy is harmless (which I'm sure most are), she's still drunk (or at least that's how me and all my friends are). She may have a different opinion on the guy and what she wants once the alcohol wears off. Exchange numbers and if she decides she wants to chat the next day once she's sober that's her call.

[prophecy]

did you notice that in most of these cases only the ugly friends are doing that? this is called jealousy.

of course, if the guy is a jerk or they discussed this earlier that's another story.

[Asker]

yes it is 90% of the time the fatty does it. oh wait she's not fat she's thick & curvy according to here

[Xx_DRE_xX]

Because there control freaks that want to have say over the situation. When you think about it, they technically save her from being a slut so, it pays in the end right? lol

[Asker]

yeah because her grinding the crease out of my pants for an hour didn't look slutty at all lol

[Xx_DRE_xX]

Ehh...your right, still just tell the **** blocker to f*** off. She'll respect you for being a man so will the girl.

[XxNatashaxX]

what a joke, just because a girl dances with you doesn't mean she want to f*** you. my friends and I have a rule that if we're drunk we leave together, if we're sober we make our own choices about whether or not we leave with the group. definitely listen to xxdre if you want to get laid, everyone likes being told to f*** off.

[Xx_DRE_xX]

Is that sarcasm?

[cookiemonster12]

Because I don't want her to make a listake. A lot of times at clubs guys can be very aggressive and the girls kind of just give in. I know that a lot of times my friends are drunk and I don't want them making a mistake!

And that's a general rule for us, we all leave together for safetly reasons

[simples3]

The whole aggressive thing is understandable, but what makes you such a good judge of character? -especially when you are under the influence of alcohol yourself.

[cookiemonster12]

well odds are he's under the influence too. Sorry for being a good friend.

[Anonymous]

If my friend is drunk and not of sound mind, I'm looking out for her safety.other than that I don't **** block. No one can really stop their friend from doing what they want.if the girl t really wanted to leave with the guy she wouldn't let what her friend said stop her.

[Xx_DRE_xX]

Stop lying.

[Opinion Owner]

You're lying to yourself.maybe ole girl didn't want to F*** like you thought

[Anonymous]

Personally when that happens it's because the girl just doesn't like the guy or want him and they're too nice to say no. So the other girl friends help them out in ways like that.